psychmau

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Sibbling rivalry, a childhood issue or a lifelong issue?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

I have cousins who only had 2 children in their respective families. In most cases, the sibblings behave like cats and dogs. Obviously, there is a big problem regarding sibbling rivalry. It's similar to the biblical story of Cain...

sibbling rivalry

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psychmau There is a possibility that these children would bring their treatment for each other till they grow old. If there is a "superior-inferior" treatment between the two children by their parents, of course, one gets jealous. So they should be treated equally.

12 Apr 10

Is arranged marriage fair?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

Is it fair if our parents will be the ones to choose the person whom we should marry?

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psychmau It is definitely not fair. Of course, they can't choose the person that i like to be with forever because if that's going to happen, the marriage would end up to separation. My parents are not the one's dealing and adjusting to that person. And i think, its...

12 Apr 10

How to get rid of persistent suitor?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

If you have a very persistent suitor whom you've turned down several times since your early adolescence and yet won't give up on you, what is the best thing to do in order to get rid of him?

persistent suitor

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psychmau I'll tell him frankly but not in a harsh way that he is just wasting his time courting me because i'll just keep on ignoring him. I'll tell him that there are lots of fishes in the sea and he deserves someone else.

12 Apr 10

How to avoid being scammed in work at home jobs?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

I am a mother of 4 kids and stretching my family's income is not enough. My kids needs are growing and I must look for other means of earning. Two months ago, I started searching for work at home jobs. Since then, I've been...

work at home jobs

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psychmau The best thing you can do is not to rely on online job fairs. Seek for jobs where you have trusted friends working in the said company.

12 Apr 10

Should adolescents do everything even if it's bad for the sake of belongingness?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

A young adolescent ones told me about her problem on peer acceptance. She said all that she wanted is to be accepted by her friends. She does not want to be different from them. Her question is that, should she do everything even...

peer acceptance

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psychmau No. Everyone has a freedom in choosing friends. But we all know that freedom means you're free to do what is right. Doing something that is against your will and you think is not right just to have friends, is not a just to yourself. There are lots of people...

12 Apr 10