I am the owner of this topic, why are you invading here? :P

@annavi23 (6522)
Philippines
August 31, 2012 4:25am CST
Hello there, I just came to realize I was somehow hooked to some discussions here which makes me feel like I am invading someone else's property. Sorry for those people, you know who you are and I just like to participate more cause I am interested in the topic, that's why. Anyways, have you tried doing this? Like there's a discussions you feel really interesting and you act as if like it's your own and you comment on every response it has? Well, I did it just this few days, and last time with my friend's topic. It was okay with my friend back then for me to invade her topic and act as if it is mine. But now, I don't know what this person feels to what I did...
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Aug 12
"Anyways, have you tried doing this?" Me? Do something like that? Some days that is all that I do here I often land on topics started by friends or Lotters that I have already interacted with. Some appreciate it and some don't. Some comment back and then a chan of back and forth comments gets underway and then, the next day, I know that some who were doing it for the firsdt time are amazed at the results because in back and forth comments is where the earnings lie here. That is when we are discussing and that is what myLot was created for. Right... now.... where to go next...
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Aug 12
Legends and angels have usually moved on to another life but I can assure you that I am still alive and kicking I know that some are intimidated at least once by my posts but then many get to know me better and realise that it's just fun here and that is what I come here for. There is not enough of that offline
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah, i know. I just said that because from the moment i joined in here, i always see you guiding people to the light... Well, for sure i have learned to like you, even annoy at you or mad or intimidate...i don't know. I even think befor3 that you ar3 one of the admins here.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
mysd, of course, I know you always do that! I guess you are a legend in here and an angel as well, cause you guide most of the people, specially newbies in here if they have questions about how to do mylot. I have seen most of your post. I might say, some would really be intimidating and some maybe fine. I respect that. We all have different opinions anyway. yes, for sure, back and forth messages are really good. cause it helps increase our earnings. it also depends on how good your comment was and you should feel that you like talking to the person. Sometimes if you don't have good to say, it's better to say nothing at all.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Aug 12
hi annavi23 as Diana has often said kibitzing here on others discussion is legal and nobody need complain as all those comments we make we do get paid for them,.Also when we comment to each other we are learning about each other too.i have never had any one get upset but have often spurred comments to my comments and we all furthered that discussion farther., have f un and comment all over the lot.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
hello hatley, yeah, as one of the legends here, you are all known in this site. we all learn from each other, that's true! and nobody has to complain, unless they don't like our comments, they sometimes comment back and you can see it's obvious they are mad. I do comment a lot or respond a lot but there are times, i can't seem to go back to other topics cause there are limited time i got sometimes. but i can see there are people who don't read between the lines. Sometimes they do ask a question in their title and then i do answer between the lines. not saying exactly my answer to the question. the starter seem to get mad cause i didn't answer the question itself. i just didn't came back to comment again to avoid the arguement...
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• United States
31 Aug 12
"comment over the lot" sounds like a nice pun for it! What we are doing is commenting and since it is "myLot" it is the "lot" but also because not all of the "lot of us" comment like how this is meaning... well I think you get it?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Sep 12
I have done this before myself and honestly it is ADDICTING.. I don't think many people really mind as it helps further the discussion, if they do care, just kindly walk away, that's what I'd do. When something intersts me sometimes I jump in and not even a muzzle gets me to be quiet!
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
31 Aug 12
I'm sure that there a few sensitive people out there that would get offended with other people jumping in and out of their discussions. But I happen to think that it's a good way to participate. I guess everybody is just different.
@GardenGerty (161594)
• United States
1 Sep 12
I have had a person get mad at a response long ago, but it is so very rare. I just seem to find the right kind of friends to exchange ideas with and have fun.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
bounce, i guess there are really people who would feel like that. they don't want others to join specially when the only two of you are the only ones talking there and then someone would interrupt...and to think you can have a love feeling to the one you are talking to, what a shame... GG, yes i do believe that we all get to have fun in here and if people participate in jumping in and out of your discussions, the better it can be. unless their response or presence you don't like, that will become a problem...
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
31 Aug 12
Sometimes I feel weird jumping in and commenting to the responses, and sometimes I REALLY, REALLY want to do it, but I don't because it makes me feel like I'm just walking up and interrupting a conversation that 2 or 3 people are having amongst themselves...and here I come just walking up and start talking, "and blah, blah, blah, and blah, blah, BLAH!!"
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
there are obviously topics which two people have never ending conversations, which it is indeed we can't excuse ourselves and do the talking... i guess it's still okay to jump in if there are one post per person are there. i believe we can exchange opinions in here in just a single responder. just as long as we jump in earlier for people to know our existence...
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Aug 12
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Haha,yeah, because there are topics left abandoned as if like there's no one home with them. All deserves to be answered. plus, we can feel appreciated if someone listens...
