what would you do if you missed a flight?
By victorywp
@victorywp (3524)
United States
March 7, 2009 4:14am CST
i came across to this video recently... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbVw7entkxg
it's about a woman who missed her flight at the boarding gate of HKIA. she cried so badly & started to blame others over it. some people might symphatize with her while some others might think that she was over-reacted because it's her own fault.
if you were in her situation, what would you have done (besides what she did)?
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117 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
7 Mar 09
Oh dear, poor lady!
I travel quite often and so far I have never missed my flight and until I find myself in that position (which I sincerely hope will not happen) I'm not sure what I would do. Wait for the next one I guess.
Did she think the plane she missed was going to turn tound and come and pick her up if she carried on a bit longer with her 'show'?
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Mar 09
Hahaha
I must remember that and use it if I ever miss a flight!
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
LOL! maybe she has been continuously missing flights for the last few weeks (or maybe this was her third replacement flight to the same destination?).:o
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Mar 09
I have seen this video before. Gee, do you think she over reacted just a tad? I don't fly all that often and each time I do I wonder how people manage to miss flights. I guess it does happen to the best of us and something tells me that carrying on like the woman in the video will do nothing to resolve the issue. If it happened to me I would more than likely be upset but I would console myself by having a little cry in the ladies toilets, then I would organize the next flight, make the necessary calls and find the nearest bar and wait!
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
it will never help anyone at all if he/she will just be blurting out the pain felt for having missed the flight.
i agree with you, paula, that the best thing to do will be to seek the help of the airline personnel to sort things out. this way, arrangements can be easily made so accommdations will be done for the person affected at the next available flight.
this is not difficult to do at all. those airline personnel will do everything they can to help. that is the sole reason why they were hired by the company in the first place.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
that's a good way to handle yourself in such a situation. i would as well do the same like what you would do (except for the cyring scene in the ladies toilet). LOL!
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I have never missed a flight thank goodness.
If I were in her shoes I would not have reacted as badly as that. I would not have cried or blamed others.
I didn't read the article but if it was her own fault than she only has herself to blame.
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@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
hello there. even we missed an international flight and it was in HK.... we didnt react that way. though it was kinda scary. but thank God we got home on the same day.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
5 May 09
she has no preparation for that & that's her real first reaction to it. so she found it very hard to control her emotion at that particular time, i believe.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
7 Mar 09
I saw this video some time back, and I have never been in this situation, nor do I plan to. The only way would be because of an acident, then you would have a case for another flight, but losing your cool is not the way to go.
@daisybird (14)
• China
9 Mar 09
i agree with you in this point.I do deem this situation not easy happen to me.I'd like to arrange things well and avoid all sorts of accidents.but onece this situation fall me and ,i don't cry for spilled milk.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
9 Mar 09
I think the lady in the video, showed how unstable she is.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
you are right, if this really happens to me, losing my temper like that is not the right way to go. the lady might have been missing flights continuously so she reacted that way?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
7 Mar 09
lol =D I read about that news in the papers, and i find that she's actually more than over reacting.. lol =D I mean, she has already missed her flight, and why must she be behaving in that way?? Crying and shouting, getting so worked up that she's sitting on the floor like a little kid?? lol =D
It's kinda stupid to me.. Moreover, it's her own fault, and she should blame herself first rather than other ple, for others dunno which is her flight.. lol =D
If it was me, i will definitely not react in such a way as it's so embarassing.. haha
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
10 Mar 09
That was about 2 weeks ago, and it's not in the headlines even.. lol =D I only saw a small section of the news, and the picture only shows the woman sitting on the floor, crying and shouting as if, someone close to her had passed away.. lol =D
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
i did not realize that this news were in the papers. do you still remember the subject & the content of this news? just wanted to know how the reporters put this scenario in the newspapers. LOL!
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
11 Mar 09
what? this news is just 2 weeks ago? i thought that's an old video when i watch it at youtube the other day. LOL! if the news is reported in your newspapers, which nationality do you think the woman belongs too?
