steffanybelano

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Philippines • Age 33

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Is arranged marriage fair?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

Is it fair if our parents will be the ones to choose the person whom we should marry?

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steffanybelano No, it is unfair to us. If we dont like that guy to be our partner. They choose that guy because of reputation, businessman, or something that has a big name in the politics. That kind of marriage is not successful, some relatonship will not last longer.

24 Mar 10

Should adolescents do everything even if it's bad for the sake of belongingness?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

A young adolescent ones told me about her problem on peer acceptance. She said all that she wanted is to be accepted by her friends. She does not want to be different from them. Her question is that, should she do everything even...

peer acceptance

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steffanybelano No, if he/she a true friend she can be accepted whoever she is. She is not obliged to do everything just to be accepted by her friends for the sake of belongingness. But some of young adolescent today, pretend that they have money so that they can be accepted...

24 Mar 10

How to get rid of persistent suitor?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

If you have a very persistent suitor whom you've turned down several times since your early adolescence and yet won't give up on you, what is the best thing to do in order to get rid of him?

persistent suitor

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steffanybelano If i have a persistent suitor and i think he won't give up on me,i think i should tell him that im not ready to enter any relationship and beside that my first priority now is my study. If he wont stop me at this time, i will avoid to see him.

24 Mar 10

Sibbling rivalry, a childhood issue or a lifelong issue?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

I have cousins who only had 2 children in their respective families. In most cases, the sibblings behave like cats and dogs. Obviously, there is a big problem regarding sibbling rivalry. It's similar to the biblical story of Cain...

sibbling rivalry

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steffanybelano sibbling rivalry is a natural thing for a brother or sister even in a stage of adulthood. For the children they always wanted equal attention and love from thier parents. If that rivalry remain unresolved in childhood,it is still persist until they grow up. It...

24 Mar 10