so sad:(
By rinnajane
@rinnajane (5)
January 23, 2013 9:53pm CST
Why is it that life seems to be so unfair? all i want in life is to be happy filled with love.
Seeing those couples walking at the street holding hands and seems so sweet, makes me think and start hating myself cause the truth is, im so envy, i cant help it, im just so sad feeling so alone.
If true love and happiness exist? why am feeling so alone? why its talking too long for me to be happy?
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11 responses
@kiepher (55)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
I'm a broken-hearted, not to mention I became a single mother because of that. It can't even called two-in-a-row but two-in-one pain and sadness. I was jilted and had a child without a father, yeah, sometimes life is unfair, but its the way things are. If i have to focus on these sad things of life, i'd be forever sad.
You are luckier than someone, pal.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Hey there, you are just having the blues now I suppose. I, my single friends too, feel that way also once in a while. When we seem so sad being single with no one to hold hands with. No one to be with when we need to go somewhere. No one cuddle up with. Yes there are some guys around, but we must try to get to know them better also. because at times we wish for someone to love, and if there is someone showing interest on us, we stop and think whether to give love a try again with this new guy. Sometimes we wish too hard that when it;s given we dont know what to do.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 13
The right person hasn't crossed your path yet? don't lose faith that they will...
@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
24 Jan 13
being happy it's not only to find love. It's also being grateful for your health, family and friends. Love will come when it's the proper time. And after it comes, if you want it to stay you'll have to work really hard at it. As everything else, love is compromise, understanding, friendship and partnership. I am sure you will find the proper person to be with, it's just a matter of time. Cheer up!
@Raine38 (12389)
• United States
24 Jan 13
Love comes (and goes) in its time and season, and reason. We can't force it or bribe. We can only accept it with open arms, nurture it and let it grow. Don't take it too hard. Your time will also come. For the time being, why not enjoy your life as a single person? Reconnect with old friends, learn a new hobby. Take that trip that you've been wanting but keep putting off. Learn a new language and try that new recipe. Love cannot be chased, and I have proven that when you chase it around, it tends to be even more elusive. But when you quit hounding it, you will just be surprised that it comes knocking on your door.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. Maybe you just need to be with other people most of the time so you'd be able to meet a lot of people to give you company. Try to mingle with a lot of people. Who knows? maybe that special someone is juts waiting for you....
@god_is_good (683)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
In my years of existence and living, I learned that life didn't promise to be fair. It is how we see it, and our attitude towards it that matters. You can always see life as sad and lonely, while I'll see it as a great morning to enjoy God's creation. You can always feel lonely and alone while I may be alone but not lonely. You can choose to be so lonely while I will want to feel so happy that I'm alive and in good health. You can choose to stay always pessimistic about life while others choose to be optimistic. Successful people are more on the optimistic side. We can learn to see the other side of the scenario.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
24 Jan 13
I don't know why life must be so unfair.
I learned long ago not to stake my feelings or emotions on other people's love or affection toward me. I did learn that the hard way. Its not an easy road to go down alone, life in general is hard. Those of us who do go through it hopefully make ourselves stronger. You won't always be alone.
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
It happens my friend, cheer up. Love can be there all around us, if it didn't work out. Then we can still have it along the way.
@akhaniemar (122)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Just wait for the right time. Eventually, I know you'll be happy soon. Just don't forget to appreciate life. There is always a right time for everyone. It will always be worth waiting for.