sudiptacallingu

@sudiptacallingu (10879)

India • Age 52

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Somebody just called me "pig" and "dirty"

shimi18 @shimi18 (98) • Philippines 29 Jan 12

My boyfriend and I just had a fight, So i am really mad at him, he kept on sending text messages but i never sent a reply, not until someone sent me a message claiming that she was the gf of my bf, she kept on sending messages,...

relationship

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sudiptacallingu I think you are better off without such a bf and you deserve better relationships. Its only when we fight that we come to know the true colors of our friends and acquaintances. Its not abnormal to fight while in a relation but later on, both of them should...

30 Jan 12

A man cuts off his own head

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 29 Jan 12

A while ago I read in the news that a man cut off own head with chainsaw and it is understood police are not treating his death as suspicious. Does something strike you as incongruous here? I mean chainsaws are potentially...

chainsaw

suicide

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sudiptacallingu I agree! Until and unless the guy was trying to frame somebody else (I sound like a hackneyed detective novel plot), it would have been so much easier to just take a shot to his brain or jump in front of a moving train (the favorite suicide mode in my city...

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Cosmetic Tatoo

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 29 Jan 12

I know a couple of ladies who just had eye liner and lip liner permanently tatooed on to their faces, one of them also had eye brows tatooed on. Is this something you would ever consider doing? If you are a man how would you feel...

cosmetic tatoo

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sudiptacallingu From a woman’s point of view, I would say that I never endorse such cosmetic changes. Trimming the eyebrows or lining the lips does make the face look neat at the opportune moments but such fancy trimmings are not required for our daily interactions with our...

30 Jan 12

do you think that is to much of an age gap?

kristinad @kristinad (185) • United States 1 Jan 12

my husband and i have been thing of having another child. our son is 5yrs he is going to be 6 in 3 months. i am worried that if i get prego and by the time i have a second child my son will be 7yrs old do you think that is to much...

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sudiptacallingu Yes, 7yrs is a bit on the higher side but still within limits, I feel. Don’t put it off further, though. I sincerely feel that all children should get equal attention of parents. So if there are four or five kids with ages between 10 to 2, it doesn’t make much...

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All Are Busy.......!!!!

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 29 Dec 11

Hai friends... All are busy here with their own businesses...My family members and friends, All are busy...There is no one to hear me...They are busy with new year and X mas programs.. I don't know that why they do so...I feel...

all

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sudiptacallingu It is not good to sit idle and brood over the situation when everybody else is busy doing something or the other. It cannot be that the entire family is avoiding you without reason. Make yourself useful, talk to them, participate in whatever they are doing…...

30 Dec 11

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The thought is what matters most...

micha5088 @micha5088 (554) • Malaysia 29 Dec 11

Whenever I receive gifts or presents from my friends or family members, I don't think much about 'what is it?', 'how much is the value?', 'is it bought from expensive or cheap shop?', 'is it locally made or imported goods?' and...

the thought is what matters most

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sudiptacallingu I don’t agree with this all the time. There are people who I have in very close relations who are quite well off but very stingy. They just don’t like to gift anything to anybody yet on occasions when they HAVE TO gift things as per norms they search out the...

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Is honesty always the best policy ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 29 Dec 11

Well consider this : You are far away from home and you just lost your bag with all the bus fare, bus pass and credit cards you have .And to make matters worse you had to walk about a mile to get to anywhere that looks like...

honesty

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sudiptacallingu To me, discretion is the best policy; honest or not! Life has taught me this very valuable lesson which our parents or schools don’t. If I was a man, I might have returned the money but with so many criminals everywhere and me being a woman, I would not take...

29 Dec 11

do you hate the fact that another year is almost over

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 26 Dec 11

i do hate that fact. because i have not been too happy with this year. and so hoping that next year would be not just different but totally different. but things won't change i know if i don't do something about my life. i need to...

new year

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sudiptacallingu I am glad the year is going to be over; its been quite a good year for me, even then I like to move on. No point in expecting good times to last forever; they don’t just as bad times don’t either. A new year is always a good time to sit back and take stock of...

27 Dec 11

Age and weight have caught up with me!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 26 Dec 11

Yes it has! I will be 50 next May and I am over 150 LBS overweight. I used to be able to do certain things without so much pain in my knees. I used to not Gasp for air when I do feeding at the stable I work at or going up steps. I...

age

morbid obessed

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sudiptacallingu I know just how easy it can be to go on with our normal unhealthy meals and how difficult it is to shed the flab later. However, just chant to yourself all the good things you are missing out due to your obesity. Make it your New Year resolution…all your...

27 Dec 11

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Misery loves company!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 26 Dec 11

Don't you ever noticed people you know who have miserable lives love to have misery as company? I do! I work with 4 woman who's lives are terrible and misery follows them everywhere! So they pretend their lives are perfect when it...

