difference between a girl and a grown woman..^__^
By zer0charly
@zer0charly (5614)
Philippines
August 29, 2007 1:54am CST
I've read this through internet and I wanted to share it with you specially to all the girls and grown women out there!..
GIRLS,want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN,know that if he's truly hers.she doesnt need to control his man.
GIRLS,are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN,revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
GIRLS,ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN,ignore the bad guys.
GIRLS,make you come home.
GROWN WOMEN,make you want to come home.
GIRLS,leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN,make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
GIRLS,worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
GROWN WOMEN,know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
GIRLS,try to monopolize all their man's time.(i.e.dont want him hanging out with his friends.)
GROWN WOMEN,realize that a lili'bit of space makes the "together time" even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.
GIRLS,think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN,offer their shoulder and a tissue.
GIRLS,want to be spoiled "tell" their man so.
GROWN WOMEN,show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his "manhood".
GIRLS,get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN know that was just one man.
GIRLS,fall inlove and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection,ignoring all "signs"
GROWN WOMEN,know that sometimes the one you love,dont always love you back-and-move on,without bitterness.
WELL,..I AM PARTLY A GROWN WOMAN..coz i sometimes do what was written on the girls side..I dont know,but sometimes,when it comes to relationship,I act and decide just like a normal girls..
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17 responses
@michecu (637)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
Hm, I think I'm a grown woman now. But honestly, I've been through the "girl" phase. :) I can relate to all those things a "girl" does. But then anyway, every woman has to go through that phase in order to be a grown woman. It's experience that make us wiser. And being wise gives you the confidence that makes a girl a woman.
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
yeah.all of us go through a girls stage.but because we learn from our everyday experiences,we grow up and became a grown woman.
-thanks for responding!
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
that was so deep huh?
-thanks for responding!
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@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
3 Sep 07
A good contrast between girls and women have many different, but as long as there are beautiful souls, whether girls or women are lovely.
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
lol..that's right..girls are the beautiful creature here on earth.haha!
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
31 Aug 07
Interesting post. I'm still cautious because I am aware even a woman's heart can change dramatically on a whim. Also, I do believe women do not completely grow out of being girls (the same way men don't completely grow out of being boys ;p). Hence the need for some awareness. We all have our flaws, but attempts at growth and understanding make things a bit easier for everyone.
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
3 Sep 07
yeah..that's right..instead,girls grow as a women and boys grow as a man..and that is maturity..
-thanks for responding!
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@patels (65)
•
7 Sep 07
iam sameer iam 18 years old and iam disturbing your discussion with girls iam male and could't leave with out a women and i already have a girl friend , iam responding to you because iam your friend and i obey with you that girls have to be brave,they are kind hearted towards other but they have to make freinds and live freely in this worlds controling their emotions and my gf is so cute and she is freely behave with me like a best friend but and i feel lucky that she cares my friendship
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
how sweet of you..your girl is very lucky to have you..
-i also cant live without my boyfriend..^__^
-thanks for responding!
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
17 May 08
Well, that separates girls from women then. Thanks for sharing this. It is useful and informative. Good job. It explains a lot about me too. I don't try to control a man anymore, I just let them be. I used to try to change and control a man in my younger days. So, much of what you have mentioned here, are true to some extend.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
21 May 08
yeah me too..actually, i am partly a girl and a grown woman.
-thanks for responding!
@geeta151 (312)
• India
29 Aug 07
A woman has been a girl but the girl was never a woman!there are so many things that differenciate awoman from a girl.their body has yet to grow physically mentally and also spiritually.The process of transformation is a long and enduring one.It is silent in some and loud with others.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
wow!i love that phrase.."A WOMAN HAS BEEN A GIRL BUT THE GIRL WAS NEVER A WOMAN"..well,I guess you are right..i agree with you..a woman was already finish into the "girl's stage"..
--keep on responding!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
hi!...being a woman is always in process..right time will come that you'll be a woman..
--keep on responding!
