shylalex

@shylalex (13)

India • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Come, lets be friend.

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will you follow your dream? or your parents dream? or both.

panicdude @panicdude (456) • Philippines 8 May 07

many parents want what is best for their child. but what if you don't want the dream that they want for you? and they totally dislike your life decisions. will you follow them because they said that you will have a good future...

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shylalex If my dream and my parents dream matches then It would have been Great. But obviously it doesnt. My dream is my parents and I beleive that their dream should be fulfilled. Its only then I will be happy as to see the sparkling face to my parents. My...

12 May 07

How Much Is A Mother Worth?

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 12 May 07

Tomorrow, May 13th is Mother's Day here in the United States. I began wondering how much all the mothers would be worth if you could put a dollar amount on it. I know all mothers feel that taking care of their children is...

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shylalex Mother , the most touching word. The most touching person in each one's life.Mother is the one becoz of whom u and i are here on this beautiful earth. Mother is the one who is a friend, sister, brother, father, and is the one who adds every relation with...

12 May 07

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What scares you in life?

irishmist @irishmist (3814) • United States 11 May 07

For me. I guess I would say I might be a chicken. I will never fly in a plane. I'm afraid of crashing & Terrorist. Plus I'm scared of heights, due to some childhood accidents on a Tarzen Swing. I also have a thing about elevators...

clildhood accidents

phobias

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shylalex It scares me a LOOOOOOOOOOOTtttttttttt og losing the one whom I Love Very Very much. I cant take the day when i know i have to be away from him. BUt is know he is happy without me The happiness is in to know the love is happy without me. This SCARES me...

12 May 07

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How to keep control over your thoughts

Ravrockin @Ravrockin (281) • India 1 Apr 07

Stay on the top of positive thinking,keep celebrating and enjoyinj success and keep those mental images strong. And on other side learn to handle failure and challenges. Accept the mistakes when you are trying something new. If...

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shylalex thoughts cant be controlled. coz they are the ones who is always with us when the world is away from us. Thoughts, good and bad, It makes the life happy as well as sad, Thoughts are the one who is my best friend. Thoughts are the one where I can be...

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why do you get upset?

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 30 Mar 07

I have read many discussions about people being upset because they recieved adverse comments or were criticised by someone online? I want to ask now, why do you take thses com,ments so personally. come on this is net, I don't know...

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shylalex I get upset as recently I have said some hurting words to one of my sweet friend.So the reason I have been upset.it was really a very bad experience of my life. but i have decided not to say someting more to this as sorry cant bring the days back. So...

30 Mar 07

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Three Healing Words #11 - I Love You

g_aileen09 @g_aileen09 (1354) • Philippines 27 Mar 07

"I love you." Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your...

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shylalex I lOVE when you say mean it from your heart. It is the best medicine which can cure all the wounds. To love someone and to get the love in return from the same person is the most happiest thing to be happen in life

27 Mar 07

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When you die, would you want your spouse to visit your grave every day?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13387) • United States 16 Mar 07

How would you feel if your spouse or significant other visited you at your grave every day or almost every day? Would you want them to not visit you that often and move on with their life? I have heard of this one person here that...

death

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shylalex NO, I would only wants my spouse to remember me by being happy and just loving the world the way he used to love me. visiting my grave should be only on y birthday as i do not want him to miss me and been thinking and hurting his feelings

16 Mar 07

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do you believe in online friendships?

naadia @naadia (828) • India 3 Mar 07

actually i dont believe in online friends.because there are many limitation for a girl!i have joined many community sites like orkut.i have many friends in orkut.but none of them are stranger.all are either my friends and family...

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shylalex I dont believe in Online Friendships as 99% people lie as to what they are. they do not say true about themselves. it is not personality but the behaviour and we do not come to know inless and until we come face to face with that person. a friend shouls be...

4 Mar 07

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Can Parents and Children be friends?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 26 Feb 07

Some people think that parents can get to be friends of their own kids, and have a more open relationship. Others defend that there must be a point of authority all the time and that the parent-son/daughter relationship can never...

family

life

parenting

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shylalex Sure, parent needs to be like friend with their children. As friendship between them makes a good base to share all types of problems. Being friend is like being good supporter for every type of situation in life.

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