Disgusting Habit

@carolbee (16230)
United States
June 9, 2008 7:24am CST
I work in the food field, not fast food restaurant but a public golf course. One customer comes in, eats lunch, takes his teeth out and wipes them with a napkin while he is sitting at a table for everyone to see what he's dong then puts them back in his mouth. He's an eldery gentleman who is educated, interesting to speak with and friendly. I've seen him do this several times. Isn't this why we have restrooms? One employee almost lost her lunch while watching this situation. I've never said anything to him because I don't want to seem rude but at the same time what he is doing is very rude. Would you make a comment to the man or let it go?
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I would have the manager talk to him...and remind him that something like that should be done in privacy. So if you are the manager...well then! LOL
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Nope, I am not the manager thank goodness. I didn't say anything to the bigger boss and should have the first time it happened. It did happen twice. Gross me out....lol Thanks for responding.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
9 Jun 08
well I have to agree with you on that one. How gross is that?I dont think I would make a comment to him.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
It's beyond gross. I don't want to hurt his feelings since he is a very nice man just has no manners. Maybe I could offer to give him a coffee cup with water...lol Thanks for responding.
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
9 Jun 08
I grew up with people like that. Both my foster parents had false teeth and at every meal they would take out one set or the other to see if there was food caught in them or to clean them. It used to gross me out but after so many years of this I guess I kinda got used to it. We used to go to card games and almost 100% of them had false teeth so it was funny when they would all have snacks at the end of the night. I wonder if anyone ever went home with the wrong teeth. :)
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Oh how funny..lol Well funny but not funny if someone did get the wrong teeth. Thanks for responding.
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I agree with you about the restrooms, he needs to go there to clean his teeth if he has to clean them right then and it can't wait until he gets home. I am not sure about you being the one bringing this up to him unless you two are on very good friendship terms. Maybe the manager or whoever is in charge could bring it up to him?
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I'll let my boss handle it. Male to male would be easier since I might insult this man and don't want to do that to him. He really is a nice man. Thanks for responding.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
9 Jun 08
That's definitely not a sight that i will wanna see.. If i see it, i think i will lose all my appetite.. It's just simply too disgusting.. Maybe he doesn't think so as it's own set of teeth after all.. But dun he consider about other ple's feelings?? And wat will he do, if he saw a customer vomitting into a empty bowl, and proceed to continue eating after that?? This old man simple has got no ethics.. I will surely go ahead and tell that it's disgusting..
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I will talk to my supervisor and boss. They won't like it either. Thanks for responding.
@jczvrse (169)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I would say something that is such a disgusting thing to do especially when people around him are eating, being he is elderly he will probably get angry but oh well he needs to know he is making others sick and he needs to know he needs to be a little more curtious and do it in the privacy of the bathroom.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
He could have more manners and leave the area. Take care of the situation in the restroom. I won't talk to him. My boss can do that! Thanks for responding.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Jun 08
If it is a regular customer I would comment to him that it is disturbing some of the other customers and if he could to go to the rest room to clean his teeth. I worked in reastaurants for eight years and I say a lot of bizare things that I did not understand why people were doing that.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
10 Jun 08
This particular man is a volunteer so I do know him. Not well enough to bring it to his attention. My boss can do the dirty work and talk to him. Thanks fo9r responding.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Good move to have the boss do the dirty work. That is what they are there for.
@brimia (6581)
• United States
10 Jun 08
That is really nauseating and probably a bit frightening to see too. My aunt used to take out her teeth to scare us when we were kids.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
10 Jun 08
A relative playing around and taking out their teeth can be funny. Were you really scared? Thanks for responding.
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@brimia (6581)
• United States
10 Jun 08
We were scared and she thought it was hilarious...believe me, she was the only one laughing.. :)
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Maybe the guy doesn't realize he's making others sick to their stomach when he does this. Next time, maybe you could go up to him and quietly suggest he do that in the restroom from now on instead of at the table because it upsets the other customers and some of the employees.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I do work tomorrow again so will talk to my boss. He can have the dirty work of talking with this guy. It was really gross. Thanks for responding.
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I'm not sure it is your place to say anything, but if you feel that you are comfortable in doing so, I think I would just knowing that someone else said it almost made them sick to their stomach. I can't imagine taking it out like that, since I have a partial and don't ever want to take it out in public.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I did talk to my boss and he talked to the fellow. It hasn't happened again so think the problem is cured. Thanks for responding.
