broken not once.....

They say that when someone is the right one for you, you'll know it one way or another because there are really relationships that are meant to last though it will be put to the test, somehow they get through it just fine. It hurts loving someone in your own special way then eventually he'll fall out love and the rest will be history. I've had my share when I was younger and what motivated me not to feel sorry for myself was this inner voice nagging me to keep going, never dwell on something that's never meant to be and during those moments that I was so obsessed with thinking about him and our relationship, I always take a pause and tell myself, "enough! he's not even thinking about you so why waste your time on him?" and it really worked for me all the time. I go out with friends and for my alone time, I always read books I don't give myself the time to dwell on the painful side of the broken relationship.

that`s why i fight so hard for keeping my relationship smooth.. even sometimes i know i sacrifice too much for her..

Hi there grachie, Same here... I would love to meet someone whom I can say mine. Eventhough I have a boyfriend now, our distance makes me feel like I don't have a boyfriend. I want someone who is just around or even if he is not around... someone that can make me feel like he's always beside me. It is true that when you think about the past with the ex, it brings back the pain, the anger, the sadness... what you really need is to enjoy life and go out on a date with someone. Once you fall in love again, you will never have to look back on the past hurt.

I have never been heart broken, I was married for 12 years, divorced now. But I never felt he broke my heart. I would never want that to happen to me. Good luck to you there..

hello there, I am sorry for what you are going through, and i agree with you what you are saying. I agree with you on the point that you have to move one if one relationship does not works out, But on the contrary if you see,every relation has some misunderstanding and negligence. So its upon us to decided weather we really want that relation to be for a longer time or you just want to break it for just some reason. I believe there are many such relations which are broken just for some silly reasons, At times its our ego which does not allow us to accept our fault, so its good to let go the string from one side,if the other person is pulling it. At times say sorry even if you are not at fault,later when the person realize that it was not your fault and still you said sorry,imagine how proud the person would feel to have you in his/her life. My point of view is don't take love for granted and just don't move on .Try and take effort to make the relation stronger.. raj india

Yeah i have been in this before there was a guy i once believe he was my everything... and now today he is my nothing... To me he is a strange i don't care about him anymore but the memories of him always come back no matter what... Happy New Happy.. all the best.

Hi grachie, dear grachie, honney you are so sweet. You recall me all the pain I suffered when I was young. When I was 20 I was deeply hurt, I was supposed to marry my boyfriend, we had a 7 year relation. But he cheated me. I cried every day for a year, and regretted many things, til I knew he got married. I decided that nobody was going to hurt me again. I decided to build my life. I enter a church kid ministery, many of my energy in those lovely kids made forget many painful moments. Two years later I got married with my best friend. We were neat friends for 11 years. And today we have 15 years of marriage, and 3 kids. Love is not an easy affair. I found God as my source of love, faith, and strenghtness. My parents got divorced a week before I got married. So when I feel sad I enjoy looking for God. He is with us all time, inside us, in a Bible, in a mass. In a friend, in a say, in nature. May God bless you Grachie and found love in your heart, and then when he says is time for you he will send you what and who you need .... Merry Christmas... dainy

There is no perfect world. If our heart broke into pieces for so many times, it means we cannot find the right one yet. It is a part of knowing the real life of loving someone.

The pain will heal. Be glad you experienced it. It made you stronger, and wiser. I'm not afraid to fall in love again. I just hope this time, I'll fall in love with the right one. I hope you will find yours too. Just don't lose your capacity to love.