Woman is ugly but she has a parnter that is handsome and hot, do you know anyone
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6199)
Pasay, Philippines
May 30, 2011 2:44pm CST
[b]Do you know somebody that the girlfriend is ugly at all she can be really fat or obese and not so good looking but then she has a boyfriend or husband that is really really handsome, hot, attractive like a model and celebrity, someone that is the crush of many girls? Do you know anyone?
What is your reaction towards this couples that are like that? [/b]
Honestly I want to see that case and interested to know their story on how they loved each other. Because I haven't really know anyone who is into this case. All I can see right now and it is being over rated is that beautiful girls can have a boyfriend or husband that is ugly and not rich at all. Most of the time when I am seeing a pretty girl with his ugly bf or husband I have this conclusion that the guy is rich or at least he is financially stable. Sometimes I am wrong but most of the time I was right.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
30 May 11
This is where the true purpose of 'marriage' (at least as concerns each person's personal life) is revealed: Marriage is not about 'enjoying looking at your partner often,' but more about 'being satisfied with yourself as you are (knowing you'll probably get better).'
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
31 May 11
If the guy is matured and smart enough to know the purpose of marriage then probably he would be wanted to have a good life. Unlike for those who tend to be a playboy then their purpose is not about marriage but on how to satisfy their body.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
We can't just actually determine that how they fell in love to each other unless we will know them personally and will be close to them. But if you know they are sensible people then probably they are sensible enough for caring the good traits of people regardless of being ugly, low profile and other flaws.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
We can't just actually determine that how they fell in love to each other unless we will know them personally and will be close to them. But if you know they are sensible people then probably they are sensible enough for caring the good traits of people regardless of being ugly, low profile and other flaws.
@NYRican (82)
• United States
31 May 11
I remember when I used to be shallow and would also wonder about the same thing why is he with her? Or why is she with him? Thinking that pretty people should only be with pretty people and ugly should be with ugly is almost like saying black and white shouldn't mix, speaking metaphorically of course.
I once was that pretty type of girl who would only date the really cute guys thinking they were my type, and they were either too self absorbed, too cool to show you their feelings, players, or all of the above.
Still I thought cute was my type so I wasted 5 years of my life dating this really hot guy. Even though he was a complete Ahole, I figured he's really cute so it has to work no matter what, cause we looked so good together.
After being single again, I met this guy online. I didn't think he was my type after seeing his pic, but he sounded really nice, so I decided to give him a try. It turned out that I didn't really know what my type was. The attraction that I felt for him on our first date was unbelievable. I felt feelings that I never knew existed. We've been together now for 11 years married for 9 we understand each other so well that sometimes we finish each others sentence.
So like they say "never judge a book by it's cover" It's so true.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
Thank you for understanding my post and my point at all. I agree that we shouldn't really judge a book by it's cover because we still don't know the content inside of it.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
I don't know anyone personally but I always see couples on the street or in the malls that are really opposite. Either the girl is so pretty and the guy is so ugly or the other way around. I also want to ask them what they saw in each other to have a relationship. I know it's not my business but I am just curious. And I am sometime jealous because I know I am not pretty so I really want a guy that is handsome to make it balance..heheh. You may be correct, maybe the one who is not so pretty or handsome is rich that is why he/she has a gf/bf that is handsome/pretty. But maybe you are also wrong, maybe they really think that they are meant for each other and that physical appearance doesn't matter for them.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
27 Mar 12
Usually I am only seeing the girl that is so pretty then the guy is not that handsome or worst case they are really ugly. Sometimes I am curious if how does that handsome guy get this pretty girl that looks like she is someone who would really look for handsome guy. So I am wondering if others had seen that ugly girls won a handsome guy. Because for me that is just rare rather than the pretty girl with ugly man.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
Of course I also know some of Filipina with foreigners. but then others are dirty old man foreigners.
@JJohnson79 (301)
• United States
31 May 11
I personally don't know anyone in that type of situation. The only thing I can say is there's really somebody for everybody and for whatever reason God connects certain people, only he knows what qualities they share that brought them together. It could've been a pen pal type of situation, love at 1st sight situation or maybe it was a hook up thru friends...who knows.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
I totally believe that God connects people as well. But then it will still depend upon the decision of a person if he/she tries to make a move which can be right or wrong.
@Mickie30 (2626)
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31 May 11
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have never really gone for looks in a relationship because beauty comes from within. To call someone ugly when they may not look beautiful as the world expects but, beautiful from within is wrong. There are many models who the world may not accept as beautiful, but actually they take amazing photos because of their bone structure. How does a blind man find the love of their life? It is because they see the beauty that lies within. This is where beauty really is. A person may be beautiful as the world expects but, be ugly inside. Many attractive women are far too obsessed with the way they look and the money they have. I have hardly ever worn make up or worried about my appearance yet I get complimented. I am 34 years old but, most people think I am in my early 20's.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
Yes but my question here is do you know someone that is physically attractive guy who marries the non attractive at all that is low profile as well? I am just curious with their story.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
30 May 11
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Yes I have seen unattractive women with hot boyfriends. When I see that I tend to think what did they see in her and figure she must have a great personality and won them over with that instead of looks. Maybe the person she is with doesn't care about looks as much.
I would not consider myself a beauty queen and all of my boyfriends have been ok looking. Not overly good looking but not ugly either so I'd say our looks pretty much match. It is a little surprising to see a couple that is miss matched in the looks department you tend to wonder what drew them to each other.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
31 May 11
It all by means that this handsome guy is being objective. I really admire those guys that are down to earth and logical. Because most of the guys may really tend to be immature when it comes to relationship especially if they know that they are good looking and hot.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
31 May 11
Maybe the woman is rich, that is why the guy attract with her money. There is no ugly when in terms of money. As we all know today...if you have money. You can have something even if the celebrity come into your bed always...
Another reason will be the want to make sure that he alone with the woman. Because most of the pretty woman now is cheater and having more affairs outside...
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
Well just like Vicky Belo. She is not really ugly but man!!!! she is too old to have very young man that is handsome. Obviously it is all about money. But then what I want to know is regardless of the money or being a high profile, I want to know if a handsome guy have married the ugly woman that is also low profile and poor.
Because the person that we only know is that both couples are ugly but the guy has the capability to look for pretty girls but his ugly girlfriend can't break up with him because she was willing to sacrifice for a guy who is looking for other girls as long as in the end of the day he will be with his gf.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 May 11
i guess that those people can see more than just a face. the truth is that we all get old. and if we be with someone just bcs he has an handsome face and not bcs his personality when we get old and be with that person what will we talk about? where we will go out? that will be like a wasted time in our lives. so i guess that those couples see more than a face. or maybe they think the other that we see ugly as a beautiful person. i say this bcs i remember to have a school friend that she thought a guy was ugly and for me he was so handsome and she thought a guy was so handsome and for me he was ugly. this just depends of people tastes^^
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
As others say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are sensible guys who doesn't value the face but the good traits of a woman. I admire other guys who have that kind of mentality, I only rare to know and see them.
@kumakuma (84)
• Malaysia
31 May 11
for your information, the guy actually not looking for a hot and cute girl for them to marry. He just want a girl that understanding and she can cook well. I had seen a very handsome guy with a girl which I considered not pretty. the girl and the guy looks suit each other.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Aug 11
For your information the word must be "sweet" instead of "suit" But then as I said I only rare know some handsome guys who tend to look for girls in good traits regardless of her ugliness, being low profile, and poor.