I haven’t been myself

@shaggin (74135)
United States
March 30, 2025 9:10pm CST
March is almost over and I am glad for that. March is always a hard month for me. I’ve been in such a funk. My depression has been worse and I just don’t feel right . I think I’m either going through early menopause or Pcos. I’ll go to the doctor in a few weeks and see what’s going on. I asked my first cousins and sister if they went through anything similar. At the same age as me my one cousin learned she has Pcos and my sister found out she had fibroids. My issues don’t seem like fibroids though. I’ve been keeping busy. From now right through until about September will be busy busy. I’ll pop in when I can and when I feel up to it.
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@rakski (135668)
• Philippines
31 Mar
I am sorry you are going through this. I hope the doctors can give you some answers
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@rakski I hate going to the doctors maybe I’ll just feel better this month and not need to go .
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
3 Apr
@rakski so far my hormones still seem off I am still feeling depressed and irritable when I shouldn’t be.
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@rakski (135668)
• Philippines
2 Apr
@shaggin maybe, if you will feel better the next days or weeks
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@FourWalls (73995)
• United States
31 Mar
I’m so sorry to hear it. My niece has gotten into a worse “funk” this month, and it could be early menopause for her as well. Or the weather. I don’t think enough is done to inspect the influence on see-saw weather has on feeling down. Anyway, I hope you feel better quickly.
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@Dreamerby (7918)
• Calcutta, India
31 Mar
I hope you have a good day
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@Fourwalls that sounds even worse. I hope she will be okay. I don’t think mine is weather related but I do love when it’s warm outside. It was very chilly today here .
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@Dreamerby I did my husband and I took our little one and all the dogs for a walk in the woods. It was much chiller then I was expecting though. Yesterday my little one and I went to pick up something in a town an hour away. So we found a geocache while there and I hid one myself for others to find. I got a free coffee at Dunkin Donuts as part of their April fools no joke offer. We visited a thrift store and a vendor place and got some good things. So my month is off to a good start.
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@kareng (72911)
• United States
31 Mar
The weather played a big role in my winter moods and funk...not to mention the cold brought on aches and pains. I hope you get to feeling better and do pay a visit to your doctor to get checked out--to be on the safe side!
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@kareng (72911)
• United States
2 Apr
@shaggin Yes, I just want to stay in bed all morning and stay warm! Of course moving around does help the problem, but hard to do most days.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@kareng I am feeling better now so I’m not sure. We will see how things go this month. I really hate the winter I can understand why that got you down. The aches and pains over the winter must be terrible .
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@allknowing (144513)
• India
31 Mar
My niece was on the phone yesterday and talked about how restless she feels as she is concerned about this and that I told her to count her blessings and ask God for forgiveness for not doing it earlier. I am not asking you to do that
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@allknowing I definitely do count my blessings but some things we do have to worry about. Early menopause is really bad for our bodies so I need to rule that out. I think it is Pcos though and a diet change can help with that. I’ve cut back on sugar a bit and have stopped taking an extra iron pill. For now I’m just taking a multivitamin.
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@allknowing (144513)
• India
3 Apr
@shaggin Good that you are taking care of yourself. No point in worrying
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@kaylachan (77193)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Mar
That's what you should do. Health should come first.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@kaylachan I always put everything off. I really should have went and not cancelled the first appointment I made.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@kaylachan oh gosh
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@kaylachan (77193)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Apr
@shaggin I'm not any better. I changed my phone number so my doctor's office couldn't bother me.
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@Dreamerby (7918)
• Calcutta, India
31 Mar
I understand... I am not in a good mood myself too
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
31 Mar
@Dreamerby what has your mood soured?
@snowy22315 (188337)
• United States
31 Mar
I hope you feel better. Its no fun to feel bad.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@snowy22315 so far I’m cutting back on sugar and stopping the extra iron pill I take and just taking my multivitamin. I am feeling better the past few days but I think it’s all just hormones effecting me. Things have been out of whack.
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@Orson_Kart (7302)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr
Sorry to hear you’re feeling depressed. Maybe it’s lack of vitamin D? Hopefully the onset of Spring, with its promise of better days ahead will boost your spirits.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
13 Apr
@Orson_Kart I’ve never lacked vitamin D since I take multivitamins so I don’t think it’s that. Once my little one gets her new glasses I’ll be able to see what schedule will be like and can make myself an appointment to have blood work done. I think it’s pcos.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
15 Apr
@Orson_Kart early menopause would be worse I think so I’m hoping it’s pcos over that.
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• United Kingdom
14 Apr
@shaggin I had to look PCOS up. It doesn’t sound good. AI says there is no cure, but the symptoms can be managed. I hope you can get some relief from it.
