~How The Tables Have Turned~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
August 7, 2024 7:10am CST
Hey y'all!
So a lot has changed since the last time I was here.
My oldest daughter had another little one, this time it's a girl! The Lord has blessed me so much and I'm so grateful for that. She's also getting married in October! She found her special person and I'm so happy for them!
The Lord has also opened my eyes to who I'm married to...a narcissist. I'm so grateful for this eye opening as well, the Lord has been showing me I AM WORTH MORE THAN THIS!
Ever had a narcissist in your life? I pray not...but if so I'll be sharing more on them soon to help you see their true colors. My suggestion is to RUN from them.
Come join me on my Healing Journey! 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@AmbiePam I'm so glad to be here! Yes, she's such a little blessing. Her name is Talia-Rose. 
Thank you so much, the abuse has been happening for 20 years. Now that I have realized what it is I'm dealing with, I will heal from this. I can't wait to see what God has in store for me & my babies!
Thank you so much, the abuse has been happening for 20 years. Now that I have realized what it is I'm dealing with, I will heal from this. I can't wait to see what God has in store for me & my babies!5 people like this
@popciclecold (38637)
• United States
7 Aug
First let me say it is so very good to see, after such a long time. The Lord is so gracious.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@popciclecold Its so good to be here and to see you again! He is so gracious and loving. He amazes me every day!!
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@BarBaraPrz (47274)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
7 Aug
Glad to see you back and that you've finally opened your eyes. Are you running?
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@BarBaraPrz (47274)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
7 Aug
@LovingMyBabies Great! Keep posting here and we'll all help you save up.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@BarBaraprz Thanks so much. I am, I'm saving up to leave since I have little ones to worry about-not just myself.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@BarBaraPrz Thanks so much! This will be my therapy as well, I have years of healing to deal with.
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@snowy22315 (180441)
• United States
7 Aug
Best of luck to you. I hope you get all the support you and your family need.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@snowy22315 Thank you so much! The Lord has brought me this far so I know He won't let me down now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@rebelann I COMPLETELY understand! The games/lies/pain they cause is unbelievable so it's best to stay away from them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@rebelann Johnny has been found out for years by friends that we are close to, he's not good at all at hiding his ways anymore. Lol.
But he was VERY charming when we were dating and first together. He tricked me 100% into believing he was prince charming. 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@LadyDuck I'm glad to be back here too. I don't blame you at all, they are not good company to keep!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug
@LadyDuck Yes!! He "fakes" helping others to make himself look like a hero but his true intentions aren't from the heart or genuine by far. He brags about what he's done so clearly it isn't selfless.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
8 Aug
@LovingMyBabies They can be really horrible, ready to ask but never ready to help the others.
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@GardenGerty (160623)
• United States
7 Aug
I have wondered how you were doing. I know you have that wonderful photography business and I knew about the two little ones. Be safe, and sheltered and walk the healing path.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@GardenGerty Hey there! I hope you're doing well. =)
Yes I still love the business the Lord blessed me with.
My Granddaughter was born on August 1st and she's precious!!
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@shaggin (72116)
• United States
7 Aug
Oh gosh I am so sorry to hear your husband turned out to be a narcissist. My mother I am sure if one! Yes awful to deal with. Being married to one would be horrible! How old is your daughter that has two babies? I knew you had quite a few kids but it’s been so long I still picture your boys as being babies and I am sure they are no longer.
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@shaggin (72116)
• United States
9 Aug
@LovingMyBabies you just now realized that he was a narcissist or you just finally decided to open up and tell us? Hugs to you either way!
I know how much you love your kids I bet you love being a grandmother too.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Aug
@shaggin It was like the Lord ripped the blindfold off of my eyes actually.
I knew things weren't normal or healthy with how he made me feel, but I didn't know the depth until recently when the Lord showed me!
I absolutely ADORE being a Grandma!! 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@shaggin Thank you, I hate it too. I'm so so sorry your mother is one, it's awful for sure. I've been living with this for 20 years.
My daughter is 18, she has a 19 month old and a 6 day old baby. She's about to be married in October, and her fiance is going to adopt her son. She found the right person for her!
My youngest boys are 7 and 8 now. =)
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@much2say (55537)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Aug
YOU ARE HERE 
!
Long time no see - how fantastic to hear from you!
Congratulations - wow, a new baby girl - a busy but exciting time.
