the_gadfly

@the_gadfly (25)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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God bless me!!!

spongeDingDing @spongeDingDing (109) • China 21 Jun 10

am a chinese student and after 45mins, the chinese College Entrance Examination's result will come out. am nervous now, my heart is now DongDongDong…… oh, God please please bless me. i cant do nothing but wait now. i cant describe...

college

good result

nervous

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the_gadfly I shared the same felling six years ago . It's so hard to keep cool-head right now . Therefore ,why not enjoying this time and felling ? Maybe it's the most tensional and excited time in you life ! enjoy it! At last , wish you have a perfect achivement!

22 Jun 10

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Why we have to make tough decisions all the time in life?

sutent @sutent (1060) • China 24 Mar 10

Dear friends, long time no see. In the past month, i was not active on mylot. I have to carm down myself to make good decision for myself. Currently, I work in other city than my local city. But my GF work in home city and...

life

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the_gadfly Hi Sutent . A lot of people face the same problem like you ,me too . One of my friend said to me ,before you making a significant decision (like your situation),you should know that what's the important things in your life and what are your main goals.love...

24 Mar 10

I feel i have posted everything in my all 40 discussions.

makemoneyhere @makemoneyhere (106) • India 24 Mar 10

I am now sitting in front of computer and thinking what to post. It seems like i have posted everything which i can. There is no topic remaining on which i have not posted yet. I am also surprised how you guys have reached those...

all

everything

posted

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the_gadfly Hi friend ,Look at the number beside my name ,only 17.I joined Mylot about 5 days ago.I think i have a same problem like you ,i don't know what should i post here as well .But it is not important ,is it ? When i log in ,i just watch other guys...

24 Mar 10

Getting Technical About Stupid Things

Amber @AmbiePam (93885) • United States 23 Mar 10

I have noticed I do very silly things to make sure I'm clear on things that are extremely insignificant. I have an SUV (used). So to demonstrate what I'm talking about... My dad wasn't sure last night if he wanted to drive...

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the_gadfly Your posts and these friends's comments are good stuff to learn standard English .LOL.For me ,i don't really know the difference of these words.HAHA Now ,I understand.

24 Mar 10

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Where are you living?

gooper @gooper (58) • China 23 Mar 10

I know, most of us here are young. So, we don't have too much money. I just want to know, where are you living? Rent one small room? Or living in one big house you own? I just find that, no house, no stable life. We must think...

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the_gadfly My family have a big house in the rural area.But i don't live there now .I live in student's dorm with 2 guys.I also want to have a comfortable house my own ,but it isn't far away ,is it ? LOL,waiting to work and earn lots of money !haha

23 Mar 10

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Are You one in favor of saying, I live to work, Or I work to Live?

dweebs_8000_j @dweebs_8000_j (885) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

Many say, that in order for them to Live they Work... But, I also hear People, Don't Let anyone call and say to you that you Work to Live... How about you My fellow MyLOOOOOTERS, What is your views..... I wanna hear from all...

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the_gadfly Hey my friend.Nice to see you . For me ,i work to live .Cause history and literature is my love .However ,my major is IT.C/C++ program and wirless Tech make me crazy .I think my future job will be in IT company ,It's so funny !But ,I have to .That's my life...

23 Mar 10

Help! (for guys only)...

emzymemzy @emzymemzy (89) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

I have this guy friend whom I like so much. It irritates me whenever he advices me to get married. Why is he like that? What does it mean when he suggest to me to meet other guys? Grrr... Is he blind, doesn't he no clue at all how...

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the_gadfly OMG.I responsed your last post right now. Only one question :why not marry with him ? Tell him .

22 Mar 10

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For guys only!

emzymemzy @emzymemzy (89) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

Please answer honestly. What will you do if the one you love or the girl you want to marry doesn't want to get married? How can you convince her to enter a marriage life? Thanks. Your answer might help me.

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the_gadfly Hey emzymemzy :) If i will you ,i will tell her the reason why i want to get married and ask her the real reason why she does not want to . I guess any mature girl wish to get married with her lover. If she does not have this plan now ,it must have something...

22 Mar 10

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Do u smoke in front of your parents...?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 22 Mar 10

I see many of the persons didn't feel embrassing when they smoke in front of their parents...When they smoking looks that they are doing a good things...I'm not a smoker..but if i will do in future..then obviously i will never...

parents

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the_gadfly I'm a somker too .But i have not smoke in front of them ,if so ,they will kill me (just a joke,haha).since i'm a student ,i have no economic independence now.But like someone say ,father and son are friend,when i older enough ,i will smoke with my father and...

22 Mar 10

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Smoking, how did you quit?

jesusmyjoy @jesusmyjoy (125) • United States 22 Mar 10

I'm on my fourth day of quitting smoking. Has anyone quit recently? I have smoked for 34 years and I have tried so many things..I found this class I took for free at the hospital.They evaluated me and gave me free patches and...

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the_gadfly My father has smoked almost 30 years like you .He and his friend tried manytimes to quit it .They often chews gum or melon seeds to defence the addiction of cigarette.However ,one or two of them succeed. Since of stressful physical working ,they have to rely...

22 Mar 10

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Why no one uses a mouse in the movies?

amarkovi @amarkovi (63) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 19 Mar 10

I noticed that in the movies and TV shows they very rarely use the mouse ... people are always typing something on the keyboard! I guess that typing on the keyboard makes more noise and is more dynamic than moving a mouse on...

computer

keyboard

mouse

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the_gadfly Hum,it is interesting . I think the noise and the action of hit keyboard make audiences fell strength and accomplishment.In fact, we often imagine that we are the movie's leading actor in our subconscious ,sharing their happyness ,sorrow and accomplishment ,

19 Mar 10

best song from bon jovi??

xmlukax @xmlukax (231) • Slovenia 7 Jan 10

what is your best song from bon jovi you can name anyone i realy cant decide between livin on a prayer and we werent born to folow. but you can name others like ill be there for you or its my life

best song

bon jovi

song

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the_gadfly Hello guys My list is : 1 santa fe 2 blaze of glory 3 always 4 its my life :)

18 Mar 10

Are You A Naughty Student When You Were In High School?

andryan7legends @andryan7legends (1297) • Indonesia 28 Feb 10

Yes, I'm. But, I'm not really naughty. I just naughty for fun. What about you?

high school

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the_gadfly In high school ,i was about 17 years old ,it is old enough .So my main task are learing and palying ,haha . I mean ,i'm not a troublemaker too .

18 Mar 10

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forgiveness before you die!

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 15 Mar 10

If you were to die tomorrow, do you think it's possible for you to forgive everyone who hurt you? or would you like to give forgiveness and die with hatred in your heart? what's the best thing you can give to yourself before you...

die

forgiveness

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the_gadfly One of chinese author Lu xun said that he will never forgive any enemy when he is dying .In my opinion , every one has made small or big mistakes all his /her life . If these mistakes don't about your country or culture ,etc,it can be forgiveness .However ,if...

18 Mar 10