Would you tell people if you were leaving the site?

@sprite1950 (30452)
Corsham, England
March 29, 2018 4:21pm CST
Some people like to inform others if they have decided to leave the site probably because they have been here a long time and made many friends so feel it's the right thing to do. Others prefer to slip away quietly without any fuss. In the past I have left but never told anyone because I hadn't been here long enough for anyone to notice and felt a little embarrassed that I hadn't lasted very long. Would you say if you were leaving?
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
29 Mar 18
I wouldn't because I know no one would care. I am not one of the popular members here perhaps if I was I would. I have taken months off at a time and no one knew I was gone.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@Freelanzer I felt like that when I left and it happened so often that I would have felt really silly if I had mentioned it. I've been here since the end of February this time which is really good for me.
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
@Courtlynn Yeah! I got 1. Thanks
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
30 Mar 18
Hey! I've noticed!
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@allknowing (137674)
• India
30 Mar 18
I did that fpr Face Book. I have decided to call it a day there although I have not deleted my account yet. Here I would not.
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@allknowing (137674)
• India
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 I have not done that as I have a school page there which I have created. I am not sure if I can transfer it to anyone else. But I have stopped posting there.
@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I deactivated my account on fb because my family had upset me but I didn't tell them.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
30 Mar 18
Facebook is falling apart fast. We never know who we are talking to anymore and there are too many sponsored messages. And there is the matter of him selling our information.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I would tell people if I was leaving myLot because a couple of people might care. I don't want to disappear without saying anything.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I notice people do worry about others when they are not seen for a while which is nice.
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@DaddyEvil (137530)
• United States
3 Apr 18
@akalinus I'm letting you know that I am leaving for a while, Jo Ann. You are welcome to email me if you feel like it.
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@akalinus (43334)
• United States
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Yes, it is nice to know you are missed.
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
30 Mar 18
Of course I would.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I think if you've been here a while and made friends you would want to say goodbye.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@Courtlynn I never have because I don't think anyone would remember me anyway.
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 i would say bye regardless.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Mar 18
I'd first speak with some of my My Lot friends, to see what they think. It's a tough decision that I've been thinking seriously about doing. Not because I know a lot of people here. Instead, because of my other responsibilities that often get pushed aside, by me.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I don't think I would write a post, I would probably send private messages to people I knew best.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Exactly, I'd talk with a few of my trusted friends, privately.
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• Peoria, Arizona
30 Mar 18
I guess it kind of depends. I think i would probably just leave quietly. I don't like good byes. But I might but something that says like I might be leaving so if anyone want to still have contact then I would add people I like on social media.
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• United States
31 Mar 18
You are absolutely right; it all depends. Circumstances will vary which will determine if an announcement or a quiet departure is necessary.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I don't like goodbyes either and I know I might come back again so I would rather not make a fuss.
• Peoria, Arizona
31 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Since I don't have many people to talk to, I like bein here haha I have no reason to leave unless I get banned.
@GardenGerty (160936)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I probably would, because I see how upset we all become when people disappear.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
Yes everyone has been worried about Patsie Hatley.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
I wouldn't know what to write? Dearest loving friends, This is my notice of termination, Kiss myass,
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
You're so naughty I would be more likely to smack it!!
@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@Bluedoll Bit like life generally then. I'm sure some people would miss you.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 not too hard I hope seriously though i've found my online life here if that is what it's called something like a roller coaster ride so goodbye's are difficult to come up with. A scream?
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
30 Mar 18
I have always done that whenever I left Mylot and received a good farewell . I think people liked my decision although the said good things and looked sad. However, I left thrice and joined again every time within days with same name.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
You mean they were glad to see the back of you?. I've flitted back and forth many times but never stayed long. I didn't really put in the effort like I have this time. I should make $14 by the end of tomorrow
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@suni51 I never had that before which is why I didn't stay long. This time it is different which is why I've been here for a month and not fed up yet,
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 "I should make $14 by the end of tomorrow" Great going - but I can not say the same and there is no chance to say for me in coming months. In fact, I am missing my old gang that would simply jump on my discussions and keep discussing for months together.