@satansoldat_666 (412)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Yeah agreed.................Girls are very different from Matured Women in terms of thought, action and guys.They seem to make the right choices unlike the Girls but sometimes, it disgusts me too see that some Girls just never grow up you know, they are just too immature in thinking and too delusional unlike the Women.....although i know one thing for sure...........................THERE ARE JUST LOTS OF THINGS THAT GIRLS NEVER CHANGE WHETHER THEY STAY LIKE GIRLS OR BECOME GROWN UP WOMEN.......I just cant instantly think of all but here are some:1.Loves shopping with other "girlfriends"(that never changes)
2.Loves hanging out with other girls
3.At most times, goes to the bathroom and "pees" together (i dont know why girls need to have a "pee" mate)
4.They just love talking non stop(this happens mostly between girls and grown women)
5.They always talk about guys a lot(even if they are married)
6.They spend hours in the bathroom
7.Your bathroom closet is filled with assorted makeup, napkins, other "essentials", cotton balls(there are literally thousands of em), p**sy wash and other stuff i dont really know
I dont know of other stuff lol but at least i could give 8 stuff they love doing
@satansoldat_666 (412)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Yeah i know the nature of girls very well although i thank you for elaborating my explanation of their nature lol.I do understand your nature as women and i respect that too.Yeah i was trying to pull some laughs here.I like the synchromities between men and women lol
-Thanks for you response!!!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
yeah..Im still laughing about what ive wrote in there..but i am so happy that you already understand the nature of us girls..
-you are very much welcome!and I'll never get tired of responding to you guys..muah!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
of course,maturity comes in process..not just in a blink of an eye..I believe that there are also some guys who are also immature like us girls..but of course,because of experience..a girl becomes a woman and boy becomes a man..as they say.."experience is the best teacher.."
here are my comments on what you've observed about us girls..:
1.shopping is the best anti-stress that the women always do..and all girls love shopping!
2.of course..we are girls,..so what will you expect?we also want to hang out with girls also..because we do have the same interest..but of course..we can be flexible..we can also hang out with boys if we want to.
3.lol."pee mate"..its fun to go to the wash room together with your friends.they can pee together,but of course,in different cubicle.
4.Its girls nature..you can do nothing about it..we love to talk about anything under the sun..so deal with it!lol.
5.oh!come on!..guys are also doing that!..even worst!we girls just talk about boys..but you guys?..staring,dating,womanizing..what more can you ask for?lol.
6.I've already wrote about that..its women's nature..so deal with it.
7.come on!IT'S GIRL'S NATURE!!!!being kikay,maarte,and vain.we are just taking good care of ourselves.and i think theres nothing wrong about it.Im sure you guys are also taking good care of your body..but in a different ways.right?..and correction..its not a pu**y wash..its FEMININE WASH.remember that ok?its more formal than pu**y wash.lol.of course,we're just cleaning our feminine area..and there's nothing wrong about it..lol..
--it was so funny..i hope that i explained it well to you..i hope that i do make things clear to you regarding us girls..^__^
-keep on responding!
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
when we say girls we normally think that this is the young girls who doesn't know anything in life. those who are still in grade school or high school i guess... well, i think its normal process that everybody will undergo through that stage wherein you will think of something that sometimes we tend to make a lot mistakes in life until we finally learned through our experiences,and became a mature person called grown woman...right?...Ü
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
that's right..experience is the best teacher right?..and we learned because of that..
--I guess you explained it all clearly as crystal..
-thanks for responding!
@Vangakanuts11 (20)
• United States
30 Aug 07
this is a very good post. it is not only informative but it can make a lady to move from being a "girl" into being a "grown woman".
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
21 May 08
I would like to respond to this without having to find a quote to match it. I wonder if this is just some witty woman making it all up? I don't know and that's just how it is. Cheers!!!
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
21 May 08
Good points!! I can say that I am mostly a grown woman, with a little bit of "girl" still hanging on. Can't wait until I am a full grown woman!!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
22 May 08
oh yeah me too!..i am a partly grown woman.
-thanks for responding!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Im so happy that you appreciate it..I'll get more articles for all the woman outhere..
--keep on responding!
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
29 Aug 07
That was good reading, and maybe true to a certain degree. The thing that I would have to say is that it does take two to make a relationship, and going by your list is putting the onus on the woman/girl, and assuming that all men act the same! Maybe it also depends on whether the girl/woman is going out with a man, or maybe just a boy!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
i agree with you..relationship takes two to tango..
-thanks for responding!
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
I'd summarize that message in one word: maturity! I guess that's just it. And all the things stated in your discussion are all true. I hope all girls will get to read this message and live it. Especially grown up GIRLS who haven't quite matured. Great message! Hope to chat with you again!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
maturity..yeah..that's the right term..but all of us will get in that stage little by little..and experience is the best teacher for that..
-keep on responding!
