raymond71

@raymond71 (16)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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this girl...

mgmagana @mgmagana (3618) • United States 10 Jul 07

on cafemom this girl basically had the nerve to say b/c her man is a military man his job is harder than my hubby's and i have no right to talk about the heat my man works in! i'm sorry but my man works his butt off everyday in...

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raymond71 You go girl mgmagana. That is not right that she is comparing your hubby. Because all man work in harder then most. Her husband chose to be in the military. People have to be rude about it. No one needs to be fighting over your hubby's work. Because no matter...

10 Jul 07

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Would you do this to a co worker?

nicolec @nicolec (2671) • United States 10 Jul 07

The other day I had decided to get lunch from a local restaurant. I told my coworker that I was ordering lunch, did she wanted anything. At which she replied 'yes, will you please order me ....'. Ok, so I call in our order, they...

food

money

work

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raymond71 I would tell her that I am going to get lunch this time and that she can buy next time. That this is not going to be a habit. That if she didnt have the money that she should of not asked for anything. Dont say nothing to her. Just see if she gives it to you.

10 Jul 07

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How much do you average a day from mylot?

Kicker55 @Kicker55 (243) • United States 28 Feb 07

I am averaging close to $.40 cents a day from mylot. I have about 180 friends with a colossus amount of posts to go through each day. Then I create my own discussions and they are starting to get more and more responses and that's...

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raymond71 I am new to this but i am starting off slow. I try to get friends to come on and help. But to me I am doing averaging close to .15 cents a day from mylot. I have no friends. I would like to refer people that aint going to expect me to do a lot in return.

2 Mar 07

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Is it OK to be "average"?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 2 Mar 07

I see so many of my own friends getting on their kids about "their grades". Upset because their kids get a "C". A "C" grade means average. Why do so many of us expect "above average" from the world, including our own kids? I...

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raymond71 Yes it is okay for a kid to be average. But sometimes you have to go above average to get the good scholarship if you want to give in to the good college. To get on the honor roll you have to get A and B and you sometimes show off to be popular. But no matter...

2 Mar 07

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Moms, how old are you children?

mckinneymommie @mckinneymommie (3) • United States 2 Mar 07

Hi to all the mom's here on mylot. I'm new and don't know the ropes, but I'm so open for any discussions about the kiddo's. I was wondering, from the moms, how old are your kids? Mine are all teens. Jacob is the youngest, he's...

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raymond71 Sorry but i am not a father. If I had kids then it is okay. Because I would teach my kids responsibilities. I would work on showing them the life that my parents. It would be glad to let them move out and live out on your own and then I can spend time with my...

2 Mar 07

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kids going into your purse

sharon613 @sharon613 (2321) • United States 28 Feb 07

Does this happen to anyone else here. My 18 year old daughter went into my purse yesterday and literally took out $18 that my son had given me to take care of his personal needs. My husband is furious at her and is contemplating...

parenting

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raymond71 I would tell her to give it back. That she is grounded for going in to a purse that she didnt belong in too. I would call the police and have them take her to jail. Because stealing is a crime. Maybe it would teach her a lesson. Or make her work to pay her...

2 Mar 07

whats the difference between man and woman?

rienglass @rienglass (248) • Singapore 1 Mar 07

i think the difference is woman is more sensitive than man.thats all.we are primarily the same

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raymond71 The man and woman are alot different from one another. Because woman have a hard time with breakup and stuff. But a man can sometime cry over it or they can move on very fast. The man can out drink the woman. I agree with rienglass about the woman is more...

1 Mar 07

Jealousy - an expression of love or of insecurity?

nightlily @nightlily (33) • Philippines 30 Jan 07

Everybody experienced this kind of emotion. Other calls it a termite that eats and destroy the very pillar of any relationship. Other treats it as a dash of seasoning to spiced up their affair. But how do you view it?

jealousy

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raymond71 To me I view jealousy as a sign of insecurity. Because it is meaning they are jealous of who or what you are doing or seeing. Some of them do not like the fact that you hang out with your ex because they think you are doing something with them. But sometime...

1 Mar 07

Do u trust ur fireinds here on mylot ??????

HumsafarMandeep @HumsafarMandeep (691) 1 Mar 07

Something really i m curious to know....... This is somewat around 6th time,i loggged in to mylot and i saw a few friends request. i checked and i approved a few and denied a few. There are some backgrounds on which i decide to...

trust

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raymond71 At first on mylot i do not try to get to know anyone because i am aiming to get more money. I feel like it they message me then maybe I would reply to them. But sometime if you get to know someone then maybe you can trust them. Because how are you going to be...

1 Mar 07

I'm Leaving guys. It's my birthday.

pebbles_cubbie @pebbles_cubbie (3789) • United States 27 Feb 07

I'm not leaving mylot. I'm going to Wisconsin tomorrow night. I will be gone until Friday night. It's not a long time, but it's a nice break. I will miss you all and talk to you again tomorrow before I leave. It's a 4 and a 1/2...

traveling

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raymond71 Happy Birthday to you. Hope you are having a good time. Be carefully on the roads. And hope you are getting what you wanted on your birthday. I wish I could be 19 again. Once again happy birthday.

1 Mar 07

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How you celebrate your birthday?

jigishap @jigishap (595) • India 28 Feb 07

I used to celebrate with my family,out side dinner,cake and lots of love.. what about you?

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raymond71 I spent my birthday being broke because I had to pay the bills and we never have any money to go out and do anything because responsibilities always comes first. But I went to my fiance's parents house and ate dinner and then I had to work a little and then...

1 Mar 07

Am I Wrong To Go Out??

candygurl24 @candygurl24 (1880) • Canada 1 Mar 07

I know that I don't feel that the following is wrong in any way, shape or form, but someone in my family really ragged me out for it last night and I guess this is just my way to vent :) I am planning to go out for the weekend...

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raymond71 Ask them why you can not go out. That does not matter about the age of the sitter. As long as she is good with them and at least you are not leaving them with a complete stranger. It is only once in a great while that you get to go out and celebrate. You...

1 Mar 07

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My daughter is leaving

angelfromtheheavens @angelfromtheheavens (5) • United States 1 Mar 07

My daughter is graduating this year and she's leaving right away. i'm having a hard time with this. She's even talking about leaving before she graduates. I keep telling her that i'll take everything a way from her if she leaves,...

parenting

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raymond71 Why is she going to leave before graduation? Tell her that she can leave as soon as graduation. Tell her that you would like to spend time with her before she is gone. Tell her until you start paying the bills then you can add you two cents into it because you...

1 Mar 07

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I have no time, I have no money

faylinn_chaeli @faylinn_chaeli (1619) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

It's just so depressing, I mean, what is happening to me lately. I have no time for myself anymore and then I'm broke. Simply because of the feasibility study that I'm doing in school, I mean at this time I don't see it's worth....

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raymond71 I am sorry to hear that. I kinda know the feeling about being broke because I am in a situation. My fiance quit her job because she is looking for a better one. And now I am stuck with the bills until she can get one hopefully soon. Why did you lose your...

1 Mar 07