Is money putting stress on your relationship?

I did read your question and I am going to give you advise instead. If he is not even looking for work or has never worked dump him if you don't want to continue to live this life. If takes to incomes for people to survive today -- he needs to do his part. You should not have to support him, send him hom to mommy. Money is not a problem in my relationship, as my man works and so do I.

money is important but the number one is "beautiful relathionship" both of u. thanks god i see another love story in this world. so money? is hard to say, coz most people shame to say if they need mone never HONEST.for me yup money is important not only for us BUT most important is FOR our kids if getting married. so suport your boyfriend to kep search a great job and income dont leave him a lone he need u.good luck my friend.

Income plays a big part in a relationship. If ya'll are broke and he is not doing anything about it I don't see why you would continue in a relationship where you are struggling to support him. My husband and I are financially sound so money does not tear us apart. However it took us several years to become this way and a lot of hard work.

money shouldn't be the center of your relationship, nor let money dominate over relationship, though money-matter problems are inevitable. try helping each other by advising him over the importance of having a living.

there's one point that im not sure i understand.your relationship is bf-gf but you're already supporting him? or does that mean that you're just the one who spend when you go out and the like? whatever the case may be, i would feel the same if i were in your shoes. i have always heard about people saying that money is not everything or money does not buy you happiness. although this may somehow be true, but for me, i would say that money is still very important in a relationship esp if it's going to be a lifetime relationship. one should be practical nowadays and realize that without money, even if you have the most healthy or loving relationship, you will get NOWHERE.

Hi, hcromer! Maybe you should find a right guy for you who has a job, look at yourself your so pretty, if you go here to our country you can land a modelling job or be an artist here. Money is very essential when you two became married, got to feed the baby, diapers, pay for the bills. Find a rich guy, but he should have a nice attitude also towards people.

It is making Un-imaginary stress on my life. Due to this I'm get very sick about living in this world. Earlier I was enjoyed the life like everyone else with much joy and authority. After getting accident I was forced to earn more and more. This is making very awkward situations to me. Due to the tensions only I get bored with my children and life partner. In future I may think very badly also.

I feel stressed as well as my spouse due to not being able to make ends meet.

Money has really done a lot in many people relationship for some people it could be the main reason why they are in that relationship so if the guy goes broke they leave him and run away. In my relationship i always make sure that love comes first and then money so that when i know i might go broke i know that someone still cares for me and loves me./

my boyfriend and i are constently arguing about money, he says not to worry that we will get the bills to pay but i can't help it because my first marriage ended because of money issues, and it was the same situation you are in now, i was working 15 hours overtime a week to support him my son and i, and then i would also come home and clean the house, cook dinner, and do the laundry while he sat home all day and did nothing.

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Money is always a problem in a relationship. As a matter of fact, there's a discussion here somewhere which rate money as number one in most marriage or relationship problems. Its unavoidable when money problems start to put a tension on the relationship. Ive been there. But u should talk to ur boyfriend about it. Its good to air out ur worries too rather than keep it to urself and it comes out more into a passive reaction, that'l be more difficult.

Money is not everything in life. Relationship is more important, certainly. But your BF doesn't seem to be valuing the relationship. If he did he would not have allowed you to be under so much of stress. Why is he not able to support himself financially. You are in the best position to answer this question and review your existing relationship.

I think money has alot to do with relationships not only your spouse but your children. My son is three and since we have been strugling with money my son is taking it preety bad he is acting out and screaming all of the time I think he is seeing me and my husband fight and he dont know how to act. but money on my list is at the bottom to bad it wasnt on the bottom of the bill collectors mind.

well, i can understand what you mean... i am also working very hard everyday to make ends meet... but fortunately my hubby still have a job and i don't have to struggle by myself... good luck... i hope it will all work out for you...

yes alone money make noth happy

In relationship some says money comes first to be practical but for me it's not only the money that matters. Responsible and Love even if your partner don't have jobs but responsible enough to handle situations, I mean he must do his part he can earned money in many ways if he really meant to do it! here in our place even 10-17 year-old can earned money they did not depend on their parents. they go to school and part time job! i hope you consider my opinion...

well i thnk that money matters in a relationship. money is a symbol of stability. you said that you are working and your boyfriend does not have a job and as i see it, he is not even helping. your boyfriend now becomes a burden even though yyou dont want to admit it yourself but its true. your boyfriend is becoming a burden to you, why else would you feel like that?. anyway money , in cases like this, can really affect a certain relationship. to find money is a hard job and to work for it and really toil is much worse. and then when you get paid, you spend it for the both of you and you work to have more money for the both of you. and he just sits there and gives you moral support or whatever. anyway i dont thnk that it is just fair that you are the only one working for the both of you. i think that if someone really cares then that someone should help and work for the both of them. there is no sense of togetherness here. see the picture that i can see here is that you are together in moments of happiness like when you have money and you can both spend it for your necessities but when the bad times comes like work and times when you have money, you find yourself alone to battle it to make the happy times happen again. i dont think that it is just right. you might want to tell your boyfriend to help you if you want to be happy in your relationship. this canot go on forever, something must be done. you cannot work for the both of you forever so talk to him now. well goodluck to you!.

no money really doesnt matter

if this happens as early as now, how much more when you get married?