safirpurim

@safirpurim (252)

United States • Age 47

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Would you marry someone who is attractive but lacking in intelligence?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 2 Aug 11

Let us say there is a girl or a guy you find extremely attractive - this person is a ten on your scale. You have been dating them for awhile and you know that their light bulb is not the brightest. They are the kind of person who...

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safirpurim Nope! Because I am intellectual I am stimulated more by a female's mind than her looks. Looks matter only a little to me. I would rather be able to share my heart with an unattractive female than to share my bed with an attractive fool

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Does Physical Appearance Really Matter?

nagatron123456 @nagatron123456 (888) • Philippines 27 Feb 11

Most of us today consider Physical Appearance as the main ingredient to love or like someone. I keep on thinking, if physical appearance really matter then there is no such thing as "true love" anymore, it only exist in the older...

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safirpurim so true! physical appearance should not be the basis for love, and it can never be. unfortunately people are deceived into thinking such things! however i must correct you on one thing...love does have a condition! love is not weak or helpless. although...

27 Feb 11

How many Unresolve and No response have you got?

vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 26 Feb 11

Honestly... I have a very messy data here in myLot... so many unresolve, I started discussions and have no replies, and have so many discussions with replies but no Best Response... I cannot count them.. What about you? Can you...

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safirpurim i mostly respond. i have not gotten many responses, and i understand, because i think deeply, and most probably dont know how to respond. however, i enjoy hearing from other peoples, and i have no choice but to share my input. it seems many people on mylot are...

26 Feb 11

Trust and promises

titaniumsoul @titaniumsoul (1191) • Singapore 26 Feb 11

Is there a link between trust and promises? If I tell you below sentence, what do you think? "People ask me why is it hard to trust someone, I replied back is it hard to keep promises?" For me, I don't see the link...

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safirpurim i trust everyone once i know their nature! i trust a thief will steal..i trust a liar will lie. i trust a lover will love, and i trust an honest person will be honest. in this way i am not worried about promises....because if a person is honest they say what...

26 Feb 11

My Ex landlord deducted 2k from my deposit money

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 26 Feb 11

Hi friends, As I posted in another discussion that I have moved to new flat. I left my earlier flat and she had taken 50K as deposit 2 year back that I was supposed to get after leaving the flat. She gave me 40K when I...

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safirpurim although it may not be easy, it is better to be the better person. if she wants to be that way allow her...that karma will come to her. just do the right thing and continue with your life's path. and hope that she may some day see if her actions were proper or...

26 Feb 11

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What makes you stay with your current partner?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 2 Feb 11

This question mainly to couples who are not married or planning to get married. Ever hear the words ... Love is blind. That's right, we should not be blinded by love who can make us act rationally insoluble in...

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safirpurim i am not married, but i can tell you that, love is blind..true...but lust is blind as well. and their blindness is different. love is blind because it can see all the faults of someone, but is willing to work with them to correct all their faults. lust is...

2 Feb 11

Why it is look odd for people being 30's not yet married?

lovebebe @lovebebe (27) • Philippines 1 Feb 11

I'm in my 30's and not yet married. It's always become discussion to our family for not getting married in my age. I do answer them it's wonderful being single not worrying for anything. I can travel to place where I like as soon...

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safirpurim i wouldnt pay attention to the ramblings of those who speak against someone in their 30's and not married yet. i am not married yet, but i am proud not to be. i mean of course i hope to be united with a wife for me soon, yet i have patience. in the process i...

2 Feb 11

RELIGION. Open the way to "Heaven", narrowing the path to God?

kendedes2011 @kendedes2011 (2712) • Indonesia 31 Dec 10

Walk to Paradise Road by Religion, do the deeds of the holy book ..., terminal discharge end ... (according to the book): HEAVEN. Walking toward God through the Way of Religion, narrow road, a lot of left-right bend branches,...

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safirpurim well heaven just means the sky. and if one would consider the heavens being outer space, then even astronauts have already been there...ask them what bliss they received. a book can not give the truth..it may only point the way, even as a wooden sign can do...

31 Dec 10

You can't help to someone who doesn't accept your help

Suggar @Suggar (3606) • Bulgaria 30 Dec 10

Hello guys, here is the situation. Me and my boyfriend have a friend, who is sick and doesn't have social life. Since i know him, i understood he is a nice person and i liked him a lot as a friend. I was working and earning very...

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safirpurim i understand. sometimes people have reasons that they may not want to share with everyone, especially because whom they share such things with, they know they will tell many people. how i feel is i dont like it when people try to help me, when i dont ask...

30 Dec 10

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Re-reading Genesis 1!!!!!

ErrollLeVant @ErrollLeVant (4353) • United States 8 Nov 10

I have just re-read the first chapter of Genesis and was reminded of the awe of Creation! This chapter is not about evolution or science or philosophy. It is the story of God's great joy in creating. We are not here accidentally,...

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safirpurim technically the book you call genesis in english is about creation and science speaks of this very thing. science calls this the big bang theory, because science says...the energy of atoms doesnt build up..it just appears! they say the energy to create a...

30 Dec 10

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Tithing and Offering to God

mysterycollection @mysterycollection (16) • United States 18 Nov 10

1. God owns everything. Why do we have to give him what he already own? 2. What part of the Bible says we have to give tithes?

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safirpurim you are insightful! technically hebrew scriptures says nothing that a man must give tithes...that is a ploy by pastors and priests to get people's money. they brought in this human tradition based on what avram=abram did when he rescued his nephew lot with his...

30 Dec 10

Bible Translation

Neriz69 @Neriz69 (1093) • Philippines 30 Dec 10

What Bible translation do you use? For me NIV is understandable. I also have TNIV, Good News Bible and soon I'll be having the Message Bible translation. I believe that we should have at least 2 to 3 bible translation for better...

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safirpurim all the bible translations are inaccurate. not only are they inaccurate but the modern day bibles have been purposely degraded in the translation to make the bible easy for the common person to read. bible business is one of the biggest businesses for books in...

30 Dec 10

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