sarafii74

@sarafii74 (106)

Australia • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Communication or acceptance - is key?

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 1 Apr 10

As part of my psychology course, I have to study relationships. I always thought that any relationship could be made better with open communication - till I came across this case which I had to read about. This is the case of a...

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sarafii74 Hmmm, I kind of agree with what u said. After post my comment, I realized that I am not a marry person so that I didn't think to far like u do.

1 Apr 10

Do you think you are very busy now?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 6 Sep 09

All people in this society have their own duties.As a student,I have classes everyday and try to learn my major well.Sometimes I may be overwhelmed by too many tasks and feel totally engaged.While other times I am very free and...

busy

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sarafii74 Or maybe just take a rest, doing nothing is also a good choice. :)

6 Sep 09

Do you like singing in KTV?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 8 Aug 09

Now KTV is very popular here.When friends get together,they usually go there and sing to have fun.As I am not good at singing,I practice a lot in KTV. So is KTV popular in your place?Do you feel like singing there?

ktv

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sarafii74 So are u good at singing? Actually I am bad on it. Haha~~That's also one reason why I don't like to go to KTV. But if I have pressure, I would like to go to KTV to release my pressure. After singing, for me it's like yelling, my mood would get better but my...

10 Aug 09

Do you have the habit of rearranging bed, when you woke up in the morning?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 9 Aug 09

How many of you do this? When I woke up in the morning, I just go and brush my teeth first, then I come to my bedroom, and rearrange my bedsheets, pillows... to make it a better look... then I do my usual work... Do you have...

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sarafii74 I am glad you like my way of rearranging the bed~~~~Have a nice day!!!

10 Aug 09

What are the disadvantages of being continuous online on the internet???????

kawalsukhi @kawalsukhi (641) • India 9 Aug 09

I think its very harmful to be internet geeks.Internet is good and very good in good purposes but it harms health if you misuse it . What you thinks that what types of problem arises by use of internet and how can this be...

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sarafii74 mmmm, thanks for your reply as well~~~~

9 Aug 09

do you maintain good relationship with your girl/boy friend

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 9 Aug 09

hi my lot friends, let me know that how many of you maintain good relationship with your girl/boy friend sincerely,though you may have more than one girl/boy friend,how you treat all girl/boy friends equally or with...

girl or boy friend

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sarafii74 Thank you! He seems have some trouble on his job today, but I can do nothing which makes me frustraing now. Hope you have a nice day!

9 Aug 09

Have you ever complained about your Family Background?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 31 Jul 09

Every now and then I would hear people around me complaining about their family background when they encounter with life diffculties. They say that if they had born in a richer family,or their family are powerful etc,their life...

family background

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sarafii74 yeah...I agree with you. No one will like our parents love us that much. Unless we find someone we love and also love us, who can company with us for whole life. Have a nice day!

3 Aug 09

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Luxury goods:are they worth to buy?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 29 Jul 09

Nowadays I find more and more people around are keen on buying luxury goods for their well known brands and so-called high quality.However,these products are much more expensive than normal products.Some would even spend their...

luxury goods

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sarafii74 yeah, I agree. Luxury goods are what we 'want', don't what we 'need'. But nowadays, advertisers always make people think they really 'need' those luxury goods, and so-call stimulate economy.... Actully, it leads to mountants of waste!! It's more like a...

1 Aug 09

High school...a great experience or worst moments of your life?

sophisticated_boy @sophisticated_boy (1457) • Indonesia 26 Jul 09

Hi myLotters, I know that when we were (or are) a teenager, we still searching for our true identity and many of us may have found difficulties adjusting ourselves into the society. Many people having high points in their high...

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sarafii74 Lucky you! I used to think that the only important thing in my high school life was the points. Cus all the teachers and parents are just focusing on the high points' students, and students themselves also, comparing with each others' point. However, when...

1 Aug 09

Are you OK if your husband/wife Smokes?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 20 Jul 09

I can't take it. I am allergic to the smoke of cigars. I will get irritated if somebody stands next to me smokes in public places. Now, there is a law passed in my country saying 'Smoking in public places is a crime'. Moreover, I...

