soleya

@soleya (1100)

Latvia • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Let's be rich and successful!

Responses (473)

soleya's Responses

when do you say its enough and time to find another job?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 16 Feb 11

stress is always part of our job, if it is stress related to our colleagues, stress related to our tasks, boss, or even travel time to get to work... but most of the time we are able to neglect these because we enjoy the work, we...

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soleya I left my two previous jobs before. First time I left because I felt unappreciated, like they didn't seem to understand how much I have done for the company and it really made me unhappy, so I left. And the last time I left my work was because I moved to...

17 Feb 11

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"Women prefer to marry Wealthy Men?"

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 17 Feb 11

Love is no longer the driving force for many women when it comes to choosing their soul-mates. Smart women are becoming more materialistic. They want happiness and security in life so they want to marry men with fat pockets. But...

wealthy husband

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soleya The love from a poor man heart worth anything?! I want to disagree with you. Poor man is a man with confidence issues! If he can't provide for his family or even for himself it certainly affects his self esteem and results in major psychological issues. And if...

17 Feb 11

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Make a travel wish list

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 17 Feb 11

Ten years ago I sat down and made a travel wish for the future. At that time I was teaching Year 2 at a primary school in a village. My contract was about to come to an end so I thought I would go off on a long trip somewhere. I...

list

traveling

wish

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soleya Wow! You visited a lot of countries, impressive. If I had to make a travel wish list it would look like this: 1. Australia 2. New Zealand 3. Japan 4. Malaysia 5. Thailand 6. China 7. Cuba 8. Maldives 9. Iceland 10. The Seychelles

17 Feb 11

What do you do with online earning?

sincere4frdship @sincere4frdship (2228) • India 16 Feb 11

Well.. I have been started this same type of discussion long ago but that time I was new here and very few person answered me .. So again I am starting this.. what do you do with the small earning which you will do here...

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soleya I haven't earned anything yet, so this question is not actually for me. I mean I have accumulated some money, but haven't received actual check yet. So, when I will do get paid I will invest this money I have already earned in my online business: pay for the...

17 Feb 11

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Headphones at work

iDivision @iDivision (1412) • Latvia 17 Feb 11

My work have some cool options. Ability to listen music everyday while working is one of them. I am sitting in front of my PC and i am not working with clients, so i can do my job the way i like. About half time of my working...

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soleya I love working with my headphones on as well, sometimes it helps me concentrate on my work more and show people that I am actually busy working, so don't disturb me. I think that headphones are vital for people who work in the open plan workplace.

17 Feb 11

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What's with women and expensive bags and shoes??

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 29 Dec 10

I have observed that some women would really spend a lot of money for just a simple bag or even just a pair of shoes. I think spending around $600 or Ph30,000 for just a bag seemed quite impractical. $600 could really go a long...

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soleya I love expensive bags and shoes. And when I can afford them, I always go for the more expensive thing. Bags and shoes are like statements. Of course there are cheaper versions of the same models of shoes and bags, but they are always not comfortable or lose...

30 Dec 10

Friends and life

elitess @elitess (5070) • Ipswich, England 29 Dec 10

I was thinking that in the last year, the ratio of time i spend with my friends has dropped really hard and this is partially because i worked for 9 months with a extra time and all, but also because my friends started working as...

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soleya I think that everyone has the same problem. When we grow up, start to work, have kids and families, it seems there is no time left for our friends. Like in my case I moved countries this year, and I haven't seen my friends also since summer and don't really...

30 Dec 10

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mylot friend request?

anNiTa @anNiTa (126) • United States 23 Nov 10

ok, recently i have been accepting friend request, although, i am not quite sure what the purpose is. i dont mind accepting them, but i am not sure what happens next? its not like a social networking site, that you chat and share...

mylot frien request

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soleya I have found out that the more friends you have here on mylot the more people will actually see when you are starting discussion and therefore can participate in them. All people can reply to your discussions, but anyway the more friends you have the better.

24 Nov 10

Do you still use your tv?

trickiwoo @trickiwoo (2702) • United States 15 Nov 10

My younger brother has stopped watching tv completely! So have his roommates! Their tv isn't even hooked up to the cable! They still watch tv shows though... just not on tv! They watch all their shows on Hulu or on Netflix! Do...

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soleya I have a very old crappy TV in the apartment I am renting and it is not even hooked up to cable. And I realize I don't need TV anymore at all. All I need to watch, all programs and TV series I like I can find and download from the Internet and watch on my...

