sam305

@sam305 (74)

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combined family is beneficial for children do u accept?

valatha1969 @valatha1969 (246) 21 Feb 08

combined family particularly living with grand parents helps in the personality debelopement of the kids a lot They teach a lotof morals to the kids as well as the parents to follow and develop. grand parents and parent relation...

combine dfamilies

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sam305 I agree but you don't have to live with the other family to make it like this. You could just make sure that there was time spent with the other generation.

21 Feb 08

to work or not to work

bramble1 @bramble1 (3) 21 Feb 08

My 9 months maternity leave are now up and I have to make the difficult decision as to being a working mum or not . I have enjoyed every minute of my sons first 9 months and would find it incredibly difficult to return to work...

maternity leave

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sam305 I was still at college when my daughter was born, i would have to leave her for 2-3 hours a day, i found this really hard as even though it was three hours a day i always thought what if i miss something new, luckily my mum and my boyfriend looked after us...

21 Feb 08

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First time you got drunk

coolcarsinc @coolcarsinc (242) 19 Feb 08

How old were you when you first got drunk?

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sam305 I was 11 im afraid to say, it was my brothers 18th birthday party so me and my best mates kept sneaking sips of other peoples drinks soon enough we were drunk. My mum hit the roof. haha wat about you?

20 Feb 08

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all alone

kiasexy @kiasexy (18) • United States 15 Feb 08

im all alone in this world the only person i have is my so called lover i wanna leave but it will take time my money is all gone helpind hem get out of debt when im still in debt im saving money now but dont know how much more i...

he is all i have besides ny job

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sam305 Chin up everything gets better in time.

16 Feb 08

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Are they all better than you?

emmasmomma @emmasmomma (340) • Canada 14 Feb 08

Two of my sister-in-laws think that they are perfect. They think that their children are perfect, their lives are perfect, etc. They are soooo bloody opinionated too! They have a comment about everything and it's usually negative....

family

inlaws

sister in law

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sam305 Yea my sister in law is a real b***h, says my house is dirty, calls my daughter a nuisance. I think thats just the way, because your married to their family they think they are better then you. Im always getting told that i'm not doing something with my...

15 Feb 08

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RE: Just found out: My best friend cheats on her husband!! Please help..

eftychiap @eftychiap (349) • Cyprus 14 Feb 08

Hi guys. I just wanted you to know what happened with my friend. Her husband find out about her affair with this other man, and she admitted it. He then realized that there is nothing left but to be separated. He realized that the...

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sam305 If they do not love each other anymore then yea this is the right decision. It is beter to be apart and be happy than together and unhappy.

14 Feb 08

Why has her life gone haywire?

dropdead4 @dropdead4 (10) • United States 13 Feb 08

Honestly, I though the song "rehab." was catchy, but now all you hear about these days is how Amy Winehouse must go to court for with her husband and blah blah blah. I think she basically messed up her career by doing drugs and...

amy winehouse

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sam305 lol. This is what usually happens with stars they can't take the heat. Well i say you know what your setting yourself up for in the celeb world if you can't handle it don't do it.

14 Feb 08

Do you know people who are sleepwalkers?

gadabout21 @gadabout21 (388) • Lithuania 13 Feb 08

My boyfriend is sleepwalker! Sometimes in the middle of night he stands up and starts to walk around the room, to look something in the cupboard or takes the book and put it into the fridge.. I don't know what to do! Maybe you...

sleep

sleepwalker

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sam305 Just leave him to it. My boyfriend sleep walks and talks. Sometimes i sit there and talk to him. You get alot more out of him when hes asleep. Sometimes it can get scary though, if your that bothered take him to his doctor and arrange some sleep therapy. It...

14 Feb 08

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Alone on valentine's day?

stewmoo @stewmoo (22) • South Korea 13 Feb 08

anyone else just get dumped on valentine' eve? feeling pretty lost now.......give me some hope!

dumped

lonely

valentines

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sam305 Go out and have a laugh with your single friends. Valentines day is a load of commercialised rubbish anyway.

13 Feb 08

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Is it worth it?

RC_Stinger @RC_Stinger (10) • United States 13 Feb 08

So alot of couples tell me that being married is the best thing thats ever happened to them. However, many tell me that its not worth it and it just causes ALOT of financial trouble. I am 19 and wondering some peoples...

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sam305 It is more to do with peoples personal preferences really. Their are alot of people that dont bother getting married and save the money for a house or a new car instead. However some people want a special day to celebrate their love. I do no that when my...

13 Feb 08

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Untimely Pregnancy

jvanfray01 @jvanfray01 (14) • United States 9 Feb 08

Well, this is the first time I am statring a BLOG. I really am not sure of what to do but here I go. I am a mother of 3 ages 7,5,and 3. I just found out that I should be expecting baby #4 sometime early in October. I don't know...

pregnancy

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sam305 Giving birth to a child is a gift, i know it may feel as though you are trapped at the moment but things will get better. It can be harder on your own believe me i know, but as long as you have got your kids and your health everything will be fine. Just...

12 Feb 08

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Im a VIRGIN, and im curious, is "it" really that awsome?

mlb199009 @mlb199009 (76) • Philippines 12 Feb 08

im a virgin, so i am really curious of this kind of stuff, i want to know and verify if "it" really is a pleasurable thing to do?

sex

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sam305 'it' as you put it can be very pleasureable if done with the right person. However, if with the wrong person it can be awful leaving you with feelings of disgust and feeling used. If i could give you any advice do not just rush into it because everone else is...

12 Feb 08

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Is it time to just give up on life

ryan8kristin @ryan8kristin (37) • United States 8 Feb 08

Ok i am 18 and having the worst time in my life i am sure you all have had times like this. but the reason i say i am having the worst luck is because well see me and my boyfriend just recently started dating and we have been...

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sam305 You cannot just give up on life just because you are going through a bad time in life every1 has these. If you want to stay with your boyfriend but want to stop all the fighting you 2 need to sit down and talk about why your fighting and really evaluate why...

12 Feb 08

Do you think Valentines Day is...

jenncardenas @jenncardenas (130) • United States 9 Feb 08

Overrated or necessary? I believe in the tradition persay but I don't think there should be only one day of the year that we are suppose to show our significant other how much we love them. Shouldn't we be doing this everyday? I...

love

relationships

valentines day

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sam305 i don't think people should have one day to celebrate their love. Valentines day is just an overated way for people like shop owners to make money. I agree in celebrating your love but not on a set day when evry1 else is.

12 Feb 08

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What's the longest time you've been friends with anyone?

rychelle314 @rychelle314 (285) 12 Feb 08

I have a very close friend whom I've known since I was five (or was it four??). She has become sort of like a sister for me and we tall each other almost everything. Now that we're older though, we don't get to see each other...

friendship

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sam305 Friendships are hard sometimes, me and my best friend have been together since we were practically born as her mum and my mum were also best friends. When i was 16 i moved so instead of being round the corner i was an hour walk away. It was hard at first but...

12 Feb 08

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What do you consider cheating??

dutchess21 @dutchess21 (7) • United States 12 Feb 08

Well it may sound bad but every now and then i check my boyfriends mypsace. And lately he's been talking to this girl about everything! He honestly talks to her more than he talks to me, im not sure what to think of it but it just...

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sam305 I do not consider this to be cheating, to cheat i beleive it has to be physical, but therefore if he is falling for this girl he is cheating on you in his mind. As he has not told you, would ask him about this girl and see what he says. It could just be a...

12 Feb 08