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sarafii74 That's so true! My father is a smoker, and most of the time I get a lot of smoke from him. He also realized that but he said he was too old to quit, and he also said he wanted me to find someone who was not a smoker to get married.

29 Jul 09

High school...a great experience or worst moments of your life?

sophisticated_boy @sophisticated_boy (1457) • Indonesia 26 Jul 09

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sarafii74 Some good teachers (or some good parents) will encourage you to attend extracurricular activities. Cuz what we learn from school is the skill of self-learing, that's all! The most important skill we should learn is Communication skill! and this skill can...

29 Jul 09

What you like to drink between Beer or Wine? and Why?

Amarinder @Amarinder (80) • India 29 Jul 09

Tell me if someone drink. Some peoples like beer and some like wines. Tell your choice what you like to drink mostly and why?. I like beer because it is so cool and tasty then wine and its also have less alcohol then wine. I also...

beer or wine

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sarafii74 Yeah.....wine and beer make me relax and sleep as well~~~~

29 Jul 09

would you?

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 26 Jul 09

How many of you parents on mylot would ty to realize your dream through your kids?Do you think its fair?After-all we are individuals no matter how young or old so why should a parent force her kids to live their dreams?Of course...

dreams

forgive

parents

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sarafii74 Thank you for replying that. I tried very hard to make them happy even give up to be myself. But I found it's very painful to do so. And they also very care about other people's discussion, that's why they treat me so strict. I know some of the advice they...

26 Jul 09

is it hard for you to think of questions to ask?

justbeingtiffany @justbeingtiffany (1156) • United States 19 Jul 09

why? for me it is. i used to answer people questions and there idea gives me a idea to ask a question about. or in my everyday life i have random thoughts and i tell myself to remember it to ask all of you later. but lately its...

ask

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sarafii74 Yeah...you are right. I always worry about everything, even the very tiny things. Thank you for your advice!! I will try to ask. Cuz I think I should find out the answer myself first. BTW, I can solve my problem while answering other mylotters problem and...

19 Jul 09

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Are you people afraid of the future, the unknown?

meyows @meyows (438) • India 12 Jul 09

Then you guys need my tips to handle the situations. I am ready to help you with my knowledge. Generally we'll be afraid of the future, which is unknown to us. Like some examples: We had invested our money in some HYIP's and don't...

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sarafii74 Thank you!meyows! Thanks a lot for your advice!! He also said the similar words, "if we support each other, nothing is impossible, we need to stand by our sides." I am more confident about our relationship now. Thank you again!meyows! Have a nice day~

16 Jul 09

Life?

Nashka105 @Nashka105 (52) • United States 11 Feb 09

What is life? How many of us are truly living? I take a moment, I take a breath... and I ask myself these questions... So much power in the hands of a few so called leaders, but where are they leading us? The human race is...

change the world

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sarafii74 From China, a country full of jollification. I do love my country, my family and friends, but it is hard to get a quiet place no matter where I am, home, office or even in the library. I have come to Australia for two weeks, and it's my first oversea...

12 Feb 09

which is the best laptop brand -today!!!

legend4u @legend4u (1019) • India 4 Nov 08

i have decided to buy a new laptop, which could be the best choice...money will not be a great problem i just need best with style and class. which brand can be used....i use my computer for bussiness and internet

laptop

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sarafii74 Thank you for your advice, crackerweed! Well, my samsung is rarely dropped or spilled because i treat it carefully like my partner. But it still gets hot in the downside and its CPU always run 100%. Sometimes I was afraid i would be burn up myself one...

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Japan RPG games in psp

minwei86 @minwei86 (33) • Singapore 29 Sep 08

I now playing Yddgra Union USA version. I find that japan rpg games have show competitive edge on their rpg games as compare to other countries. And they never fail me in their character design and story concepts. Wanna share...

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sarafii74 Monster Hunter is not a RPG game, it's more like a ACT game. BTW, lavontaej, i love MHP the best!

4 Nov 08