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
15 Jun 08
Hi There! That is a little bit much I am afraid. However, if nobody has ever commented to him how is he going to know any better. It may just be a habit that he does not even think about. My father has false teeth and does the same thing...but never in public. cheers,
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
15 Jun 08
Most people will go the bathroom to get this job done. I have problems with it because others were eating at the time he decided to clean his teeth. It was rather gross. Thanks for responding.
@MH4444 (2161)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Oh, that's nasty. I don't know that I would say anything; but that's just not right. ewwwwwwww
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
18 Jun 08
It was gross and disgusting especially since others were trying to eat lunch. I won't say anything to the man but will let my boss talk to him. Thanks for responding.
@twallace (2675)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I know that was not something that anyone wanted to see but you have to over look that. He's an older gentlemen; to him doing that is normal. Also you have to remember that he's a paying customer and they are always right no matter what they do in that type of setting. When it comes to teeth and you were a paying customer would you go in the bathroom. I know that is might be a site to watch but he's just being himself.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Actually he's not a paying customer. He volunteers his time where I work once in awhile. Not many people know he works there. He doesn't wear a work shirt. I think my boss needs to correct him and he can and will do it gracefully. I have a good boss. Thanks for responding.
@twallace (2675)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Oh, I thought that he was a customer. Well still be nice about it even though he's there giving his free time. I don't think he will get offended but they have to be nice about it. Then again like i said, he might not even think that it bothers any one. He's use to doing that all of the time. Have a nice one.
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
18 Jun 08
I am so sorry but I would have to tell him about this.Its very rude and I cant help myself.WHen I see things like this I just have to say something,its just my nature.I mean really he is in public doing something that should be done in private.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
20 Jun 08
It was disgusting and this man knows better. I won't say anything to him but will let my boss handle it. Thanks for responding.
@fec139 (810)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Oh please..if he does it quickly and discreetly and he doesn't mind, so should nobody else......there are much more disgusting habits. Tell your coworker to get over it!!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
15 Jun 08
The problem with this is that others were eating lunch. Thanks for responding.
@cher8558 (425)
• Canada
13 Jun 08
Hi friend,That is absolutely disgusting. And I'm sorry, but to heck with being polite. He is very impolite and certainly not thinking about anyone but himself. Not to mention, should a child see that, that would scare the pants off them. No, I'm sorry, I would not be polite about the matter. You said he is an educated man, therefore he has all his faculties. He knows better. I think its just nobody has called him up on it. It's one thing in the privacy of your own home, but in a restaurant or anywhere in public. Yuuuuuck that just grosses me right out. Cheryl
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
13 Jun 08
It was disgusting. I saw him do this twice. Even if something was caught under his denture, he could have walked to the bathroom and taken care of the situation. Thanks for responding.
@shaggin (72240)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I would vomit if I had to eat while someone was doing that. My husband has this horrible habit that his father does as well and that they will be eating and get something stuck in their teeth and they will get something like a piece of plastic and sit there and use it like floss. I cant eat after seeing this it makes me sick. I always tell him how rude it is and for him to go to the bathroom or something but he wont and he gets mad that I say anything. I worked at a nursing home and there was a woman who used to take her teeth out at the end of the meal and use napkins and water to clean them after eating while she was still sitting next to the other residents who were eating. This would make everyone sick and the residents didnt want to eat when she would do this. She got very angry when told she needed to do this in the bathroom.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
13 Jun 08
It's a terribly disgusting habit. This man was in a public place where lots of others were eating. Thanks for responding.
• India
11 Jun 08
Yes!I do object for such type of neusence in public places.But as you said he is an elder gentlemen,by looking into his age don't you have sympathy for him.You can request him once to do such type of personal works either at home or in the wash room,I say its your duty too to guide a customer.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
13 Jun 08
This man is able to walk to the bathroom and clean his teeth. He is alert and friendly. Thanks for responding.
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
11 Jun 08
My husband does that, but discreetly. He goes to the men's room. In a way, I think it's funny, because older people don't give two hoots what you think, LOL. You could say something, in a cute way like, "Mr. so and so, you have such a lovely smile. I want to remember you that way so could you remove your teeth in the men's room for me? That would keep me just remembering your great smile!" He may ignore or not, but it's worth trying.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
12 Jun 08
It's real difficult for me to understand some people think this is ok in public. I'll talk to my boss about it and he can handle it since this man is a volunteer for where I work and really should know better. Thanks for responding.
@budz08 (55)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
For me the most disgusting habit I've ever seen is when I saw someone who spit on his feet and then rubbed his feet together as if it was a soap or a lotion on his feet...eew
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
13 Jun 08
This isn't a very appetizing habit either. This is an "eew" for sure. Thanks for responding.