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@LadyDuck (472024)
• Switzerland
30 Mar 18
I would let people know. Not many days in advance, the day I should decide to go, I would post a last discussion to let people know and then disappear. I do not like long farewell.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
You have been here so long that people would definitely miss you. If I had been here as long as you I would probably let people know.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@LadyDuck That's true. There have been a few people worried about some of their friends.
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@LadyDuck (472024)
• Switzerland
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 When a user disappear, people immediately think that something bad happened. This is the reason why I would let people know.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Mar 18
sure.I would not just walk away.Let them know that your taking a break so and so
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I know you would be missed!
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
31 Mar 18
i left bubblews... no, bubblews evaporated and i was also gone. hahaha! no, if i leave, i will do that without informing anybody.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
31 Mar 18
I might just tell one or two people by private message.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
1 Apr 18
@ridingbet I wouldn't say I was close to anyone here but there are those I interact with more than others so they might miss me.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Apr 18
@sprite1950 right, to those who are so close to you, right?
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@dya80dya (36774)
29 Mar 18
I think I would say I am leaving. Even if nobody would care.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I am sure there are some that would care.
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
29 Mar 18
I dont think I would. What are the chances they'd miss me? If I decided to come back, I'd find out. :-)
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
No one's ever missed me or if they did they didn't say!
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@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
No, I wouldn't. The longest time I was away from mylot was almost a year I think and I got emails from those who I interacted with a lot and I informed there why I was away. Plus, when someone is missing here, I don't look for them. I wonder in my head but I don't make a discussion about it because I know they have a good reason for not being here and I don't have to make a big deal about it like I don't want to make a big deal of me being gone when that happens.
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@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 People would still respond though. But when I see a discussion of people leaving, I don't bother commenting on that. Why should I when I know nobody would read it.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@toniganzon I suppose it's an easy response to make, It doesn't require much effort to say goodbye to someone even if you don't know them. I don't know if I would say goodbye to someone I had never interacted with though.
@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@toniganzon Yes I think you're probably right. I would find it embarrassing if I started a discussion about leaving and no one responded
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
even if i'm not popular here, yes, i still will and tell them i appreciate them and our interactions. i will add that i don't have fb and let them decide if they'll pm me their email or snail mail address if they want to keep in touch. i would be so touched if one or two did.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
You have been here as a regular for a long time so I can understand that you would want to. I'm sure people here would like to keep in touch with you.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@hereandthere That's nice. It would be a kind gesture to thank people.
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• Philippines
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 yes, i've been here a while but not a regular, really. even in the old mylot, i was among the slow earners because i was more of a reader and observer. the post would more about saying thank you to everyone, especially to the people behind mylot.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
30 Mar 18
It depends on the site, I would let people know if I like the site and the community.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I meant MyLot but it could apply to any site. I would definitely say if I was leaving ForumCoin because I left for a short time once before without saying anything and Cyberfreak messaged me to see if I was ok. I thought that was really nice.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@nela13 Yes I was touched. I had taken a break because my sister was very ill but I went back soon after he messaged me. How are you feeling?
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 that was very nice from Cyberfreak. Forum Coin is a site that I like a lot I could never leave without saying something.
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@Kandae11 (55133)
30 Mar 18
I would say if I was leaving - but only if I am quite positive that I won't be back.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
Yes but sometimes I've left a site and don't plan on returning and years later I go back.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I can be a bit indecisive.
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@Kandae11 (55133)
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 When I make up my mind about something - there's no looking back.
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
For me I would just slip away
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
A few of us feel that way. I don't really like a fuss but it's as Anna says, sometimes when people disappear others worry about them so it's probably best just to tell a regular member so that the information can be passed on.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@aureliah I left lots of times and no one missed me
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Yeah because not once I have seen people asking about where some people are
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
30 Mar 18
I would write a post before leaving the site. You know, a final post, in which I would explain the reason why I'm leaving and to say thank you and goodbye to my friends on myLot...
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
I thinks that's nice, At least people won't worry about you.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
31 Mar 18
@Bullshark No not at the moment! I'm still enjoying it.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
31 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Maybe they will, I don't know. Are you planning to leave us again?
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