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getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 5 Nov 10

Well, I am strong. I know I am. But I am not strong, like all the time. I am strong only when I am happy. Fortunately, most of the time I am happy. But when I am sad, or, frustrated, I feel like I am not being strong anymore....

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ren_hbl Yes, I'm strong. And, I think, everyone living in this earth, who keeps living, is strong. As we face every challenge in our daily lives, we become stronger and stronger. And, what makes us even stronger is when we win that challenge. But, losing doesn't mean...

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Toni @toniganzon (72281) • Philippines 29 Oct 10

When i was young and thinking about marriage, i told myself i'm gonna marry someone who's 8 to 10 years older than me. I like mature man and didn't want to babysit a boyfriend if i marry someone young. But when I fell in love I...

age gap

relationship

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ren_hbl I think almost all the girls have the ideal age gap. But, when girls truly fell in love, it would no longer be a big deal. As long as you understand and love each other, you'll be able to learn how you handle your differences.

30 Oct 10

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asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 29 Oct 10

I have come across many people that claims that they buy branded products because they last longer and have better quality. Do you agree that only expensive & branded products are good quality. I personally don't think so as i...

branded vs cheap

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ren_hbl Yes, I agree on that. When I shop, it would really take me long because I make sure that the things I choose and buy have the good quality, whether they are branded or not. The common mistake among us is that, we think that if the product is branded, then it's...

30 Oct 10

Genifer @Genifer (29) • China 28 Oct 10

I don't like my job,and want to quit it,but my parents didn't agree.At present,I have found new job,and i really like it ,maybe the new job pay less than the previous work,also have a little unstable,but i like the kind of work...

choose

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ren_hbl It's indeed hard to decide on something if our parents interfere. And it's true that parents know best because they already have experienced a lot of things before we do. But in some cases that you think you can do best on something, then go for it. I'm not...

29 Oct 10

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ceecee1217 @ceecee1217 (122) • United States 28 Oct 10

Hey everyone I am 22 years old and about to get married. Me and my fiance haven't been together for a really long time, but I know he is the one I wanna spend my life with. There have been some saying I am too young to get married...

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ren_hbl Traditionally, getting married at the age of 22 is too young because the marrying age is 25 and up. But, for me, it's okay to get married at a young age, for as long as you are so sure with the person you're getting married with. You should also be already...

29 Oct 10

Karunvig @Karunvig (714) • India 28 Oct 10

If your spouse cheated on you, could you stay with her ?? ur gf or bf cheating on u, still u can manage as still there is lot to come in the life... but what if u get married today and ur partner is cheating on u... will u let ur...

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ren_hbl There are times in life that we encounter temptations leading to cheating. And the greatest challenge is how to face or outstrip those. The only weapon I can only think about to combat temptations is the "unconditional love". But, would you believe that what...

29 Oct 10

wadabski @wadabski (761) • Philippines 28 Oct 10

Does anybody know some remedies for vegetable patients on how to prevent or cure bedsores?

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ren_hbl There are lots of things to prevent bedsores. Don't let you patient be in one position for a long period of time. You should turn him to sides every one to two hours. Always check the bony prominences for redness. Keep the patient's skin dry and clean all the...

28 Oct 10

jramorinD @jramorinD (85) • Philippines 28 Oct 10

I don't think I can do it. Would prefer not to see or talk to him after the break-ups. Especially if he hurts me that much, how can I be a good friend to him?

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ren_hbl It depends on how a break-up happened. But, usually it ends up you being hurt. And, it wouldn't be normal for ex-lovers to be friends right after a break up. It would take sometime to adjust, especially that you hurt each other's feelings. Have a friend with...

28 Oct 10

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kendrathil @kendrathil (308) • India 28 Oct 10

It is very hard to make decision at times. May be yo have many doubts of the outcome. Well, in difficult situations, would would be your mood -- pessimistic or optimistic?

optimism

pessimism

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ren_hbl There are times that situations would lead you to become pessimistic. But, nevertheless, no matter what your situation may be, you should be optimistic. This is because being an optimist would attract positive vibrations, according to Chinese beliefs. And,...

28 Oct 10

ren_hbl @ren_hbl (14) • Philippines 27 Oct 10

When I was still studying, I really never thought of the reality that's behind life after school. Because I find working people more relaxed - no more requirements and deadlines to deal on. And that looking for a job is not a...

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ren_hbl Hi! Yup, your right. Wherever we go, we always have to struggle and face the challenges that life brings us. And, that keeps us stronger to really pursue our dreams and go on with our lives. That's actually the spice of life that we somehow should be thankful...

28 Oct 10

ren_hbl @ren_hbl (14) • Philippines 27 Oct 10

When I was still studying, I really never thought of the reality that's behind life after school. Because I find working people more relaxed - no more requirements and deadlines to deal on. And that looking for a job is not a...

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dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 26 Oct 10

Last week, my four year old daughter had tonsillitis. It was so bad that her fever reached 40 degrees celsius. It made her shiver that I almost had a heart attack. It was actually her first time to had a fever like that and to...

life

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ren_hbl I actually experienced to have a tonsillitis the following day after I ate a bunch of squash jam, candies, and chocolates. When I woke up in the morning, I almost couldn't speak because it was like there was something in my throat clogging. Luckily, I still...

26 Oct 10

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