My Brother was Bit By a Brown Recluse Spider!!!

@34momma (13882)
United States
May 20, 2008 10:09am CST
I spoke to my brother last week and she said that something bit him, but he was not sure what it was. I told him to go to the doctor and find out. He went and they said they were not sure what it was and sent him home. He started to feel worst and I said go back to the doctor and tell them you are not leaving until they find out what is wrong with you. He had three bit marks on his arm that start to get funny looking. http://search.live.com/images/results.aspx?q=brown+recluse+spider&mkt=en-us#focal=1f6a4fa1b4ee313532ecf52fdd81b904&furl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.doacs.state.fl.us%2Fpi%2Fenpp%2Fento%2Fimages%2Fl.reclusabrown2.jpg Come to find out that he was bit by a Brown Recluse Spider!!!! if you want to know what these things do to you please click on the link!!! Gross!! Check out the pictures. My poor brother... have you ever been bitten by anything that was venomous???
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• United States
20 May 08
That is really weird because yesterday when I was reading CosmoGirl there was a story about a girl that was bit bi a Brown Recluse Spider and she almost had to get her leg amputated. I hope he is okay now because that is just awful. The girl in the magazine said that she felt awful when they told her that she might have to get her legs amputated. I hope your brother is okay.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 08
i don't think it got that bad. (at least I hope not). i talked him for a while and he said he is still not feeling well and of course his arm hurts ,but he feels better then he did a few days ago
@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 08
I just hope that he is not trying to be brave for me.
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• United States
20 May 08
Well then that's good that he is feeling better.
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
20 May 08
Am sorry to hear about your brother and I have never been bitten by anyhing venomous before. I hope that he heals quickly and keep takign care of him
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 08
neither have i. and i wish he was here so that i could take care of him. we are very very close and him being so far away just hurts my heart
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 08
thanks you for your well wishes and your prayers. that means alot to me
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
20 May 08
And again am sorry to hear that you far apart but I am praying for him
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
21 May 08
My brother-in-law was bit by something two years ago. He had all of the symptoms of someone who was bit by a brown recluse spider. I looked it up on the internet for him, so I know that those suckers are no joke at all. The doctors never did say that was what it was, but it had to be. They treated him with antibiotics and eventually it went away, only to come back earlier this year. He was in so much pain that I could hear him hollering and pounding on the walls while I was on the phone with my sister. She almost made me cry when she said he would be saying to himself out loud, "It's okay, It's okay, everything is going to be alright." He was simply delirious with pain. He out on leave for so long, that he had to go on disability both times and they still never gave him a definite diagnosis, although, they took several biopsies on his foot. It had gotten so bad that I had went over with a camera and took pictures to sue the doctor. I am glad that your brother got a definite diagnosis and hopefully it will all clear up and he will be feeling better real soon.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
wow, that is crazy! at first they kept sending my brother home. I told him go back and don't leave until they tell you what is wrong with you. when they saw what was happening to his arm, they knew. I am so sorry your brother-in-law had to deal with that.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
21 May 08
Thanks.
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@enola1692 (3323)
• United States
20 May 08
oh man I feel for your brother tell him to take care of it they took the tip of my mom's finger because of a spider bite
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• Canada
20 May 08
I have had spider bites before although I don't think they were brown recluse. But I researched them at the time and thought maybe for a little while. I thinkk all spider bites are venemous, just that some are moreso than others. I absolutely hate spiders! I don't want to talk about this any more as it is giving me the heebie jeebies. I will pray that your son recovers without too much of a scar. I feel terrible for him.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
oh girl it wasn't my son it was my brother. which is just as bad. and i did some research too, those spiders are not good and they do real damage
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• Canada
21 May 08
I'm sorry. I'm usually so good with details. But spiders kinda make me go crazy. I know I have an irrational fear of them. They really give me the creeps. And everyone thinks I'm crazy when I say I have been bitten by spiders. But I KNOW I have been bitten by them. I know what a mosquito and black fly and deer fly bites are like. When I was bitten it would not heal for a very long time. Plus, I was bitten by a daddy long legs in the garden once. Everyone always tells me spiders don't bite. Yeah, right. I know better. It may not be that coommon, but it happens just the same.
