rhettaa

@rhettaa (213)

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Should a mother/women have 15 or more children?

jmhall @jmhall (143) • United States 4 Sep 08

This is a topic we are currently discussing in my psychology class. Whether or not a woman should have a large family say 15 or more children. In class they used the example of the Dugar family. They have 17 kids now and one on...

large family

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rhettaa I really don't think couples should have that many children, no. If people want more than three or four children there are so many kids in the world who desperately need homes and families. Of course, in the case of multiple births, then a couple might have as...

5 Sep 08

I'll wash your mouth out

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 19 Aug 08

I have heard this said many times but I've never known anybody that did it or had it done to them before today. A friend has done it she revealed and I wondered how many others there are that have succumbed to a mouthsoaping.

mouth soaping

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rhettaa I had it done once or twice as a child. I never did it to mine,but my daughter once took a swallow of shampoo because she thought it smelled good and wanted to know what it tasted like. She was 13 at the time, so she knew better. She was blowing bubbles for...

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Do you buy pirated dvd's and cd's?

misshoney @misshoney (973) • Philippines 18 Aug 08

There are so many campaigns all over the world to stop piracy but alas all efforts to eradicate it seem to be futile as pirated thinhgs such as books, cd's, dvd's proliferate all over. i guess almost everyone nowadays had...

piracy

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rhettaa I don't buy pirated DVDs. As for CDs, I don't buy them either, but if there were recordings of some rare older live stuff, I can't say I wouldn't be tempted to buy that.

19 Aug 08

When did you get hooked to reading ?

pkraj111 @pkraj111 (2458) • India 18 Aug 08

For me it all started when I was very young and my mom is a library committe president. At that time I used to go along with my mother to library. Initially I used to read only childrens magazines. Once when I was about 10 years...

books

reading

start

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rhettaa I taught myself to read when I was five. I had these aunts who used to bring me Little Golden Books whenever they visited and my parents read to me all the time. But I wanted to be able to read them myself, and at that time there was no kindergarten in my...

19 Aug 08

Women talk too much than men?

patzel88 @patzel88 (3310) • Philippines 2 Aug 08

They say that women talk almost three times as much as men. What can you say about this guys.

men

talk

women

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rhettaa That's because women know three times as much....

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Are you ready to unfold your secrets??

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 2 Aug 08

I am talking about writing autobiography. No not if you have the expertise, a good flowery pen or command over the language. I am asking about your inhibitions, your reservations. Are you ready to let go? [i]Can you tell your...

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rhettaa Sure. I've actually thought about doing this. I think my life would make an interesting story, though some names would have to be changed to protect the not so innocent. But I don't know who would buy it, since I'm not famous. Maybe if my new book T'ain't...

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Do You Have Any Scars

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 2 Aug 08

I had my gall bladder out when I was in my thirties because I have a big stomach the doctor said the scar is much bigger than usual. The scar looks like a butcher came after me, even a different doctor once asked "who was...

scars

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rhettaa I've got loads of scars. I have a gall bladder scar on my stomach, a Caeserian scar (I had two, but the 2nd time they cut in the same places,) some scars on my left ankle where a motorcycle fell on it, and a bunch of scars along my hairline, and in my scalp...

3 Aug 08

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I Was There - Where Were You?

terilee79720 @terilee79720 (3621) • United States 14 Jul 08

I know a lot of you weren't even born yet, so be patient with an old woman. I'm being nostalgic here and having memories. Some of them a few of you will remember, some of you might think I'm older than dirt. But here...

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rhettaa I remember some of that, too. My parents didn't get a color television until the late 60's! My cousins and I were forced to play outside until dark when I stayed with my aunt while my mother and father worked. I hated it, and as soon as I was old enough to...

17 Jul 08

do you think all the ideas for writing a book are gone?

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 16 Jul 08

its like the inventor saying that all the things that need to be invented have been invented already. yesterday, my hubby and i were driving and a cat crossed our path and i said 'eine kliene katze (which means one small cat in...

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rhettaa As long as there are different people in the world, and the world keeps changing, there will be things to write about, both fiction and non-fiction. There may be books about small cats, for instance, but there's not YOUR book about small cats yet, and it may...