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sudiptacallingu It is extremely difficult to keep yourself inspired when misery is stalking your for years. As you so correctly say, misery looks for company and for some people, the bad spell just seems to go on and on. And when they see people happier than themselves all...

27 Dec 11

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Do you give books for presents?

fannitia @fannitia (2167) • Bulgaria 26 Dec 11

Years ago we had no many options for making presents. We couldn't buy fashionable stuff or high tech gadgets. And a good book or gramophone record were a precious present. Then the era of malls and boutiques has arrived, now you...

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sudiptacallingu Yes, definitely! Books will always be in vogue no matter how much people download online reading material. Though this sounds optimistic and I don’t really know whether my son’s grandkids would actually ever hold a book in their hand, but to me and many...

27 Dec 11

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Acute Power Shortage In North India In Winter 4 Hours Of Power In Day Time

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 26 Dec 11

Dear Friends Today was the day I have seen noticed acute power cuts and thats like 30 minutes of power supply accompanied by 1 and a half hour of power cut .......... I live in National Capital Region thats New Delhi ,NOrth...

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sudiptacallingu I don’t know how Anna Hazare is linked to power cuts but yes, I’ve heard horror stories of load shedding in the NCR almost throughout the year. Its quite shameful given the privileged status that a national capital should enjoy with all the best facilities in...

26 Dec 11

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Can there be a (mortal ) government that is for ALL and excludes none?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 26 Dec 11

Jamaica is currently engaging its political machinery to start elections on the 29th of this month .Needless to say that the two major political system (there is a third official party and about three other independents but that...

politics

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sudiptacallingu Being an Indian, I have first hand experience of multi-party democracy which can be cited as an example of inclusive governance but even I don’t think there is any ONE party that is all inclusive. As it is, we have seen that democracy is the best form of...

26 Dec 11

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20 year gap relationships

Sensei @early3 (60) • Philippines 26 Dec 11

I met a guy 4 years ago who's a foreigner and a business man. We became friends. One time he told me he wanted to marry me. Until now he's pursuing me to be his wife. But he is 20 years older than me. After a year of being friends...

love

relationships

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sudiptacallingu Older and wiser people will say that it is always better if the husband is older by at least 10 to 15 years from his wife. The advantages are many…physically, men stay potent for longer while women lose their desire much earlier, so a younger wife is ideal for...

26 Dec 11

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The Veteran Medical Centers of the United States..

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 23 Dec 11

I don't know about the VA centers in other areas.. but ours stinks!! Two years ago we learned that my FIL was getting sick. All we knew at that time was that his body was no longer producing its own blood and he needed blood...

death

dying

veterans medical center

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sudiptacallingu This thing of hospice is a totally new concept to me…so much so that I just looked it up in google to find out what it is all about. Tell me, for terminally ill patients, why does one choose a hospice instead of the hospital? I mean I really can’t grasp this...

26 Dec 11

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The poor should be locked up !!

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 24 Dec 11

Disclaimer : This is not my view So says my cousin .Now on first glance this might seem to be a crime second only to murder, blasphemy or ethnic cleansing .However on a deeper analysis of the issue ,it is possible my cousin...

poverty

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sudiptacallingu I don’t agree with your cousin not because I am talking of human rights here but because I feel that the poor are already taking quite a substantial amount of welfare spending without more money being spent on them at jails. Of course I’ll not blame the poor...

26 Dec 11

Have you known anyone to die on a holiday?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 24 Dec 11

My father in law might die today or tomorrow. He is getting so much worse. He's actually delirious now. Yesterday my SIL called hubby to say he needed to get over to see his father. His father thought people were poisoning...

christmas

death on a holiday

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sudiptacallingu I’m responding one day late so I don’t know whether your FIL’s still hanging on or whether he’s gone over the edge. A death on a special day means different things to different people. Some take it as a good omen if their loved ones die on a special religious...

26 Dec 11

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Are contact lenses good replacement for glasses???

apsara60 @apsara60 (6610) • Israel 25 Dec 11

Hi friends...I want to replace my glasses with contact lenses.....but I have heard that using contact lenses is not as easy as glasses and also that we cannot cook in the kitchen with contact lenses.......is this true.....can my...

glasses or contact lenses

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sudiptacallingu Hi Apsara, My advice would be both helpful and not really so! I’m using contacts for the past 20 yrs and more… (I'm blind as a bat without my lenses or thick heavy glasses) I do EVERYTHING in them, except sleep! I’ve even slept with them quite a few times,...

26 Dec 11

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Ditching Old Traditions...

Elizabeth White @Masihi (4413) • Canada 25 Dec 11

I know I may sound silly, but this year I finally got rid of old traditions that brought back memeories of my foster families growing up. Stuff like waking up in the wee hours in the morning on Christmas Day, overspending on...

candy canes

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sudiptacallingu I’m glad that you found a tradition to start in your own family, after your own liking. Each family has its own styles and preferences…maybe your foster family just liked the canes to stay that way whereas you love to hand them out so that people can be...

26 Dec 11

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