which one do you prefer marriage or career?

Marriage and Career are the two which have a lot of impact our lives.Career is important to support your life and manage evrything without depending on others.It really takes time to settle in a good career and rule.Marriage is one thing in life which is very important and that relation will be existing until you exist.So marrying a person u love and share your whole life with him is a wonderful experience.So you need not leave 1 for the other.It depends on how you balance both and lead a successful life.

I wouldn't say marriage specifically, but definitely love is more important than work and careers. Sure you need money to live, but having someone to love and understand and support you is more important than anything else in the world.

For me both carry equal importance. If after marriage there are enough opportunities for me to pursue my carrer then i would go for it but if the culture of that home where i am to get married is such that they would hinder in the process of my career development i wont marry such a man even if he loves me. I want a fulfilling life not one which would be dependent on a person.

Hi Mafi, very interesting topic from you again. Marriage and career are both two important tasks in our life. If we choose to give up marriage, then we will be lonely for the whole life. No soulmate and just have friends and family members at our side. But thnen friends and family members can't always be at our side all the time, soulmate is still very important in life especially when coming to old time. Career is also important.Having a good career,it means we will have better life for now and future. Take me for example, I given up my career because of my marriage. Actually I have a good job previously,working in a bank(stable job),but at last I have to give up because my husband wanted us to move back to his hometown after we got married. After full of consideration, I decided to give up my job and go for marriage. I know that by giving away my job, it means I lost my income. Money can always be found back again,but marriage (true love) is only once in a lifetime.

Well i have never been married so i cant really offer any meaningful advice but in a decision making situation I would always have to choose marriage because true love lasts forever and a career can have much less certainty on. A career means nothing if i doesnt give you happiness. A woman you can connect with and love means more than all the wealth in the world to me. Yes i know that sounds soft of effiminate but i dont care.

I believe both are very important. Marriage and true love is something you can only find once in a lifetime sometimes. A career is very important, also. A career is needed to support you and your spouse in your marriage. I think Marriage and Career go hand in hand.

i prefer to choose career..i believe oppurtunity knocks only once..isnt it much better if the both of you accomplish everything you wanted in your life and still end up together..yes, love can make you really happy, but if you have nothing in your table, can you still think about the love??and if the guy really loves you he can wait, even if it takes forever..how can you be happy with someone else when your not happy with your own self??thinking that something is missing,theres something you have to fullfill

if it is a question to choose marriage or career i would surely select my marriage as it is the only major thing in life and we do marry only once and we love only person and he/she is the one who is going to be with us for the whole life and we make a family due to which we get all kind of happiness in life. career is also important but not more than a marriage and our beloved once and may be if we try a little harder in life we might get both the things in life simultanously. and you are right that if we have sucess in life and there is no one with us to celebrate that success with us then that success is not going to matterat all and nor it will bring any happiness to us and we people look forward for happiness and joy life which is a major requirement for every human and we are in search of it and we do choose our career also for our happiness and if it is not going to bring us happiness it is better we leave it and find which satify us all.

I think this is depend on the situation,my friend. Because not at all we can concentrate in our career due to inconsistent measure in our life. Marriage sometimes comes in the wrong place and at the wrong time...so I don't particularly answer this in detailed...Life is very flexible and I think choose career first and if the career is very successful then enter into marriage...Have a nice day!

marriage because i can always work at home through online jobs. In the same time i can be with my husband and meet his needs and do more things that i want to do with so much time in my hands. As much a possible i can be able to spent time with him and cook and bake for him. Its good if im going to have children someday, i can get spent more time with them and take care of them if they need me. Just a call "mom?!" away.

there is a time for every thing. from the start we go with the career.but it really does not mean what is the definition of the career i have will always be correct. a good career can give a good married life sometime but only when it is done on time. so i think even i am not married that the time plays a bigger role here. if you are not able to make a bright career for a high age you could not enjoy your married life if you dont go for marriage then. so there must be a balance of time given to the both of the things.

I prefer to choose career. As a man, Choosing the marriage is really the wrong answer. As far as I know, it is not easy to find a good job for there are full of competitions in my country. You'd better pay more attention to your career other than the marriage. Let us see, one can almost never meet a happy marriage before they have runned a good career. You can't succeed if you lay too much emphasis on marriage. This is my own idea.

I don't think there is any need to chose between marriage and career. I am married to a wonderful man and I also have a career that I love. If I only could have one of them, I'd chose marriage. As you say, it can take a long time to find the right person. But sometimes you can have the best of both worlds - why not make the most out of it.

hello everybody over here...my opinion is to choose career first then we can plan to get married because after marriage also we shouldn become dependent on our husbands according to me...we should stand in our own feet....sometimes it becomes difficult for a gal to manage her career after marriage because shes got many responsibilities so its better to make her career fisrt then she can go for a marriage...and most important thing live everything on god,he wil look after everythin,wats good wats bad everything...so jus believe in god..

i would choose career first cos that fascinates me more than a girl..if u marry..then u have lots of responsibilites- wife, her well being, children and their well being, the overall improvement of living conditions, the possible naggings of wife ...hehe..and the life issues...tat would severly affect the career if u are planning to do career after marriage...but its also true that if we are too crzy about career then time may run out and we may become too old for a marriage leading us into kinds of depression later into life...being aware of all such possibilities what i do nowadays is tat...kneel down and pray.."lord, lead me in thy way ".. have a nice day..

you know, I think it's not a A or B question anymore because for many people, to get married doesn't mean to give up one's career anymore. A family should be supported by both of the couples.I don't know what's going on in other places, but in my culture, women still need to work for money, for the kids milk powder. Actually such jobs can only be called jobs instead of career because most of us work for money, not work for enjoying life and interest.

I can give up my career for marriage. I am very hands on when it comes to my family. I can easily rebuild a career that can work around my schedule as a mother and a wife.

I would most definitely pick marraige over career, but then again, that may be because Ive never really been career motivated? My idea of happiness lies in eventually becoming a stay at home Mom as a career. Which of course would involve marriage. Not to mention I think it is more important to have love and someone you can lean on and to be good company over a good career. But then again there are those people that will always prefer career over marraige. In the end it all depends on the person and which they value more.

you rising a nice question, which may help to unmarried people to get right decision in his/her life. this question seems not for me, as i already married. but if i'm un married yet, i would prefer 1st to build career. to marry we can catch a nice girls as we dream, if our career is light, bright and prosperous. within career build time, if i fall love to some one, i need to keep her wait until the career should be stable. if he or she love you true , he/she may wait for you . if cant wait. no need to be sad and care. some day you surely forget this pain. but if you lose your career whole life you will in suffering and life will be painful forever.so don worried, with a good career, every one can get a girl to marry, which one may better then others.

Can i choose both marriage and career,they said if you're lucky to your career you will be failure to your marriage.There a lot of people when they are succesful in career,its only there focuses.And most career oriented person they dont have time to find someone or they are very choosy.And some are getting old to be married.But for me i prefer to get married first.Because when you get married to get also career together at once, and also you will have inspiration while your working because you have your family.And all the earnings is for your family and somebody will get take care of you in times you get older and sick.While your succesful in your career and you have lots of money you cant buy anybody to be your wife and husband if you will get old alone.There's nothing to share your wealth.