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
31 Aug 12
Watch out I am coming in! Its a great thing to get active like this though it is fun for us and the person should feel good that their discussion inspired so much. Sometimes even I have felt "intimidated" to contribute but now that is a little silly I see. We are supposed to keep going and contributing adding our own thoughts and opinion or even derail it for fun where ever the conversation goes.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
Haha, yeah I can see some people here who post out-of-the topic when they are just responding in the first time. Well, obviously some do this cause they know the person who strted the topic and they had a lot of conversations before, so what they do is just respond or turn the discussion to a chat box... have you noticed some in here? that's why chatbox don't need here cause we are open to chat all others whenver we like to. private messaging is done when you have to tell people some private things you don't need all people to know. but sometimes there can be people who turn this mylotting to their personal journal or diary cause they tell all their doings in life. Which can also be fun.keep on contributing details added more fun and excitement to the discussion. though, not all people can respond or comment fast. they still try to come back. I can see there are those who still comes back for their discussions abandoned in months or years...which is somehow funny. but coming back to those old discussions which you started can be times of reminiscin as well. cause what you are feeling that time subsides and is all now history.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
I have experienced that from many other member who are just mingling the affairs of others because they felt they are more capable to make the correct opinions.They are free to make their own comments but they are overlapping others right to make their opinions.They can open their own space to open up their opinions.Why are they so greedy taking out the space intended for my own opinion.They are even making bad impressions on our opinion.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Aug 12
"...they felt they are more capable to make the correct opinions" Is an opinion ever 'correct'? Surely, because it is an opinion, it is just that, an opinion, and therefore just a thought and never correct or incorrect? Just my opinion
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
opinions can be correct or incorrect, depends on how you categorize it, i guess. berting is just trying to say that people do jump into discussions to share their own views or opinions which for them is correct. it is just up to you how to recognize it...
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Oh, so you think that what I have done is wrong? Well, I respect that. we all can share our views, but there are times we all need someone who will cheer up the topic or the conversation, isn't it?
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@GardenGerty (161594)
• United States
1 Sep 12
I move in and out of discussions whenever I feel like I have something to contribute, and no one seems to mind. It may be that I just have the right kinds of friends and it is not a problem for them or for me. It is fun to have a good visit with everyone.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
Yes, it is fun to visit with everyone. From time to time, you'll know what kind of people you are talking to and how they react at times. so you'll know if they'll get mad easily by your comments. I have known others who felt mad easily that's why it's good to avoid them instead... there are lots of people in here who have positive opinions and attitudes and fun to talk with than stay with them. what do you think? Finding good friends in here is really fun cause you will enjoy every comments or post you make because of them. plus,whatever you post, they will understand and respect.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Sep 12
Normally speaking, we can have repeated discussions here because of not searching the previous post. We are already encourage to do searching by the use of myLot SE but sometimes we are tired to do so. They didn't even know that by doing that it can help us earn from myLot SE.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 12
MOst of website developer knows what is SE and SEO. Sorry you are wondering what does really mean before. Yes, by using myLot SE will help us to earned. Not only just continue posting and posting.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Sep 12
Categorically speaking, our earnings is based on our activities not the total number of post we did for the whole day. I think you are aware on this idea my friend.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It does require lots of posts to earn more, do you agree? That's what others say here, you type, you earn. Though, there can be tasks where one can earn fast easily. Though it requires skills to earn there. Too bad, i don't have it,so i am just earning in discussions and search. Even referrals, there will always have doubts and most don't get interested...
• Mexico
2 Sep 12
Hi annavi: I don't see things this way honestly. Mylot's discussion are not someone's property not even the starter's one. The site is about sharing ideas so participating in a positive way giving a lot of comments on the same discussion is a good thing for me. ALVARO
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hello alvaro, yes, i know that. no one owns it, I amjust exaggerating it as if like what if the starter is the owner and some just pass by and some keep on tresspassing, you know that.... anyways, it's a good thing that someone or most people do interact in any of the responder's post. this makes the conversation more fun and interesting cause we all get to share our thoughts depends on what type of feeling you have...
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
well i think it's better than opening a discussion and not commenting back to the responses. i noticed several of these cases here. how about applying this style to these topics at least your letting respondents feel that their opinions are being considered.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
1 Sep 12
It is not hard to jump in on those long back and forth conversations at all. It might be more difficult if you have a slow connection but that is the only problem that I envisage. Just keep refreshing the page and when you see your moment, jump in too!
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hello namiya! Yeah, I absolutely agree on you with that. So, you are with me huh? I think we should have this applied in every discussion. Wanna join me? I do love back and forth conversations but only few people I encounter it. Depends on who am I talking to and what is there to talk about. There are things I am not interested that's why I don't usually get into the jumping... I do believe every responder needs to have a comment. just one will do to be more appreciated. you can feel if the person wants to talk more or not. right?
