annoying people
By missybear
@missybear (11391)
United States
August 14, 2009 7:16am CST
I don't know what it is but certain people just annoy me.
There's a girl at work she just bugs me she's trying to be nice but for some reason I just don't care for her.
Then there's the guy at the gas station that says the same thing every morning when I come in "You're early" I have no idea what he's talking about but he annoys me..
Cerain people bug you and you just can't get a feel for them no matter how nice they are?
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14 responses
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Heyya missybear! I guess there is just something about some people. I have met a few like that too. I try to be nice and just ignore the fact that they drive me nuts but..what do you do? I usually like most everyone but there are some people that just rub us the wrong way.
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@tzaiwah85 (132)
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
Now that is the harsh reality of life.
Anyway, these people are the challenges of life. If we life with people we all like, then there's no challenge to that. Just like the movies... if all the actors and actresses are good and nobody annoys one another, then there's no such thing as a good twist and good story. =)
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi missybear
i don't know what's wrong with you, but certainly you are being annoyed for no proper reason i guess, i don't tend to look at things that way, i find people annoying only when they act strangely and rudely, mean and selfish people really get on my nerves... i can only hope for you to try to be more considerate in life, maybe there is something undone that is eating you up...
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Aug 09
well then i said what all i had to say...
hmmm maybe you feel or have the notion within your subconscious mind that they are being nice to you for some reason... i just wrote that coz it crossed my mind... i know i shouldn't be writing things like that as i don't know you... my apologies
it's only in my honest opinion.
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@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
17 Aug 09
I know exactly what you mean. The people that bug me are the ones that are constantly happy all the time. You know the type. It could be the end of the world and they would still have a smile plastered to their face. I used to work with someone like this and she never frowned or was angry at anything. One day when she found out that her husband was cheating she said "that's o.k. because now I know". What?!! No, it's not o.k. Get angry for goodness sakes.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
18 Aug 09
Oh yeah, I know a couple people like that.
Happy, Happy, Happy "Bite me"
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
14 Aug 09
well look at like this, if they were being more mean and rude you would still complain, so think at least they are just trying to be nice. we really need more nicer people all over the world.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
14 Aug 09
yeah, oh i would have fun with that person, i would like well let get my computer out of my pocket, oh look no computer. lol.
yeah more nicer people is needed around the world. to many nasty people out there.
sometime over nice people are a pain, but they are being nice. lol.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 09
It's not the niceness that annoys me it's the whole package.
@yogambal_64 (1014)
• India
14 Aug 09
Some people have this habit, may be they think they are very social or very smart, I know how irritating it is, you just cannot avoid these people sometimes and never will they realize that we want to avoid them, I know a few of them with the same character.
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Aug 09
yogambal! I really don't look at people that way. No they probably don't know that they are annoying you at all. Look at this way. What is annoying to one is not to the other. He/she could be a vey nice person and could offer a grand friendship under a normal situation. Try not to be too harsh on those that get under your skin.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I tried but they annoy me now and probably always will.
@Donna_hit (63)
• China
15 Aug 09
I can't tolerate them if they are hypocritical, nice to me but do other things in secret. But I believe people you meet are not hypocritical, and they just make their usual behaviors which you don't like. They are probably well-intented, not to harm you or make profit from you.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
16 Aug 09
I know how that is..although maybe what he was implying was that you were out and about early..but still if it is a everyday thing he must know it is a job you go to. My husband said that is why I don't have more friends because even though he says they are being nice he says I rebuff them..I feel that if the friendship isn't there why force it..just to find out later your instincts were right the first time.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I work with a couple of people that no matter how nice they try to be they just annoy me. They always go overboard to try to please me or others, and they just always seem to never accept any type of advice as well. I think what is the worst is when they have issues like Health, etc. but when you try to offer some help they seem to think they are OK, unless you can hand walk them to somewhere that might make them change their mind as well. But sometimes I would Love to either strangle people like this, or Bonk them over their head and help them see how annoying they really are as well.
@CinderInMySoul (4717)
• United States
15 Aug 09
i find everybody annoying. doesnt matter if they are rude, obnoxious or cloyingly sweet (those are the worse kind though..except perhaps the bubbly morning person egad!)
hmm..i even find family annoying. im just not a people person and i never will be. although i do take great delight in sitting in my car watching crowds of ppl walk by..actually im watching for the ones who trip..thats when i love ppl, when something funny happens that my sadistic sense of humor finds amusing.
im going to be the little old bird lady who lives down the street, lying in wait in my front yard with the water hose...just waiting for the kids to come walking by-then BAM! faces full of water Muahahaha!
yup that will be me..aaahh things to look forward to!
@tzaiwah85 (132)
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
Let me ask you a question, are you pregnant at the time when you experienced this? People said, pregnant women just gets annoyed with some people for no apparent reason.
On the other hand, I think, getting annoyed with other people are just normal. Well, I have tried this a long time ago. Not anymore at present. Just an advice, try conditioning your head that you like these people instead of getting annoyed with them. The brain dictates our attitude and feelings. Maybe it's worth a try. Good luck.
@nakitalikely3617 (453)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Hello missbear! I do agree with you about there being people that are annoying and you just can't seem to understand just why or how they seem to just rub you the wrong way but they do. I know because there is this female that I am not to fond of, I just can't seem to pen point what it is about her that causes me to not like her. Everytime I see her she speaks to me and she really never as been rude but it is just something about her. I just can not stand to be anywhere around her. She is just so annoying.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Hi missy! Yeah! I know what you mean! Don't know they bug ya,
but they just do! Don't really know how to explain it either
most of the time! But, since what I know about you is that
you definitely are a people person so if there is anyone that
is truly bothering you they must be really annoying! And it's
ok because everyone is allowed to feel that way!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I'm glad you think so because I really value your oppinion
@AngryKittyMSV (4317)
• United States
14 Aug 09
It's natural, part of human nature. Some people just don't mix well with others for no apparent reason, I know I've met people I instantly disliked for no tangible reason and I know there are people who instantly do not like me even if I have done nothing wrong. I can't explain it, but it's normal, it happens.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I'm glad I'm not alone.
I don't know what it is about some people.
I try to like them but it's just not gonna happen but I still try to be nice and get along with them.
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@hmfryklund (389)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Man I have this problem with so many people, and I am too nice of a person to really say anything about it, I just grin and look away or walk away or whatever. I get annoyed by my mother-in-law because she will literally tell you the same thing or story over and over almost every day and it's like "hey, you told me that already, and again and again" and it's like DUH I KNOW OKAY! Also, there is this girl at work that is just never wrong, and no matter what you say to her, you are the person that isn't right, and it drives me nuts. And one more person, she is a larger girl and she feels that her way to "flirt" or get attention from people is to make fun of them and talk REALLY loud. I am friends with her, but dang she goes too far sometimes, and she doesn't know when to stop!!!!!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Oh yeah , I know a few of them too.
Always know everything.