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sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 I do not love him, however i do not hate him, i feel nothing for him. i feel more for a stranger in the street than for him. I might let him explain himself but im just worried that he won't tell me what i want to hear. I used to want him punished for what he...

22 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 21 Feb 08

My sister never really had a good role model as her real mum was an alcholic. My mum always tried to help her even adopted her but she still lived with her biological mom because she would let her do what she wanted. However her...

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sam305 I can't really take her child of her, as i have my own to look after and thats hard enough and considering the two are the same sort of age i would find it hard to cope with two on my own. We don't want to take my neice away from her just to help out if she...

22 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 21 Feb 08

My sister never really had a good role model as her real mum was an alcholic. My mum always tried to help her even adopted her but she still lived with her biological mom because she would let her do what she wanted. However her...

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sam305 She is 25, so i think the whole her being a child herself can be thrown out the window. I just dont get it she is six years older than me but i can cope alot better, she gets the same amount of support offered to her as i do from my family as there is loads of...

21 Feb 08

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sam305 @sam305 (74) 21 Feb 08

My sister got married two years ago and built up a £15000 debt having a beautiful day. However since then she ahsnt stopped spending. She has two psp's, a ps3, a ps3, a nintendo wee, 2 ds lites, a pc, a laptop and an xbox. All on...

sam305 @sam305 (74) 21 Feb 08

My sister never really had a good role model as her real mum was an alcholic. My mum always tried to help her even adopted her but she still lived with her biological mom because she would let her do what she wanted. However her...

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thefabulous @thefabulous (1) • Indonesia 21 Feb 08

Imagine if you meet someone, then you feel that he is the one. You can talk with him for hours, and you know that he is your perfect match. But you know that he is a kind of that bad boy, with a lot of bad past, even your family...

bad boy

love

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sam305 My boyfrinds always been a badboy and iv known him since i was around 11. It is a turn on but the difference is my boyfriend pretends to be all sweetness n light to my family so they love him. They know nothing about his criminal past but hes a good boy now.

21 Feb 08

valatha1969 @valatha1969 (246) 21 Feb 08

combined family particularly living with grand parents helps in the personality debelopement of the kids a lot They teach a lotof morals to the kids as well as the parents to follow and develop. grand parents and parent relation...

combine dfamilies

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sam305 I agree but you don't have to live with the other family to make it like this. You could just make sure that there was time spent with the other generation.

21 Feb 08

bramble1 @bramble1 (3) 21 Feb 08

My 9 months maternity leave are now up and I have to make the difficult decision as to being a working mum or not . I have enjoyed every minute of my sons first 9 months and would find it incredibly difficult to return to work...

maternity leave

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sam305 I was still at college when my daughter was born, i would have to leave her for 2-3 hours a day, i found this really hard as even though it was three hours a day i always thought what if i miss something new, luckily my mum and my boyfriend looked after us...

21 Feb 08

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sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 I feel very bad for you, and think it's disguisting that you were not believed. Thank you and i wish you well.

21 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 I get what you mean cus i don't like the idea of us never talking again and he dies.

21 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 He never beat me for lack of trying my siblings always took it for me. But he wasn't drunk all the time, when he did it. It was when he was stressed from work, or angry because of something.I don't no if he has stopped the drinking but i know last time we...

21 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 That would never happen to my daughter even if he did prove that he is know a reformed man he would still never be left with her without me or my mum or her dad being there. We are no longer scared.

21 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 I feel bad for your mum, but you should tell her she doesn't need him. My mum is now with a very nice man, wel shes bin with him for eight years now and he is the best thing that eva happened to her.

20 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 Me and my mum are fine, shes practically brought us up on her own and we are all better people because of her. I don't blame my mum, my dad is a great manipulator i remember well.

20 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

My dad was always a s**t dad, he was an alcholic and used to beat my mum. Then would start on us, my brothers and sisters always used to take the beatings as i was the youngest, and everytime my mum tried to leave he would hold us...

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sam305 I know why he wants to speak to me, someone told that i had had a child. And now he wants to see her. But i'd rather die than let him anywhere near her. Because if he hurt her the way he did me id kill him. I think he wants to get to my mum through me and my...

20 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

I have a really close boy mate, we talk all the time and have been friends for years. However my boyfriend is really jealous and says its wrong to be that close to another boy. And that we obviously must have feelings for each...

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coolcarsinc @coolcarsinc (242) 19 Feb 08

How old were you when you first got drunk?

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sam305 I was 11 im afraid to say, it was my brothers 18th birthday party so me and my best mates kept sneaking sips of other peoples drinks soon enough we were drunk. My mum hit the roof. haha wat about you?

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sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

I have recnetly have been trying to decide whether to stay with my boyfriend. I had an arguement with one of his brothers girlfriends because she sed i sed sumthing when i didnt. Then his family spread rumors about me that werent...

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sam305 Thats not possible really as him and his brother have brought a house together, for the four of us to live in. But i would rather go back to my mum then live with his brother n girlfriend. I don't want to go to his mum as i would feel as though im telling...

20 Feb 08

sam305 @sam305 (74) 20 Feb 08

I have recnetly have been trying to decide whether to stay with my boyfriend. I had an arguement with one of his brothers girlfriends because she sed i sed sumthing when i didnt. Then his family spread rumors about me that werent...

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sam305 I don't know if it is. I do love him, but i don't want to put up with it anymre and hes asked them to leave me alone but they just won't. I don't want it to have to come to the point where he has to chose between us. And i don't want my daughter to miss out on...

20 Feb 08

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