what are these girls thinking?!

I'd have to agree, what does it really matter what someone else dresses. Does it really affect what you are doing and hbow your day is going to be? I would hope not. True, you do sometimes wonder why they would let their rolls show, but at the end of the day, regardless what anyone says, I'm not going to lose sleep over a person that shows their skin, overweight or not.

annie44, thats what i'm saying. you have to admit that people who are wearing clothes too small for them, and are obese or highly overweight, are much less atractive than those with a nicer body and clothes.

If these obese women go out on the streets wearing sexy clothes, they are bound to be stared at, worse, insulted or laughed upon. We know how others treat obese people and we need not kid ourselves that by showing their fats, they would be applauded. We see others commending those obese women when they are confident enough to show some skin. But they also need to be a little discreet. There is a difference between dressing up sexily and trying hard to do so. But if you exude a classy confidence, then the whole world will see that.

I agree, there are many overweight women who know how to dress their figure and look sexy. Though you may be one of these people who prefer slim women, each to their own i say..:)

I am fat and I know what you mean. There are some men and women that are very heavy but are attractive and or sexy. There are alot more that are not. Then there is this whole other breed of fat people that have it in their mind that they are of average weight..lol.. I mean please, I'm sorry I mean it revolts me to see a 400lb woman has no business on the beach in a two piece bathing suit or a man in a speedo. Like the belly hanging out from the belly shirt and the bulging over the belted tight jeans...Oh my God I am picturing this.. Again I'm sorry if I offend anyone but its my opinion. I'm not saying that they should be ashamed of their bodies or anything of that nature. I am just saying it's not nice to look at.. and by the way I won't even wear a bathing suit at the beach...hehehe..it's shorts and a tee for me.

I'm sorry, but I find it a bit offensive when you refer to 'a 400lb woman who has no business on the beach'. Why should obese people be denied the pleasure of the beach, or sexy clothes, or whatever, just because they look a bit different to societys norm? If it offends you to see that kind of thing then maybe you should stay away from the beach?

like your comment counts....a person that has that child molester Micheal Jackson on his profile. You f*cked any kids lately...

I agree with you Laurie :) People like different sizes. Sexy comes from within. I think they just feel good about themselves (and so they should)even though society tries to put them down. None of us is perfect, and therefor we should never bash others and act as such. I don't agree with people wearing clothing 3 sizes too small though, but this isn't just about people overweight...this is about all people. While one may think a thin woman in a thong bikini is sexy, I think it's quite nasty to see on the beach...it's not about size, it's how you present yourself.

there is no sarcasm or rudeness intended by the content of my response, I just wanted everyone to know my perspective on this.

Yikes...hey now let's not be passing any laws like that..lol I would have to go to Omar the Tent maker to get my sleeping bag... hehehe Just kidding, no really you are right and people should wear what they feel comfortable in but you gotta admit... It ain't pretty sometimes..

They look in the mirror. But they haven't been brainwashed into believing that the only attractive skin is skinny skin. Curves and roundness is sexy. They aren't self conscious. They're confident and happy with themselves, and that's the greatest thing in the world.