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@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
good for you. i did miss it last year. so now, im very antsy to be early. way early.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 May 09
yes, we should always be very much earlier for flight matter. the rules are very tight & no excuse even if we are late by only one minute.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 May 09
yes, we should always be very much earlier for flight matter. the rules are very tight & no excuse even if we are late by only one minute.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
it is never a good step to take, that is, to be blaming others for one's undoing.
i missed my flight, too, just last first day of december last year. it was bad that it happened. i inquired at the desk of the airline i was booked with, as to what would i do since, they will no longer let me in that plane. i was not that late. the plane was still there as it was 30 minutes yet until the plane leaves. it just so happened that per regulations, check in time is no less than an hour before departure.
by the way, this regulation is in force because, of the fear that terrorists have implanted in the hearts of airport administrators.
to make that long story short, i got booked for the next flight. i took a new ticket, after having paid for the penalties. well, too bad, i almost paid twice the amount. they are really discouraging things like this to be happening.
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@jazzsue58 (2666)
•
7 Mar 09
That's a good answer. Like I say, some cultures are a little more excitable than ours! If it really is a terrorist safety thing then fair enough (not sure what my 88 year old mother would make of that though!) but in that case, the penalty - if any - should be a small one.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
yes, it's the airline regulation that all must follow for the safety of everyone. i have not got into such a trouble yet because usually i would be there a few hours earlier.:)
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
10 Mar 09
I can only blame my luck. Afterall, I will know if I am the direct cause of my missing the flight. However, if I had missed the flight due to some other reasons, I will surely reason out with the airport admininstrator. Definitely I would not cry and make a scene of myself. I would just share the incident to a reporter - that would do the job nicely.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
5 May 09
it's ok, you just do your part & i will do the 'job' for you. i record your act & upload to youtube. LOL!
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
2 May 09
youtube is the best "reporter" because they "report" to the whole world effectively! LOL!
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 09
Video Title: A woman missed her flight at the boarding gate HKIA.
Running Time: 3:13 minutes.
Current Viewers: 5,158,962
Ratings Received: 6,841 with Text Comments: 18,781
Tragic Moment: From 0:29 To 1:32/3:13
TRAGIC MOMENT ~ ROFC(Rolling On Floor Crying)
Normally, we used ROFL(Rolling On Floor Laughing) but for that video and the event that had happened specifically in that period of time, I used my own abbreviation for ROFC...LOL!. I don't know what to comment, actually. Because she is a women expressing her doleful feeling without caring her good personality looking while on descent dressing and her maturity status that should be compare to her age.
POOR AIRPORT SECURITY
I didn't noticed in that video, any airport security staff or staffs managed, handled and controlled the despair situation happening at that location. Quite a shameful incident and showed poor security management carried out by the relevant party in one airport. Really tarnished that airport management reputation, especially, when we do talking about one famous city like Hong Kong City.
MY RELATED TRUE LIFE EXPERIENCE
What else?. I accepted my own weakness for being late in making entry in the specific boarding time and understood the service rendered by airport management, I mean the rules and regulations. I am ready to pay the delay charge with my extra pocket money that will be incurred for my next re-boarding. It had happened three (3) times, so far. Hopes no more in future, because not only have to pay delay charge added to my valid flight ticket, but, it also effects my car parking charge which normally I left my car parked at the airport parking bay.
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 09
Sorry Vic. for my typo in the first paragraph under "TRAGIC MOMENT" for;
Because she is a womEn...it must be ~ Because she is a womAn. The plural and singular, my big mistake there.
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 09
Thanks Vic. for leaving me your great quality comment to my poor response coupled up with a good elaboration type of question and I am very glad on reading your nice comment. At the same time, I do believe your posted discussion does enjoy great earnings for you, as you have had given the perfect link to the incident that visually proven on the nail related to your general public life story when anyone does encountering desperation and disorientation. All are absolutely ended up with bad unintentionally consequences. In addition, your discussion received many quality responses. Not the quantity but the quality. Congrats! Vic.
Regarding my three (3) times delayed, as you asked; what I noticed that I was practicing three (3) bad attitude, respectively. Firstly, my poor quality time management. Secondly, my lackadaisical promoted after being having too much greetings after attended one meeting. Finally, always encountering residual issues to change plans at the eleventh hour.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
14 Mar 09
at first sight, i thought that you are laughing at the incident by writing ROFL, only to realize that you actually wrote ROFC. LOL!
you are right, she did not care about her status & personality at that time. this means that it was something she never expected to happen & she doesn't know what to do next (other than wanting so badly to be picked up by the plane).
for the airport security, from a response i have read, the person mentioned that it is a known fact that the HKIA airport staffs are generally not that friendly & helpful.
for your true life experience, can i know what makes you late for three times? is it for the same reason? LOL!
