I am not meant for online dating world/how noone wants a real love...
By Greenery8
@grenery8 (11194)
Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
November 14, 2024 6:22am CST
2-3 days ago, I decided to use a site that is old fashioned (only texts, no photos and one of the first sites in my country for dating), thinking guys/men are more polite there but no, you look for someone of your age, write it, way too old men respond.
You write you want someone for a serious relationship and prefer a gentleman, you get responds what are you doing on the site and some questionable answers.
Then, some make strange jokes which weren't jokes or i am too innocent and i ask them are you serious, do you want something serious and i get a reply they want someone submissive or something.
Well, good luck to all those modern men like this. Obviously i'm asking for too much.
I think i'll give my love to my hometown, it's one sided but still better love. Ah.
How noone wants serious love in this world?
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10 responses
@Dreamerby (5869)
• Calcutta, India
14 Nov
Love has always been a complicated business. Love is one big proverbial coin toss.
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@Dreamerby (5869)
• Calcutta, India
15 Nov
@grenery8 Yeah its definitely not true. You have to compromise some way or the other.
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Nov
@Dreamerby absolutely and i think there is always one person giving more while other is enjoying the ride.
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@almostoveryou (4805)
• Philippines
15 Nov
That site is probably not meant for you. Sometimes, the right guy comes when you least expect it. 
Who knows, he's probably someone you pass by on the same street every day or frequents the same bookshop/grocery/store or whatever. I'm sure some guy out there also wants serious love. 
Who knows, he's probably someone you pass by on the same street every day or frequents the same bookshop/grocery/store or whatever. I'm sure some guy out there also wants serious love. 3 people like this
@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
15 Nov
he could be passing but i'm not looking actually, don't like looking at people, only if i sense someone staring and it only ends on that but, yes, i agree. more chances are outside and not that online awful world o, i'm sure but he should be looking better to find me
o, i'm sure but he should be looking better to find me3 people like this
@luisadannointed (6329)
• Philippines
16 Nov
Ho about pray first and ask God to direct you to what He wants you to do and help you to get ready while you wait.
You will never know when and where you are going to meet the one for you... But waiting is the best.
I have friends who meet their one and only at the most unexpected times and rare situation. .
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Nov
i prayed for a job when i rotted in my room and i got some shabby one and molesting was involved so i had to quit. with love, i don't want the same disappointment. i'll pray but for regular things. i am sick of waiting for every good thing to happen me; either job, love or better love from my family. you know, when it comes too late, it's really too late. thank you though, i know you meant well.
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@LindaOHio (181642)
• United States
15 Nov
I'm sure there are some serious men looking for real love online; but you have to search among all the losers. Have a good weekend.
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@LindaOHio (181642)
• United States
16 Nov
@grenery8 You're welcome.
Thank you very much. 
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@dgobucks226 (35733)
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16 Nov
I guess those dating sites are not for everyone. Lots of creeps on those sites from what I've heard. I think meeting someone the old-fashioned way not on a computer service is better and safer.
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@dgobucks226 (35733)
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19 Nov
@grenery8 You're welcome. Meeting that special someone is very difficult. Hard to get all those stars to align. If it's meant to be it perhaps it may happen for you.
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Nov
i wish i could meet someone old-fashioned way just, i'm also tired of throwing myself to male race. if i sense some chemistry, i'll ask for a number but men here only look and that's the most they are willing to do or i look too scary for them. the last time someone wanted wanted my number, they found it online and contacted me, imagine, they didn't even ask me in person.
thank you, i appreciate it.
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
20 Nov
@dgobucks226 they say love takes time or will come to you. i'm tired fighting for that too. yes, when stars say their last word i remember this song about stars.
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@Marilynda1225 (83118)
• United States
15 Nov
Glad you are smart enough to not fall for someone that is not looking for something serious.
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@grenery8 (11194)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
15 Nov
it really is hard. i'm sometimes ok, sometimes not cause, leaving alone, struggling alone, ah, never ending. thank you; i hope too. i wish to be this year but, we'll see.
that sounds romantic and more sincere through newspaper serivice
that sounds romantic and more sincere through newspaper serivice1 person likes this
@aureategloom (11404)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
14 Nov
i’m sure you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for & you’re not asking for too much
i met a lot of cool people on tandem - it’s an app for learning languages, but who knows - maybe you can meet someone there too, as friends for the beginning. people i met were polite and helpful and the most important - respected boundaries.
you’ll come across many different people + you can customize gender and age range 
i met a lot of cool people on tandem - it’s an app for learning languages, but who knows - maybe you can meet someone there too, as friends for the beginning. people i met were polite and helpful and the most important - respected boundaries.
you’ll come across many different people + you can customize gender and age range 2 people like this