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
yes, i do believe we all have different opinions in life and so, just like in real world conversations, we tend to listen to what other family members are saying and add something to it...there's nothing wrong cause we all are a family and we can feel free to share our views and opinions, right? Unless you can see some who really post back and forth which makes it long, which is harder to jump in...don't you think?
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hi there. I don't think it's an invasion of some sort. If one of my discussions got to be as lengthy as what you might have participated in a few days ago, I wouldn't mind. That's what makes a discussion. It's the throwback of different but healthy opinions, informative and entertaining. I honestly think that that is what makes a great discussion and that's what makes Mylot a good site. As far as invading others' discussion like my own, I don't think I have done that yet.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hello prc, if i remember, i had conversations with yo in your financial freedom topic. We somehow made it lengthy though, it's go"d to have those kinds of throwback and exchanging point of views in life. You are absolutely right. We have to keep the conversations going to be able to call it a discussion. Actually, i have a friend here who i always get to exchange post3 with. But lately, she's not around. But im still looking forward to those who hav3 throwbacks...
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Actually, i opened your profile to see where did we seen each other. I don't always have that good memory... So, you seen m other topics huh? I can't remember which topic of mine did we conversed... What made you say it's lengthy? Is it b the number of responders or numibers of tthrowing back opinions? What would you prefe, between the two? For me, i like the number of comments back and forth exchanging of views or anything even out of topic as long as you are both enjoying....
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Wow! You have a good memory. I remember that discussion. But not as lengthy as some of your discussions. It's always nice to hear different opinions from others and though some maybe in contrast to my own, I still appreciate them. They serve as an eye opener and source of information so yeah, I enjoy a good and healthy discussion and I get to do it here in Mylot.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
Well, sometimes we feel as if we can really relate to the topic , so we do that. Though, i don't hop from one box to another to add my comments. Sometimes, many familiar mylot friends joins me in a respondent's box and that's where i get to really respond a lot. It's fun when it's like that.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
hello simplyD! Yeah, it's more fun to see other people joining in your respondent's box, meaning they enjoy talking to you. well, if the topic or your response is really interesting, anyone can really join the fun. I like this type too. where most people are having fun in one respondent's box. It makes the conversation lenghty and everyone gets entertained as well. depends on what they are talking about.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
you said you don't jump from one box to another, why so? i do that at times. this is the reason why i started this topic, you know? well, for some reasons, it does help me in saving time not to move on to another discussion ahead. for it can also help us to know others and easily befriend as well.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Yes, i feel that way. Happy that some of my friends join in my answer.
@Orson_Kart (6908)
• United Kingdom
31 Aug 12
I think it can appear that someone has taken over a discussion started by someone else. If they start replying to every response before the OP has had a chance to, then I can see why that might annoy some people. I don't think that has happened to me or I have been that annoying responder. However, I can be annoying in other ways!
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Maybe in some reasons, i have annoyed that person cause he didn't commnt back. I don't know. even the responders didn%t comment back. only one did. Maybe they just didn't like the topic anymore. Orson, i think you can be annoying jus like that grandpa avatar you got there... cute but if you alwqys see that, it can be annoying...hehe
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
by the way, what does OP mean? in my case, the starter did comment on every response he got. i just joined him commenting. but seems like no one wants my comments.. about the tqke over thing, i've somehow done that but not to all response,i guess.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Aug 12
OP = Original Poster
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
It's alright for me. I sometimes can't comment back to some of my discussions immediately. My mistake is posting a lot of discussions and I don't know who to reply to first. I always end up replying to the discussions with the recent comments. I appreciate mylotters who are participating in my discussions. I sometimes smile because they're already answering instead of me. I feel sorry that I don't have enough time to answer back all comments. I'm still checking every discussion I had posted. I guess there are still plenty of unanswered or unreplied comments. Happy mylotting.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hello karah, i just started new ones this many in few hours inerval and i can say, not all topics i can comment easily. B7t i am happy to see you in som3 of my few topics here. Nice having you around. It's true, if we start too many topics, we may not be able to comment back on those responses we get. I do understand, there are people who gained too many responss but because of their busy lives, 5hey can't finish commenting in all their topics. So, i guess some people should take over to give comments to show some appreciation. Right? I agree it is every starter's duty to comment on all responders.
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
I don't think there is nothing wrong of what you did. We are all entitled to have freedom of expression. I had encountered but different scenario, that person was a faultfinder. Personally, I don't mind.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Oh, you encountered mylotter who keeps on commenting in a bad way, is it? That can be really annoying. Those people somehow can be avoided.instead of arguing with them, be positive. There are lots of other discussions where you can find good ood people to interact with...