I am not meant for online dating world/how noone wants a real love...

@grenery8 (10236)
Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
November 14, 2024 6:22am CST
2-3 days ago, I decided to use a site that is old fashioned (only texts, no photos and one of the first sites in my country for dating), thinking guys/men are more polite there but no, you look for someone of your age, write it, way too old men respond. You write you want someone for a serious relationship and prefer a gentleman, you get responds what are you doing on the site and some questionable answers. Then, some make strange jokes which weren't jokes or i am too innocent and i ask them are you serious, do you want something serious and i get a reply they want someone submissive or something. Well, good luck to all those modern men like this. Obviously i'm asking for too much. I think i'll give my love to my hometown, it's one sided but still better love. Ah. How noone wants serious love in this world?
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7 responses
@AmbiePam (92402)
• United States
14 Nov
I’m so glad you’re smart enough to not fall for any of that garbage.
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@grenery8 (10236)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
thank you just, going on this kind of site, once a year or even less, i thought people are actually lonely and it's the opposite.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
13h
I'm sure there are some serious men looking for real love online; but you have to search among all the losers. Have a good weekend.
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@grenery8 (10236)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
once a year i'm on this kind of sites and they bring no good. thank you. have a good weekend as well
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
3h
Yeah its like sifting grain
@noni1959 (10096)
• United States
14h
It's hard to find someone. I stopped long ago and OK with it. I did meet my now ex husband using a newspaper service but that was back in the 1990's. If you are looking, I hope you find the right person.
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@grenery8 (10236)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
it really is hard. i'm sometimes ok, sometimes not cause, leaving alone, struggling alone, ah, never ending. thank you; i hope too. i wish to be this year but, we'll see. that sounds romantic and more sincere through newspaper serivice
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• Philippines
20h
That site is probably not meant for you. Sometimes, the right guy comes when you least expect it. Who knows, he's probably someone you pass by on the same street every day or frequents the same bookshop/grocery/store or whatever. I'm sure some guy out there also wants serious love.
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@grenery8 (10236)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
he could be passing but i'm not looking actually, don't like looking at people, only if i sense someone staring and it only ends on that but, yes, i agree. more chances are outside and not that online awful world o, i'm sure but he should be looking better to find me
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
14 Nov
i’m sure you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for & you’re not asking for too much i met a lot of cool people on tandem - it’s an app for learning languages, but who knows - maybe you can meet someone there too, as friends for the beginning. people i met were polite and helpful and the most important - respected boundaries. you’ll come across many different people + you can customize gender and age range
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
14 Nov
Love has always been a complicated business. Love is one big proverbial coin toss.
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@grenery8 (10236)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
it's definitely a business. all those movie quotes that someone will accept you if you don't have much, i think it's not true
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@Dreamerby (4687)
• Calcutta, India
8h
@grenery8 Yeah its definitely not true. You have to compromise some way or the other.
• United States
7h
Glad you are smart enough to not fall for someone that is not looking for something serious.
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