Sorry to hear about your husband and what you must've been going through. Big hugs.
Yep - I've had to deal with 'em. One particular current thorn is my own sister - but that is another story.
Here's to your healing journey 
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Long time no see - how fantastic to hear from you!
Congratulations - wow, a new baby girl - a busy but exciting time.
Sorry to hear about your husband and what you must've been going through. Big hugs.
Yep - I've had to deal with 'em. One particular current thorn is my own sister - but that is another story.
Here's to your healing journey .2 people like this
@much2say (55537)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Aug
@LovingMyBabies Thank you! We are doing "ok"! With kids, time just flies - well, you know 
! With your positivity and strength, I know you'll get through this . Yah, the narcissist types are just .
! With your positivity and strength, I know you'll get through this . Yah, the narcissist types are just .
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@much2say Yes I am!!
It's so good to see you again, I hope you're doing well.
Thank you so much! It's been eye opening and painful, but my next chapter is going to be amazing!
So sorry you have one in your family, they are not good people at all. 
It's so good to see you again, I hope you're doing well.
Thank you so much! It's been eye opening and painful, but my next chapter is going to be amazing!
So sorry you have one in your family, they are not good people at all. 3 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@akalinus I'm glad to be here!
Thank you, the Lord really opened my eyes to what I was living with recently. He showed me I shouldn't be treated this way. I've been faithful for 20 years, enough is enough.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Aug
@paigea It is a private space for me here.
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@LindaOHio (178043)
• United States
8 Aug
I'm glad that you are back. Congratulations on your new granddaughter. I'm sorry to hear about your husband. How long have you been married? Try and have a good day.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug
@LindaOhio Thanks so much! I've been married 20 years.
It's good to see you again, I hope you're doing well.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Aug
@LindaOHio It is way too long. I'm so grateful the Lord put peace over me about leaving.
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@LindaOHio (178043)
• United States
9 Aug
@LovingMyBabies You're welcome. That's a long time to put up with an abusive husband.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@dya80dya At first they are super charming and appear to be loving but its all an act. I can't wait to share more and hopefully help others too!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@grenery8 I am so so sorry to hear that!! I completely understand your pain. Im praying for emotional healing for you as well.
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@grenery8 (10269)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
11 Aug
@LovingMyBabies thank you. emotional strength is hard to sustain. thank you.
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@kareng (59050)
• United States
10 Aug
Congratulations to you and your daughter! How exciting to have a new little one in the family!
Yes, you are worth way more than dealing with what you have been going through. I am glad that god has pulled you away and you now know that you need to move on!! Hugs!!
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@kareng (59050)
• United States
17 Aug
@LovingMyBabies That is so awesome and you are heading in the right direction being open to help others in that situation. Bless you and your children.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Aug
@kareng Thank you so very much! It is super exciting.
God has shown me I don't need to stay and keep hurting, I have His peace. And now I pray I can help others overcome this pain and to know what signs to look for!
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@Orson_Kart (6765)
• United Kingdom
9 Aug
Hi, I haven’t seen you on here for years!
Sorry to hear how things have been with your husband. From what I remember you had, what I considered, an unusual relationship, but you seemed happy and guided by God. God obviously misled you back then, so I hope he is kinder to you in the future.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Aug
@Orson_Kart It's not the Lord's fault I didn't choose to wait on who He had for me to marry-someone who wouldn't hurt me like this.
He does give free will and I chose someone who wasn't good for me.
Thank you, I'm working on saving money and leaving this all behind me.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Aug
@jstory07 Thank you so much! I'm so grateful the Lord showed me I didn't have to be treated this way forever.
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@Marilynda1225 (82710)
• United States
7 Aug
It's so good to see you here and congratulations on your newest baby girl. Your daughter must have her hands full with two little ones.
Sorry to hear that you have been going through such personal struggles regarding your husband. My daughter was married to a narcissist and finally got out of that marriage a few years ago. She's still going through her healing journey and I wish you well Jennifer.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug
@Marilynda1225 Thank you so much! She has lots of support around to help her so she's grateful for that.
I'm so very glad she got out!! So will I as soon as I have enough money to do so. So grateful the Lord showed me his true colors and gave me such peace about finally ending it all.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Aug
@nela13 Thanks so much!
Thank you, I'm working on saving money and leaving. In the mean time I'm also trying to heal from all I've been through.
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