Caught Your Husband or Wife With In Bed With Someone Else!!!!!

@cabergren (1181)
United States
February 5, 2007 8:12am CST
So what would you do if you came home and caught your husband or wife in bed with someone else. Would you stay and confront them or would you leave? I think I would leave first to get it together and then confront them. What would you do?????
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19 responses
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Well, he would be damn lucky if I didn't immediately throw a heavy object at his head. That's pretty much what would happen. There would be lots of yelling, screaming, and all around confronting. But yeah.. lots of throwing, too.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I would be very careful not to do physical violence that could be used against me. My spouse would be the cheating one. Now if their was rape going on and I was going to the protection of my wife well that poor rapist would be hurting I would think. I would also call the police about the intruder.
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@Stiletto (4579)
26 Mar 07
Well I did. I picked her clothes up off the bedroom floor and threw them out the window. Then I backhanded him really, really hard across the face (in fact I broke my little finger doing it) and told him to get out and then I went and got drunk so the day didn't end up too badly! Bad hangover the next morning though and I also had to go to the hospital about my finger but at least the lousy dog was gone.
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@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 07
That is the worst thing ever. Even to be imagined! I'd leave them, of course, take my children with me and not letting them to see their dads again. Kinda mean, but I think he deserves it. Then I'd sign the paper and divorce from him.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 07
i wouldn't go anywhere at all..i'd pick up the anything that could wack them both and eventually kill them.if that is possible,i would do so.but if i couldn't kill them,then i'll do the only thing sensible to do,break up.that is the only thing you could do.and then maybe accuse your husband of adultery and you go to court.then maybe he'll end up paying you a big sum of money,which you can use to beautify yourself and get you a much much worthy man,than that stupid husband of yours.do not dwell in a relationship that involves unfaithfulness.you deserve to be happy. we women deserve to be happy.you go girlfriend!
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
19 Feb 07
Frankly I don't know what I would do, but I want to think that i'd probably tell them one or two things and then leave. Obviously later on my wife (who probably would be ex wife virtually already) would have to hear me afterwards..and the other guy better stay out of my way lol.
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• Romania
18 Feb 07
I'd beat the crap out of bought.Cheating is bad no matter the circumstances
@rainbow (6761)
7 Feb 07
well I would leave the room and allow them to hear me laughing for a start. There would probably be a few tears - his but I'm sure we'd get over it. I'm not particularly jealous.
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@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
17 Apr 07
ooooooo I know he better hold on to his Happy Azz cause i would be inflicting some pain on him for sure.If i didnt know the girl first thing i would ask is did you know he was married and go from there .If your gonna cheat baby better not do it in my house and let me catch ya.
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
i will leave and never will i come back again. That must be the end of the relationship.And he will not see me anymore
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
18 Feb 07
Due to watching tv and movies, it has been a topic that I have thought of although I am not yet married or what... If it happens to me, I would walk in just so he knows that I have witnessed it with my own eyes and he's got no further excuse. I have also decided to hear his alibi and will not just go beserk and say "I don't want to hear any of your lies anymore" then walkout. I would hear him out and see what he has to say.... Walking in on them would let him feel how much he has hurt me.. and I will hear his alibi only for the reason of knowing how pathetic it would be just for him to find an excuse to what he just did... but then it will all depend on other factors in our relationship, but bottomline I will give him a chance to explain and then decide on the matter after on whether to keep him or kick him out of my life for good..
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@silkyt34 (324)
• United States
5 Feb 07
having been in this situation before i would definatly confront first.. when it happened to me i left to get it together and when i got home my house was cleaned out and the next time i saw him was with my lawyer i never got to say the things i wanted to say to them so i would definatly confront. but i am glad to say what goes around definatly comes around !!! and he got his
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
That would be so upsetting. I only hope I never have to see that. It would upset and traumatize me as much as watching a train accident would. Even just to think of it upsets me. I think that what I would do would be to run out of the room and if my husband didn't stop what he was doing, then honestly I might run back in with a broom and stop them. I would certainly leave my husband over it, as I believe divorce is allowed in this circumstance due to the breaking of the vows...but I would first want to know WHY WHY WHY WHY?
• Canada
25 Mar 07
yes I'm famous for letting my imagination running away with me.
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@Owllll (10)
• Sri Lanka
18 Feb 07
I would stay and watch them enjoying themselves. Nothing like sharing ones partners life. . .
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@th_sia (164)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
If i am having my hp, i will probably snap a few photo to be use in court case. I will never forgive my wife. Divorce is how the story ends.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I would chase them both from my bed and house and I would then wait to figure out the rest of my actions.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
15 Apr 07
I would leave, then send them the divorce papers and send someone to pick up my things. He will never see my face again.
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@AskAlly (3625)
• Canada
6 Feb 07
My husband says he would shoot us both if he caught me with another man. I on the other hand am a little more selfish and would not want to spend the rest of my days in jail. So I would just calmly have his bags packed and wave bye bye. If he did that to me after 26 years of marriage he can leave with nothing and I'd make sure of that.
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• Lagos, Nigeria
5 Feb 07
Anyway if that happens i do not have issues with the man. A saying goes like this, if a man talks to your wife that is his own problem, if your wife acepts to go out with him its her problem, but when i catch them it becomes my problem. I will drive the man away and also send my wife home first to go and report to her parents what she had done. Latter we will redefine how we stand.
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@oiixdaii (1059)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I don't know what will happen. I might blackout and kill both of them.