Leaving kids home alone!
By baysmummy
@baysmummy (1637)
Australia
14 responses
@geokat (103)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Legally it depends on your area - think babysitting ages. :) You can usually find this info online.
Mine have all been perfectly capable of staying alone for a few hours by 11. So far anyway, lol.
However, each child and family is certainly different. You need to be VERY comfortable that your child knows exactly what behavior is acceptable while he/she is alone and that he/she knows how to behave in a emergency.
I don't expect them to just somehow magically know how to take care of themselves when alone either - I to do some teaching and training first.
hth :)
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
30 Nov 06
Thank you for your comments! i believe alot of parents are leaving there children home alone to young these days!
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I leave my 11 year old home alone to go to the store or for an hour but no longer.
@mirage108 (3402)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Again that is hard to say, but I guess it would have to depend on how trustworthy the kid is and how responsible they are
@rawpoet (2046)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I think it all depends on the maturity level of the child.
My oldest is almost 16, and sometimes she's so moody, I just don't know if I can leave because of the other little ones.
@annsweets (2046)
• United States
30 Nov 06
i say about 13 years old, but it also depends on the child
@janet069 (663)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Usually by the time they are teen agers they are old enough but you have to consider their maturity, how long are you going to be gone, is it night or day. Can they reach you by phone if they need you? Some kids would be confortable at home in the day but afraid at night. All of these are questions that only you can answer about your children.
@rms2727 (815)
• India
11 Dec 06
and was nearly nine years from the time when my parents started me leaving me alone when they went out. and it is really nice because today and much more independent and much more capable of handling things on my own when I compare myself to my over pampered cousins who were never left alone till they were eighteen years.
to what was even more important and more beneficial was that my parents started doing it gradually increasing the time I was left alone slowly.