sarafii74

@sarafii74 (106)

Australia • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Communication or acceptance - is key?

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 1 Apr 10

As part of my psychology course, I have to study relationships. I always thought that any relationship could be made better with open communication - till I came across this case which I had to read about. This is the case of a...

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sarafii74 Communication.No doubt about it. Just a simple example of myself. I've got into a relationship with a boy who is from other nationality of mine, we had countless conflict in the begining 'n we thought about end it up several times but we survied from this...

1 Apr 10

Do you think you are very busy now?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 6 Sep 09

All people in this society have their own duties.As a student,I have classes everyday and try to learn my major well.Sometimes I may be overwhelmed by too many tasks and feel totally engaged.While other times I am very free and...

busy

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sarafii74 Hi, sunshine. I like to keep myself busy all the time, so I will not feel I have nothing to do. Be busy can put you in some good situation, for instance, if you said you are busy, which means you can refuse some people who you don't like to hang out with; or...

6 Sep 09

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What according to you is love?

Rahulsan @Rahulsan (83) • India 16 Jun 08

What according to you is love? Try your best to explain in your own words, don't copy others.

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sarafii74 hi, rahulsan. Love between my boyfriend and I means respect each other. This is the most important part of our life and it's also the secret why we can get well with each other for a long time. Have a nice day!

4 Sep 09

at what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 4 Sep 09

I,really don't if the member of mylot answer this question by i just give it a try.. i hope your open minded in this question? At what age you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? and what age are you now?.

sex

virginity

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sarafii74 Hi,jen. I gave it to my first boyfriend, and we are still getting well with each other. Anyway, both of us are adults, we will take responsibilities to what we did. If you are not ready, don't do it. I felt a little bit regret after did that with him, time...

4 Sep 09

Do you prefer to watch a movie in the cinema or at home?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 14 Aug 09

Some people would like to watch movies on DVDs or on the Internet at home.It costs less and gives you more liberty when you are at home.But I prefer to go to cinema.I enjoy the feeling of watching movies with other audience and I...

see a movie

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sarafii74 Hi, yunlong. It depends, I would go to cinema if I feel I love the movie very much. And BTW, bought a DVDs is expensive than one movie tickets~~~ =D but you can watch it over and over again as you want. Normally, I will go to cinema first, and after that if...

16 Aug 09

Which emoticon is your favorite one?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 16 Aug 09

Hey mylotters, which emoticon is your favorite one? Also can you tell why it is your favorite one. I seem to like the one that winks it's eye. For some reason or another it's almost as if I seem to use that one that...

emoticon

favorite

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sarafii74 Hello, Citychic. You must have beautiful eyes~~~~eyes always play important role in human face's emonticon. my boyfriend has fantastic eyes and eyelashes, I am crazy about them. So sometimes he was joking that 'you fall in love with me because my eyelash?' I...

16 Aug 09

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How much you are taking care to maintain your relation

rajupaul @rajupaul (973) • India 14 Aug 09

Dear friends Every body are very much taking care of your relation. But are we are not conscious that in our fast life some where we are loosing our relation. Am I right or Not.

people

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sarafii74 Hello, rejupaul. Relation is very important in our life. Now the most important relationship in my life is my partner and I. Sometimes I believe the saying "we neither have eternal friends nor eternal enemy." So, sometimes we lose some friends and gain more...

14 Aug 09

Would you take a cheater back?

berryliciousme @berryliciousme (1003) • Philippines 14 Aug 09

If someone cheated on you, would you take them back? Would you ever trust them again? I would be able to forgive but I do not think I can forget.

cheating

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sarafii74 Hello, berry.It is hard, it's very hard for me to trust the cheater again, not matter what reason he or she has, I CAN NOT accept. I agree with you, I can forgive but I can not forget. And I don't have any contact with the cheater again. Have a nice...

14 Aug 09

Do you like singing in KTV?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 8 Aug 09

Now KTV is very popular here.When friends get together,they usually go there and sing to have fun.As I am not good at singing,I practice a lot in KTV. So is KTV popular in your place?Do you feel like singing there?

ktv

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sarafii74 Hello,yunlong. Most of my friend like go to KTV, but I don't. I alway keep on eating while my friends' singing. I don't like the noisy and stuffy place, fortunately, now my friends more like to go to the restaurant and just chatting. Or do some outdoor or...

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What are the disadvantages of being continuous online on the internet???????

kawalsukhi @kawalsukhi (641) • India 9 Aug 09

I think its very harmful to be internet geeks.Internet is good and very good in good purposes but it harms health if you misuse it . What you thinks that what types of problem arises by use of internet and how can this be...

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sarafii74 Hi, kawalsukhi. That's so true. If I am being continuous online for more than an hour, my neck, my back, my eyes, even every parts of my body are aching. You'd better take a rest or move around each 30 mins while using the internet. Have a nice day!

9 Aug 09

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Do you have the habit of rearranging bed, when you woke up in the morning?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 9 Aug 09

How many of you do this? When I woke up in the morning, I just go and brush my teeth first, then I come to my bedroom, and rearrange my bedsheets, pillows... to make it a better look... then I do my usual work... Do you have...

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sarafii74 Hi, arun. I have to rearrange my bed every morning, but not immediately. I go to brush my teeth and wash my face first as you do, then have my breakfast. After finishing every thing before I go out, I will rearrenge my bed or my room. Because I need to...

9 Aug 09

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do you maintain good relationship with your girl/boy friend

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 9 Aug 09

hi my lot friends, let me know that how many of you maintain good relationship with your girl/boy friend sincerely,though you may have more than one girl/boy friend,how you treat all girl/boy friends equally or with...

girl or boy friend

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sarafii74 hello, yugasini. I have a relationship with a boy recently. It seems we try hard to maintain our relationship because we come from different country. We have already had this relationship for 4 months. I hope we can keep this relationship until...

9 Aug 09

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do you get upset if someone else check out your spouce or b/f or gf

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 1 Aug 09

ok i hear this all the time, man i wanted to kick this butt because he was looking at my wife or girl. or i wanted to kick this chick butt because she was checking out my man. how stuipd. now i tell them there is no reason to...

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sarafii74 Hello, syankee. Ok, I don't want to admit this but.....yes, at the very begining, I was very very worry about some other girls will rob my boy. And he as well, also upset because other boys were looking at me. After several months, we've already used to...

1 Aug 09

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