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@jstory07 (143624)
• Roseburg, Oregon
31 Mar
I hope everything works out for you.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@jstory07 thank you. A new month and I am feeling better. I’ll see how things go with my health this month. I think some diet changes may make a difference.
@DaddyEvil (146538)
• United States
1 Apr
You have my number if you feel like texting. I hope things get better for you soon.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@Daddyevil I did think about it Thanks. Today was a good start to the month. How was your day?
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
2 Apr
@DaddyEvil I would have probably went to the chiropractor first. Then again you don’t want them messing with it if there’s something wrong more then just being out of alignment. I’m sorry you didn’t have bc a better day
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@DaddyEvil (146538)
• United States
2 Apr
@shaggin You know you're always welcome. I wasn't feeling well today. My stomach was upset so I slept as as I could. I have a doctor appointment in the morning to see what is causing the pain in my hip and left leg. If the regular doctor can't fix it, I have an appointment with a chiropractor day after tomorrow and hopefully, they can fix the problem.
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@RasmaSandra (84311)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Mar
Best of luck to you, I am also glad March is gone since i lost my cats,
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
12 Apr
@RasmaSandra oh no what happened?
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
13 Apr
@RasmaSandra aww that is so sad. I miss a lot of posts I’m sorry to hear such awful news.
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@RasmaSandra (84311)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Apr
@shaggin it is what it is and I am learning to deal with it,
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@JudyEv (351591)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Mar
I hope the doctor can give you a diagnosis and something to make you feel better.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
3 Apr
@Judyev I think a diagnosis would be nice and then I think I likely have to try to make a diet change if it’s Pcos. I did try to cut back and eat a little healthier as well as stopped taking an iron pill so I’m only taking a multivitamin. That doesn’t have enough iron in it but the extra pill puts me way over the amount I should get in a day and out of the blue started making me extremely nauseated for an hour after taking it. Too much can raise blood sugar so I’m thinking that would affect the pcos as well.
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@JudyEv (351591)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Apr
@shaggin It can all get so hard trying to get the balance of vitamins and minerals right. It's no fun being nauseated.
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@sarik1 (7556)
31 Mar
Sorry to hear, hope that all is better.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
4 Apr
@sarik1 somewhat but i definitely do think I need to go to the doctor.
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@grenery8 (16209)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Apr
i hope you'll be okay. it's best to occupy yourself with something cause, weather isn't helping us or other things
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
12 Apr
@grenery8 I just don’t even enjoy the things I usually do
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
15 Apr
@grenery8 I’m sorry to hear that . We can talk about it on this post if you need to vent. I really haven’t even thought about Easter much.
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@grenery8 (16209)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 Apr
@shaggin i am really sorry. did the doctor share some useful info or your family members? honestly, i'm down too but it's due to same bad things. i hope you could enjoy easter at least
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@GardenGerty (163217)
• United States
1 Apr
Good for you seeking out information to help you. Sometimes things go undiagnosed but they are right there in the middle of everything.
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@BarBaraPrz (49403)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
31 Mar
I've never come across the term Pcos and had to look it up, which is odd, because I do have polycystic ovary syndrome. But I don't seem to have too much androgen. If anything, I don't have enough because I have very little body hair and my head hair is falling out.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
9 Apr
@Barbaraprz maybe it can affect people both ways. My hair grows insanely fast but my hair has gotten a lot thinner over the years. I do take care of facial hair but it’s not bad like I see some women I’ve seen.
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@wolfgirl569 (115022)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Mar
Good idea to talk to the doctor. Hope you feel better soon
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
12 Apr
@wolfgirl569 I don’t feel any different I’m still in a funk but I keep going about doing the things I always do. I need a free week to go to the doctors but I have very few free days until May. I have an important appointment I’m waiting for with my little one so I need to see when that is before planning anything.
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@Deepizzaguy (109015)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
3 Apr
I wish you the best of good health soon.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
12 Apr
@Deepizzaguy thanks. I still don’t feel any different but haven’t gotten time to go to the doctors yet.
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@Deepizzaguy (109015)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
12 Apr
@shaggin You are welcome.
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@andriaperry (118754)
• Anniston, Alabama
31 Mar
You probably need hormones, believe me, they help. Please take vitamin D3, that also helps.
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
31 Mar
@andriaperry I’m willing to take them if I need them. We will see how things go .
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@nela13 (58843)
• Portugal
31 Mar
I'm sorry, what is Pcos?
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@shaggin (74135)
• United States
31 Mar
@nela13 Polycystic ovary syndrome