Do you dream when you're asleep?
By Rachel322
@Rachel322 (115)
United States
April 17, 2008 1:50pm CST
I have dreams every night. I don't always remember them but I know I dream. I also know that people don't have dreams every night, but my husband claims that he never dreams, ever! I find that really hard to believe.
Do you dream or are you like my husband and claim never to dream?What do you dream about most often? Unfortunately for me the thing I dream most often about is family members dieing. I know it's morbid but I think subconsciously my mind is just trying to prepare me for when it does happen. Because until now no one I've been close to has died.
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
18 Apr 08
First of all, if your husband never dreams, he would be a medical anomoly. If you don't dream you don't enter REM sleep, if you don't enter REM sleep ever you go insane. I'm serious, not entering REM sleep for four days is reason to get away with killing someone in fourteen states due to sleep deprivation. As youre still alive, I don't think this is the case. I just think that perhaps he doesn't remember his dreams.
@Rachel322 (115)
• United States
18 Apr 08
It's got to be that he just doesn't remember, because he definatly enters REM sleep, because once he out there's no waking him.
@mwhitten2007 (31)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I dream all the time. I will be the first one to admit it. My dreams all have a meaning and a purpose. The of course though, everyonce in a while i get a dream that has no meaning but is good anyways. My dreams can either be the way i find out things before they happen or they can be hot and steamy and leave me wondering, is that really gonna happen this time
@chocolate_monette (61)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I was really curious about the meaning of my dreams so I bought "Dream dictionary". It helped me understand my dreams better. Some meanings indicated in the dictionary are true based on my experience too. I also agree with the other interpretations. Some also helped me ease my anxiety about what my dreams would imply.
@graceandowen (1637)
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17 Apr 08
Hi I am a constant dreamer, i dream every time i am asleep lol and i always remember them too, either instantly when i wake up or something during the day will trigger my dream and then i will remember it. My dreams are either really wierd or really horrible lol
i do prefere the wierd ones tho as i hate having horrible dreams, occasionally i will have the odd saucy dream too lol which is fab ;)
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
21 May 08
I dream now and then, but not every night. Sometimes I remember my dreams, other times I don't. Sometimes my dreams are affected by whateer is playing on the radio in the backgorund. It's really strange when that happens.
@sincere4frdship (2228)
• India
2 May 08
Yes I always dream ,when I sleep.
I dream about so many things in sleeping, but can't remember for day. Only I can say that I dream about my love ,family and some time I dream so many fantasy ....
thanks !!!
@crackhead (1826)
• India
18 Apr 08
When i am asleep i sure will dream and am a constand dreamer. Some times i do take a nap in the afternoon for some relaxation and even then i get dreams. There are very rare occassions when i wont dream. Though i dont remember the dreams, some times i wish the dreams continued even after my sleep was interrupted.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
26 Apr 08
Everyone dreams when they sleep (when they reach natural states of REM sleep or just sleep, though the latter can result in a chance of not having dreams).
Everytime I sleep I do dream, but I've had problems remembering them.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Apr 08
yeah i will but not so often. I dream only if i am very tired. My mind is not relax it's always working. Most of my dreams is about witched and sometimes about evil people who wants to influence me on their work. Lately, seems i don't have dreams anymore because i not tires of anything, classes has passed no worries, no pressure of exams and project. It's my relax time.
@Remando (175)
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18 Apr 08
Like a lot of people have stated, I am also a constant dreamer. Every single night I have a series of strange dreams, some of which are great and colourful, but others sadly are quite frightening and I wake with quite a sweat, and that horrible heavy feeling in your stomach. As I've posted on another thread, I also can lucid dream sometimes, and this is great too!
It must be horrible for you to dream about family members' deaths, I have had similar dreams, perhaps it's a loss of control feeling in your subconsious? I have read in online articles and such that a lot of nightmares simply stem from a feeling of loss of control.
Happy dreaming to all!
@alifahru01 (3)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
dreaming is flower of sleep. in ordinary, dreaming is about talking your under consciousness
@here2watch (99)
• India
25 Apr 08
i too get dreams every time i am asleep but i donot remember all of them. Usually my dreams will be wierd only there will not be any connection or relativity. I feel getting dreams all the time is good becaues ur mind will not be in rest even when you sleep.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Apr 08
i always tend to dream just before i wake up in the morning (i think, these are the ones that i remember) but i tend to dream about whats going on in my life..like for instance - i was reading a book about hiroshima (the bomb dropping and how 6 people survived) and i dreamt that it happened here...kinda scary!
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
18 Apr 08
Dear friend,
I do dream most of days and rarely I do not have dreams. Most of time when I wake up I forget those dreams some dreams I do remember. Some times I would sleep more in order to continue that good dreams but it is really irritating if some one calls me when I am having a good dream.
@rhettaa (213)
• United States
18 Apr 08
Your husband is wrong. He dreams; everybody does. If we don't dream, we lose our mental stability and become mentally ill. He just doesn't remember his dreams. I remember mine, but I lose the details fairly rapidly. Lately, in my dreams I am promoting books all the time. Since that's what I think about when I'm awake, it's pretty much 24/7 at this point, I guess.
@SunnyBuddy (443)
• India
18 Apr 08
Yes, I dream in my sleep. I sometimes get horribble dreams.
as if i am falling from a great height. But i do'nt remember most part of my dreams.
@mariakhoy81 (25)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I was just talking to my hubby about this today!! Lately I have been having dreams every single night. I find that the most I dream about is my husband cheating on me, a family member or friend dying, and I often dream about people that I used to hang out with in high school and college. I believe that dreams mean alot! I know I have a huge insecurity about my husband cheating on my, and I also think that I dream about my past because I miss having my freedom. I love my family but being a SAHM of 3 can be exhuasting. As far as the family and friends who die, it is probably in a way me feeling like I need to let them know that I love them more, in case something ever happened to them.
@banunche (256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
when i took up my psychology subject, it was discussed there that everybody dreams. usually dreams happen in a certain level of sleep, i think its REM stage but its not the only stage that dreams happens. people tend to dream but when they woke up they don't remember the complete details or none at all. for you to remember your dream, at least its fragments, you should wrote everything that you remember in a piece of paper the moment you wake up.