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@messageme (2821)
• United States
9 Mar 09
I have missed a flight before and it really wasn't our fault! There was eight people in all that missed that flight because they printed the wrong time on the tickets. We were all P%$#ed!! We ended up having to pay more and taking another flight then we had to pay for a rental car because our car was at another airport, which we couldn't get a flight to that airport for another week!! Everyone of us that missed that flight called the airlines and complained. They didn't even aploigize for their mistake and all they offered us was $50 off of our next flight. We told them they were crazy, It costed us way more than that to pay for another flight and a rental car. we told them we were never going to take their flight again if they didn't reimburse us for their mistake. She said they couldn't do that we should have been there earlier. We were there early and we sat there and waited in the terminal where we were supose to be. We were not happy at all!
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
messageme,
Just want to add a point here on your previous experience and it was something I learned from a ground hostess some time back.
I think what has happened to all of you here was that the intended flight was scheduled to depart earlier than the prebooked times. Now, this is usually rare but it does happen for certain reason(s) i.e. seasonal changes, airport slots, VIP traveling onboard and etc.. So, it will always be good if you could leave your contact numbers with the airlines or travel agents when you make your reservations especially your mobile phone number, where you can be reached at all times. This ground hostess was having a harrowing time trying to reach some of the passengers in the list because they either cannot be reached or there is no other way of contacting them of the rescheduled time of departure.
I can understand some reservations in disclosing personal details but this is one instance where a non disclosure will really let you down and be on the loosing end. FYI, some airlines will text you on your mobile if you do not wish to be disturbed - you just need to mention this during your reservations.
Last but not least, always call the airline reservations or booking agents one day prior departure to reconfirm if your intended flight is still departing on time and resubmit any last minute contactable details, even if it is a hotel of your destination for onward or return travel purposes.
I hope these little tips will let you have a peace of mind and convenience on your next travel, be it business or leisure.
Have a nice day.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
13 Apr 09
hi messageme, i can feel how unhappy you were for your previous experience. anyway i really agree with skysuccess for the tips & advices. it's very useful to avoid the all the unnecessary troubles.:)
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
8 Mar 09
Hello my friend victorywp Ji,
It is a natural phenomena to blame others, for none of others fault. In my case, after
my marriage, I have never been late any places for anything, as my Hubby is very strict
person and would give lot of thinking to make the event successful. He will be on the spot
at laest one hour befor scedule and would never miss. But, the lady might be having an
urgent work so she felt and burst out.
There are two types of blaming.
You assign all of the responsibility for some event to someone or something other
than yourself. You not only assigns all of the responsibility for something to someone
or something else, but you also condemn and criticize the source of the problem.
With this second, more intense form of blaming there is a sense that the other person
has intentionally harmed you or has been terribly unfair.
Blaming usually is accompanied by unrealistic should/must rules and magnification.
May god bless you and have a great time.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
5 Apr 09
Hello my friend victorywp Ji,
So nice of your comments. I would convey your sincere feelings to mu hubby. May God
bless you and have a great time.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Apr 09
yes, that's my sincere feeling! i have read through a few of your responses in my discussions. each of your comment also gives at least an appraisal to your husband. he is such an all-inclusive husband, so you must be a loving wife! God bless you & your family!:)
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
30 Mar 09
thanks for your details of the two types of blaming. but i'm unsure which type of blaming that this woman could be categorized with? LOL!
you are such a lucky woman for having a gentle, smart, intelligent, or should i say an all-inclusive husband? you must have been blessed by God all the time. God loves us.:)
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@sassy28 (834)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I was traveling to Las Vegas and was delayed in Atlanta(no big surprise there), we missed our connecting flight in Dallas. Delta wanted to put us up in a hotel for the night and send us in the morning. I told them that would not work because I was paying $200 for a room in Las Vegas and unless they were ready to compensate me for my room they needed to figure something out. They put me on an American flight and got us there about 2 hours later than original time. I think if you stay calm you get better results than just causing a scene.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
you are right, sassy28. if we stay calm we might get better results. but it would not be easy to stay calm in such a situation especially if we think about all the trouble we would be facing later on because of this...