17 Jul 08

is it good to be strict with children??

antony2best @antony2best (583) • India 11 Jul 08

i think children are the most precious gifts of god.we should behave with them softly.i hate those who try to be strict with them.i myself have experienced it.when someone tries to be harsh towards me i really feel bad.i think...

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rhettaa Children need guidelines, and they need to know that there are consequences to their actions, good and bad. I think it is very possible to be strict with a child without being harsh. Let them know up front what the rules are and why, and what the consequences...

12 Jul 08

Do you ever like to listen to 80s music for a change?

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 8 Jul 08

Most of us like modern hits, today's popular songs, but soemtimes I like to revert back in time and listen to 80s music, and sometimes 70s music as well. I like quite a mix of music, but it's still good to change things up...

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rhettaa I listen to 50's, 60's, 70's, 80's, even a little 90's, right up to today. These days I mostly only listen to alternative and punk, and very little pop music, so for pop, it's back to the past for me.

10 Jul 08

should mobiles be banned??

antony2best @antony2best (583) • India 8 Jul 08

well i know that mobile plays a major role in our life but studies show that the radiattions given out by the mobile is very harmful to us.it can even cause cancer.other than that it has distracted children from their studies. in...

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rhettaa No reputable study I have seen has shown that mobile devices cause cancer or are harmful to our health, at least ot so far. There's been a lot of discussion about this, but the studies I've seen don't back that up. I certainly don't think they should be...

10 Jul 08

the older you get the less you make friends

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 9 Jul 08

we all have friends. at least people you tak to at work or when you see them etc. but have you noticed the older you get the less friends you seem to make or hang out with. i mean once i am off work etc i have like 2 people that...

friends

growing up

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rhettaa I think I have as many friends now as I've ever had. I just don't hang out with them nearly as much. But I still love and care about them, and I know that they feel the same and that if I needed them, they would be there, so they are still friends. I guess...

10 Jul 08

The "Good" Old Days...Uh, Were They?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 9 Jul 08

I'm kind of a nostalgic person and have always loved certain periods of the past. And let's face it, in the past our ancestors didn't have the concerns we have now...oh, yes, they had concerns...different concerns for the times....

ancestors wore a lot of clothes

what our ancestors wore

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rhettaa Um..men didn't usually carry smelling salts; just the women. That was mainly because of the corsets they wore, which caused them to be unable to take a deep breath, so they were easily overcome. In the South, men certainly didn't wear full suits in their...

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Cartoons

dreamertink @dfollin (25351) • United States 28 Jun 08

When I was a kid my favorite cartoons were "Road Runner" and "Scooby Doo".I have two boys in their 20's and they watched,"He Man","Shera","Thunder Cats" and "Scooby Do" as well.My daughter is 11 and she watched "Hey Arnold" when...

cartoons

road runner

scooby doo

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rhettaa As a kid, I loved Pink Panther and Snagglepuss. With my son, I watched GI Joe and He-Man. I wanted to be She-Ra! With my daughter, I watched Rainbow Brite and The Smurfs and My Little Pony. We all watched Scooby Doo! You can't watch American cartoons and not...

2 Jul 08

I love my son!! I'm scared to get pregnant again :(

squirt051305 @squirt051305 (381) • United States 28 Jun 08

I am a new mother...I just had my beautiful son in May. Being a mother is the greatest thing in the world. It's amazing how much you love this baby inside of you before you even meet him/her. I was sick for the first 5 months of...

getting pregnant

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rhettaa Let yourself enjoy this one before you start worrying about another. But, yes, every pregnancy is different. I was very, very sick with my son and I felt fine. Yet it wa a high-risk pregnancy and I had to stay in bed for 3 months. With my daughter, I was...

2 Jul 08

Are half brother and sisters , real brother and sisters?

honeydew82174 @honeydew82174 (1720) • United States 28 Jun 08

This has be nagging at me. My son is 15. My daughter is 2. They have different dad's. While have a chat with my son he told me that his dad said his sister is real not his sister because she is only his half sister....

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rhettaa You son's father should not be telling him this stuff, but your son knows how he feels about his sister. Of course, she's his real sister. They share many of the same genetic traits and if they care about each other and feel like family to each other, that is...

2 Jul 08