Who should wash the dirty clothes and underwear?

Undergarments are personal. They should be washed by the person.

They should do laundry when they are at home not working like most of us.

They best thing is that they do the wash together. But if the grandmother wants to do then they should pay her for doing the wash.

Seriously? I would not want my grandmother (if she is still alive) to wash my clothes and underwear.

Doing laundry is not that big of a chore. I don't know why some people can't do it for themselves. Passing your dirty underwear to your grandmother is totally unacceptable.

I think his wife should else they must hire a maid.

I worked all my life as well as my husband, but just like @thehousewife I did the laundry, I cleaned the house and I cooked.

Are you kidding? Why on earth would she do it unless she has nothing else to do all day and charges them. If I had to do it I would charge them for laundry service.

Oh my! It is a shame that the underwears are not washed by themselves. Before, even if I had a laundry woman who washed our clothes when we were in the Philippines, we washed our own underwears. Thankfully, we have a laundry machine now. Your nephew and his wife should wash their clothes themselves. Not their own grandmother. That's a "NO GO".

@peachpurple I think they need to get a schedule and both do it.

I work and so does my husband and it is me that do the laundry, even at night we can put the washing machine to work.

Unless they are incapable of doing so -- every adult should wash his or her own underwear.

They should do their work. They should take their responsibility on their own as they are married now. If they are too busy then they should appoint a maid who will do this work for them. You don't do that.

Ooo multiple choice question. Always good at those! :) Answer is none of the above. They should be responsible for their own belongings. He is certainly not a child anymore!

He and his wife should do their own wash, in whatever way they choose. It is not a grandmother's job to do it.

They need to try and get what they can done together after work. If they can take a quick nap first then get on to laundry or whatever they've got the energy and time to accomplish. If grandma or mama is happy with doing things for them, let her be. If there are any other young, able bodied, unemployeed family members living in the house, they need to pitch in and help out. After all it's probably the nephew and wifes money that goes to support them. They can get their own maid if they need one.

What's the big deal? If the grandmother obliges so let it be

As you know some have "maids' here who do all these work. As for me, we are only two and the washing machine does the job! siva

My grandmother often did mine when I was little! However, once I became an adult that became one of my responsibilities. I do my kids because they are little... but my kids are learning and wanting to do their own stuff. So they are learning and I help along the way as they need it. :)

I would think they could do their own laundry. They could take turns doing it so that one of them isn't always the one doing laundry. Who does the rest of the chores? Why would you want your grandmother doing your laundry? I wouldn't want mine do anything for me except sit in the chair and keep me company if she were still alive.