@greeneyedlady (1439)
• Netherlands
14 Mar 09
This woman is WHACKED!! I have missed airplanes before and though I am agitated, I am agitated at myself and no one else because I am the one that caused me to miss the plane in the first place! So I sit down and wait until the next flight, if it is a few hours and if it is not until the next day I go to a hotel that is located very close to the airport and go back in time for my next flight. And Needless to say the first thing I do is contact someone If I am to be picked up and if not then I don't worry about it!
I missed a flight to go home from Los Angeles to Amsterdam 2 years ago so I waited in the airport for the next flight which was 6 hours later, that gave me plenty of time to check in and get my ticket etc. and of course call and tell Hubby to pick me up 6 hours later than expected.
Then once I was in Holland on vacation and missed a flight to go home to Los Angeles and the exact same thing happened, I waited for about 6 hours for the next flight and contacted my ride.
And this one you will think I am lying but I swear I am not! On my honeymoon, in Reno, Nevada, I missed not one, not two, not three, not four, not five but Six flights to go home to Los Angeles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fortunately no one was going to pick us up so we didn't have to worry about that and the next flight wasn't until about 11:00 the next morning so we went across the street and checked into the hotel, had dinner, gambled a bit, got up the next morning and had breakfast and made Sure we were at the airport in time for the 7th flight!!!
There is really nothing you can do and if the plane has already left then why throw a fit like this woman? They are Definitely not going to turn around and pick you up! Be my luck they would call the men in the white coats and have me admitted for being Nuts! And wouldn't you just Love to be on a plane with someone like that??? :0 ;)
@greeneyedlady (1439)
• Netherlands
5 May 09
I like the way that you think!! Now I can feel so much better knowing that it is not ME that is missing all of these planes since it that Evil Devil that made me do it!!! I am so happy to have you around to think these things out for me and get me off of the hook!! I Just Knew it Couldn't be something that I did wrong!!
I shall be calling you next time I get into trouble and maybe you can work out something about how "the Devil made me do it" then also!! You are a Very handy person to have around!!
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 May 09
of course it's not your fault because it's just too strange for a logic explanation. yes you can call me at any time if you got into trouble in the future. i will surely help you to find the devil behind it. LOL! but don't you think that you need God more than me if it's devil related (since i'm not a ghostbuster)? LOL!
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
5 May 09
sorry for my very late reply. i believe you have already forgotten about this discussion which you have responded earlier. LOL!
wow! i really couldn't believe that you missed six flights in a row! but i don't see your name in the guinness book of record? just kidding!
you really don't have luck when it comes to the number 6. furthermore in all your 3 experiences above, all got to do with the number 6. 666 equals to the devil.
in conclusion, the devil got you into all the troubles. LOL!
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@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
Oh my, she was screaming, crying like crazy. I wonder who's fault was it really. If she missed it because of her fault, then why react so much like that, looks like it's the end of the world.
I pity her, i would be sad if i miss my own flight, but no to the extent that i have to roll over the floor and cry like a baby. At first, i was laughing at her how she rolled down the carpeted floor and people are trying to calm her down.
Me and hubby travel by plane, but we make sure we leave two or three hours ahead of time so that we don't miss our flight. It will be a nightmare to both of us we do get lazy to get going. Better be ready when your traveling, you don't know if there will be traffic right.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
10 Mar 09
yes, i would do the same like you (be prepared at least a few hours earlier) to avoid any traffic jams.
we couldn't really understand how sad she was (thinking about all the trouble & cost she had to face later on) unless we meet with this problem ourselves (hopefully not, LOL!).
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I have missed a flight or two in the past. Many times there is nothing you can do about it so there is no point in throwing a fit. I have always just looked to see if the airline could get me on another flight or if I could catch a flight on another airline.
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
12 Mar 09
You make some interesting points. But I have flown and known people who fly a lot. Most of them would tell you that your attitude has more to do with how you are treated than any thing else. Would you want to deal with a customer who is throwing a screaming fit?
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
jillmalitz,
Well, all I can say is wait till it is the time when you will encounter the very nuances of a mishap at the check in counter. I can assure you that it is not going to be pleasant and may be quite natural to be in a fit of rage.
