Gifts from your loved one

Some of my exes couldn't remember (or didn't do things for) my birthday/special days. But of course as a guy I had to remember the birthdays, the Valentines, the couple's day, sweetest day (and it was dependent on the relationship at the time, but yea lots of stigma if I didn't remember the special days.

I remember all of the special days for my loved ones. I always try to do something nice for them. Doesn't have to be expensive or anything. Even if it is giving a home made card or store up some cool freebies. HEHE My partner of over 11 years however hasn't done anything for my special days except maybe suggest love making. LOL I don't mind now though. I guess I am just used to it. I know he cares about me, just doesn't really do the mushy stuff. Never did. I think I would have a heart attack if he really ended up doing something for me at all. LOL

A lot of my special days have been forgotten across the plain of my existance as well, you have my sympathy.The gf that I have now, remembers everyone's everything, so i am blessed with beautiful birthdays and holidays now, and yes, I remember hers too, it's an honour to. :)

No, I dont "remember" any of these days at all. I dont celebrate birthdays and christmass because I dont see the point in recieving a lot of junk you cant use, and thus are forced to repay the favor. I dont celebrate christmass and other holidays because they are religious, and Im not. Yearly anniversaries is a celebration of the unity, that I do celebrate. Every christmass and newyears I work for free helping those less fortunate than me, as well as on all other special days where they have soopkitchens open for it. (I make a good santa because of my natural laugh apparantly lol)

Hi jillhill. I am sorry to hear that from you. Basically for me I will remember every single little thing happened between me and my love one. However, I am not quite sure whether my love one will remember those special date? I am not really sure about it.

Hello dear, I always remember birthdays and other special days of my love ones. Even family member who already passed away are remembered on their birthdays. I know it hurts when your significant other forget about your special days, you deserve better! ^_^

i am sorry to hear that.my husband always remember my birthday, even he didnt always buy me a gift or birthday cake because of our financial problem,but he always remember.not only my birthday but also on valentines day.and i always remember my friends,family and my husband bday or special day.always

We remember standard holidays and birthdays. I had a hard time remembering the exact date if his birthday, though, becuase I have a hard time with numbers, but I'm getting better at it. We won't have children and we don't have an aniversary yet, though.

I am sorry to hear that your ex-husband didn't remember those special days or events. That is not very nice. I am fortunate that my husband does remember every special event. We may not have a lot of money, but he remembers and always tries to do something special. My ex-husband was very nice about those things to. I think the nicest thing he did was climbed a magnolia tree and got me a blossom and brought it home just because he was thinking of me. I guess I have been pretty lucky for the most part.

Hi jillhill, my ex too never remembered my brthday, or any special day in my life,,, i felt so hurt u know.... But now my current bf is so sweet, he has been plannig my brthday one month in advanve, n keeps a track of all imp days in my life,, He is so caring,,, I mean dats y the other gut was an "ex" maybe,,casue they never cared so much,,, right??

Hi jillhill, It hurts when that special someone forgets your special days. I am very fortunate that way, my wife never forgets, nor do my grown children. I have always been careful to remember them as well. Whether you are a man or a woman, it's nice to know that you are not forgotten. I hope you are always remembered on your special days now. Blessings.

hello, jillhill. I am sorry that your ex didn't remember the special days for you. It is really a great pleasure to receiving the gifts from your loved one. But perhaps you ex is not that kind of people, yes, there are people that they cann't remeber the festivals or special days such as anniversary, birthday and so on. So forgive him. I am a sensitive and careful girl, as long as I know somebody's birthday I will remeber for such a long time that can make me give regards to them on the special day till now. As I am getting older, maybe I will forget, I don't know. Some of my friends and my family always remember the special days for me, and I can get surprises and wonderful gifts from them. I am happy and lucky, right?

I think we should not be affected if our ex don't remember special occassions like our birthdays. Though we shared good times with them in the past, it doesn't mean that they are obliged to greet us everytime its our birthday. They have their own separate lives to live. Personnaly, I will be more hurt if the guy in my present relationship forgot my birthday. It's unforgivable.

I recieved a gift, a cute pink bunny stuff toy from my husband when he was still my boyfriend and I recieved from him a tons of cards..:)