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@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
20 May 08
Thats one mean spider. So is your brother going to be alright? I hope so. I was bite by some kind of spider when I was a teenager. I thought my foot was going to explode, thats how swollen it got. I can't stand the look of spiders. They terrify me.
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• United States
20 May 08
I looked at the pics on that site and they were nasty looking. I will pray for him..
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 08
i know how gross they look. I am praying for him
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
23 May 08
That is horrible. I hope your brothers bite was not so terrible. I have never been bit and hope I never am.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 May 08
me either. but you don't find those spiders up here in NYC, thank goodness
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
21 May 08
Yikes, I hope he was ok 34momma and was able to get it attended too. I would be freaking out that's for sure. I am scared of spiders!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
22 May 08
you're scared of spiders girl?? i am not scared of anything really. I mean i don't want them in my house but if i see one i am not going to lose my mind. what does freak me out is seeing a bunch of bugs or spiders all together. like coming across a ant hill, that i don't like. or seeing a snake matting ball on tv, things like that freak me out. one on one, i think i can take them. LOL
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
21 May 08
those brown recluses are just awful! we have a lot of them in this area too. My son was bit by a pit viper - 4 years ago and is still suffering the effects of the venom.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 May 08
OMG!! are you serious???? those things will kill you!! how in the world did he come in contact with such a snake????
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
21 May 08
ewww spiders are so creepy and gross. Their webs just scare me lol. Those pictures on that website just makes it worse. I hope no spiders ever come around me. Hope your brother is feeling better. Stay away from spiders.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
I never had a fear of spiders. I don't have one now either, i am just going to be more caution of them.
• United States
21 May 08
Wow, 34momma I am sorry to hear about your brother, but I know all too well his pain. I was bitten about a year ago and did not know it either. These critters are not fun to be bitten by. When they bite the area starts to rotten from the inside out so you may not even know that you have been bitten until you get sick. they had to cut it open and stuff sterile packing in the area. It had to be removed daily and cleaned and restuffed. It was horrible. My oldest sonhad also been bitten a few years back. These are hideous little creechers...
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 May 08
oh my i know. but i am coming to find out that these spiders are not as uncommon as i thought them to be
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
21 May 08
Wow that is brutal. I hope that he will be okay. I have never been bitten by a spider before. That would scare me all to heck. My son is scared of spiders but my daughter isn't at all. I tell her that she should have a bit of fear so that she will be more careful around them. They can be dangerous ones out there. Hope he is well soon. Vicki
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
i don't know if saying to fear them is a good thing, but telling her to be careful and cautions ia great.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
21 May 08
thankfully i have never been bitten by anything that is venomous. i have heard of these particular spiders though and the bites can be very nasty indeed. i hope your brother will be feeling better and soon. thank goodness they figured out what it was. there is nothing more frustrating than going to the doctor and being told they don't know what is wrong with you.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
22 May 08
you are right. that is such a frustrating thing to deal with. knowing you are not feeling well and the person who should know is saying it's not the case.
• Australia
21 May 08
OMG! Is he better! Does he have any bad symptoms!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
he was really bad last week. the venom started to east away at his arm. but he is feeling a lot better now after a few days in the hospital
• United States
21 May 08
I have been bitten by one and it started out looking like a mosquito bite and since I thought it was just a mosquito bite I shaved my legs and that is when it began to get worse. The bite was right near my ankle and it started to look horrible my leg turned purple and started to get really swollen and the wound started to like eat itself it left a big whole on my ankle and took me about 3 rounds of antibiotics and almost losing that part of my leg. It was a very scary thing and I feel for your brother I hope he feels better soon.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 08
wow nickspinky!! i didn't know this spider bite was so common. I am shocked. i talked to him this morning and he said he is feeling a bit better today.