Just when you think that the caste system no longer exist, then you will be in for a rude awakening and there is a big disparity between the upper class and lower (economy) class passengers. Oh, and wait there is even another segregation for the lowest economy class fare paying passengers. No one is and will be equally treated.
You may not have exprienced the fright and overwhelming feelings where one is caught in the middle of a situation and I can assure you it is quite a harrowing one.
Cheers.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
13 Mar 09
throwing a fit is definitely not a nice thing to do nor a good way to help. however, i will not blame the woman for reacting that way because different people might have different way of handling their pressure. some might be able to stay calm but some needed to release their emotions on the spot.:)
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
8 Mar 09
I saw this video previously when it first came out. Thank goodness I have not missed a flight before, or any connecting flight for that matter. But if I did, I won't be like this lady, creating such a scene. I am not the panicky or emotional type. I will probably make some noise, but take it calmly on the whole. I guess for this lady, missing that flight must have meant a lot to her. She might have over-reacted to many people, but we don't really know her real situation or repercussion of her missed flight.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
8 Mar 09
I did miss a flight, through no fault of my own, twice. The first time my sister and I were traveling and had a connecting flight in Atlanta. We would have made it if one of two things had been different... our first flight did not run late or the connecting flight was not on the other side of this huge airport. We literally RAN as fast as we could and JUST missed it. Luckily, they got us on another flight, an hour later. That was not too bad.
Now the second one was in Italy. We were flying from Palermo, Sicily, to Rome to connect to Naples. Our flight was delayed and we could not get a connecting flight for EIGHT HOURS!! Not so bad if it was just us but we also had my 13-month old granddaughter with us. Without her, we would have found a corner and slept, but you can't do that with a little one and feel safe. We did not want to leave the airport just in case we had a problem getting past security again, and it can happen.
It made us late for the car that was picking us up, costing us about 100 extra Euros on the car and then late to our resort where, once again, we had to pay late fees. On top of that, two of my cousin's bags were lost and he did not get them back until 4 days later. He had to buy clothes and had stuff stolen, too.
Would I make a scene? No, and both were NOT our faults. Therefore, if it was MY fault, I would be even less inclined to open my mouth and look like a fool.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
28 Mar 09
I wish that I were rich!! LOL
We are still paying for that trip but it was well worth it. A lifetime of memories!
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
28 Mar 09
thanks for sharing your experiences, nanajanet! this proved that you are a calm woman, strong & mature from inside out. also... rich? LOL! just kidding... i understood that those were not your faults.:)
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
8 Mar 09
I would probably go the the airlines desk to explain what happened and ask if I could get another flight.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
30 Mar 09
you have a nice username, bestboy19! you are definitely the best boy for giving the best solution here. LOL!
@csrobins (1120)
• United States
9 Mar 09
I wouldn't behave like that that's for sure. I would have been very upset, but I never show emotion anyway so no one would have even known. I would probably go see what I could do to get another flight. It sucks for sure, but the embarrassment this woman is going to experience is going to be far worse.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
11 Apr 09
yes for sure that the embarrassment this woman is going to experience is going to be far worse. the video had been spread & watched by millions throughout the whole world & the news also been reported in newspapers of many countries.
@luckyattraction (268)
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23 Mar 09
lol.. 'besides what she did'?
i dont think i'd make a scene in a public place to start with. but missing a flt cos you are late at the boarding gate must take some daftness, i suppose. can u imagine the number of announcements they would have mde to get her to board that flight before it finally took off, delaying the rest of the passengers on it?
well, if i do find myself being in that situation (maybe cos i fainted in the ladies room? cos i got bitten by the duty-free-shopping bug and lost track of time.. duh!)
i'd first ask what are my options, will get atleast a part refund from the airline. can i board their next flt to the same destination if they have a spare seat. i'd request to see their airline's airport manager, tell him about my plight, and hope that kindness prevails on him.. and he does something to help. lol. i'd exhaust my resources, but wont return home without an option from the airline!
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@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
29 Mar 09
With a reasonable tone you are more likely to get the help you need. It sounds like you are that practical person that others will not mind helping, because you are reasonable and talk calmly.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
12 May 09
hi luckyattraction! i agree with GardenGerty. i found that you are someone who will be willingly helped by anybody around you in times of trouble. you are so... (i will continue my praise to you after you reply) LOL!