rtutsky

@rtutsky (11)

United States • Age 74

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Is it my fault?

Grace030174 @Grace030174 (741) • Qatar 25 Nov 08

I got sms from my dad this morning;message was; "why ur not keeping in touch with me, is there anything wrong"? Are you angry?.....etc!!!I cant remember the moment i had with my dad cos he left us since i was 3 years old. so,...

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rtutsky I agree. Listen, we all make mistakes even your father. I believe he feels as though walking away was right for him at the time buy now he sees that it's important enough in his life to get to know you. He knows he did wrong by you and now he is trying to make...

25 Nov 08

Why many people seem to be lonely and unhappy in marriage and relationships?

deepti15 @deepti15 (1190) • India 25 Nov 08

[b]why do some people seem so lonely and unhappy in marriage and relationships? Why do some not get out if they are so unhappy and lonely? I am just curious. Is it neglect?, or commitment issues I don't...

relationships in life

unhappy marriage

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rtutsky Yes I also believe that some people get married for the wrong reasons. My ex wife I believe was in love with the idea of being in love and over the 22 years that we were married it took its toll. Part of our break-up was definitely my fault because I was...

25 Nov 08

how much time you need to move on?

petiksmode @petiksmode (2983) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

there are people who needs monthsor even years to move on from a broken relationshiop some even lesser or longer than that.. i personally live by the rule of "pain is normal within 30 minutes and after that it is...

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rtutsky I don't understand how someone can get over a broken relationship in 30 minutes. Must not have been much of a relationship to begin with. I was married for 22 years then my wife left. It's been 4 years now and I can't help still thinking about her.

25 Nov 08

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