16 Nov 10

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How to forget someone that you loved before? Please help.

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 15 Nov 10

I had one boyfriend before when I was still in college. We had a special something going on with our lives like we had a relationship. He was the campus crush. Not many guys there in school are that handsome though so he really...

forgetting the ex completely

forgetting the lover from the past

how to forget a love one from the past

love problems

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soleya I don't really know how to forget someone you once loved. I used to have relationships with a guy 5 years ago, it didn't work out, but I still miss him. Even tonight I had a dream about him and it felt so real. I woke up and felt so bad after that dream. I...

16 Nov 10

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Do you like to shower in the morning or at night? Or both?

keeegan_ess @keeegan_ess (512) • United States 14 Nov 10

I usually like to shower in the morning. But sometimes, I do shower at night. I usually shower in the morning because I feel that it helps me to wake up. Being a student and all, I have to wake up at a pretty early time. So, when...

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soleya I like both, especially during hot summers here in Spain. I can even pop into shower more than twice per day, because I don't like to be sweaty and stinky. I always feel great and refreshed after shower, but sometimes I am too lazy to do it in the evening. But...

15 Nov 10

Why Travel?

iamchamiechamz @iamchamiechamz (65) • Philippines 15 Nov 10

I love to travel because I want to appreciate every detail of each place I came to visit. How about you, why do you love to travel?

adventure

travel

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soleya I love to travel a lot, because I love to see how different people are in every part on the planet. I love to see amazing places, I love to meet new people, I love taking pictures and learn about history of different places. Traveling give you so much to think...

15 Nov 10

online friends wanted!

rebecca0106 @rebecca0106 (12) • China 15 Nov 10

Hi, guys. I'm Becky from China, a junior in college. I'm a new one here so I'm not sure raising up a discussion like this is appropriate or not. See, I had a pen friend from Australia 3 years ago. Though handwriting letter was a...

online friends

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soleya Hi, Becky! Welcome to Mylot. I am sure you will find a lot of great online friends here, so good luck! I used to have pen friends myself too, it was so much fun! I can be your friend, if you want!

15 Nov 10

Why do people cheat in love?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 15 Nov 10

I always wonder how can a person hurt the feelings of other person without even caring and loving other person. Why do some people never return back the love they get from a person?

infatuation

love

relatationship

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soleya I think this happens when people care more about themselves than the person they love or whom they are with. People usually seek attention in other people when they lack it at home, when they feel that they are leading a boring life and everything is the same...

15 Nov 10

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A new beginning starting now

elitess @elitess (5070) • Ipswich, England 14 Nov 10

I am back home, after finishing my last work day at Ubisoft. I have a number of feelings in my head and heart right now: i am tired, a bit nostalgic, relaxed, a bit confused - it's been 9 months of my life and i can't believe time...

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soleya Good luck with your school and new beginnings in life. I am a lazy person, so I would take time to relax, but if you have already missed so much in school, maybe it is better to start as soon as you can. I have been out of work for two times in my life already...

15 Nov 10

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studies- late night or early morning?

raviteja_ravi84 @raviteja_ravi84 (2620) • India 14 Nov 10

I am a student and i bet most of you in here are also the same. I was just wondering out of the two which would you prefer to do and why? I prefer late night studies because i would finish studying then i could sleep...

early morning

late night

studies

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soleya I prefer late night studies also. During morning and day hours there is always someone around to disturb me, but during night everyone is so tired they want just go to sleep and the house is entirely mine. I can concentrate more on my studies when I know that...

15 Nov 10

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Do you call your friends to ask what they are doing daily?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 13 Nov 10

We have this one guy that calls daily just to see what we are doing. He calls all the time and then when he has found out what we are doing he hangs up. I don't know why he does this he really don't want anything except to know...

this is annoying

why does he call daily

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soleya No, nobody calls me to find out what I am doing daily. But I think it is nice of him to be concerned. At least you know that there is your friend out there in the world who cares about you. Mostly people care only about themselves and wait for someone to call...

14 Nov 10

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what do you think is the most unrewarding job??

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 14 Nov 10

We all have worked and see other people work as well too, right. well juset a couple of days ago i heard this local entertainment host said that show business is the most unrewarding job in the world because no matter what the do,...

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soleya I think that most unrewarding job is a job of housekeeper, because no one understands how hard it is and once person enters a house or hotel room which was just done by a housekeeper all her/his work disappears, because everyone likes to mess things up. So,...

14 Nov 10

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