thegolfer

@thegolfer (37)

Saudi Arabia • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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a song for someone you love

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

if you can sing well and asked to render a song for the one you love, what would it be?

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thegolfer I live alone by myself in Saudi Arabia away from my wife and daughter who are now back in the Philippines for good. We were all together for 10 years but they have since relocated years ago. Although I see them every 6 months during my vacation, the temporary...

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How much do you love your wife?

thegolfer @thegolfer (37) • Saudi Arabia 21 Jul 07

I work in the middle east and a number of my friends are involved in extra-marital affairs. When I tell them that this is cheating and a manifestation that they don't love their wives, they tell me it is not but rather just a way...

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thegolfer It's wonderful to know that in this modern age where promiscuity is prevalent, there are still wonderful people like you who choose to remain loyal to their wife. May your tribe increase!

22 Jul 07

a song for someone you love

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

if you can sing well and asked to render a song for the one you love, what would it be?

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thegolfer Beautiful in my eyes by Joshua Kardon. Yes, because she is indeed beautiful in and out!

21 Jul 07

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How much do you love your wife?

thegolfer @thegolfer (37) • Saudi Arabia 21 Jul 07

I work in the middle east and a number of my friends are involved in extra-marital affairs. When I tell them that this is cheating and a manifestation that they don't love their wives, they tell me it is not but rather just a way...

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thegolfer That's good to know.

21 Jul 07

why is it that it's more okay if men were the one to cheat?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 8 Jun 07

I've noticed that when men are the ones who cheated.. it would be just an overnight gossip about them and then it's over.. it's like they've just made a little mistake unlike when women are the ones who cheated or who accidentally...

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thegolfer My dear Kharen that is because we live in a double-standard world! Whether we accept that or not is something else, yet, it's the harsh reality.

21 Jul 07

who is best lover or wife?

raja_pro @raja_pro (923) • India 7 Dec 06

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thegolfer My wife of course! Why, because she can be my lover at the same time whileas my lover can't be my wife!!!!

21 Jul 07

What will u do if u get attracted 2wards ur neighbour's wife aftr u got married

whitish @whitish (1406) • India 23 Oct 06

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thegolfer Nothing!!!! If it is just plain simple attraction, then what's wrong? However, if it's lusting then something must be wrong. Worse is if you covet your neighbor's wife! I would assume you love your wife because you married her?

21 Jul 07

Does absence make the heart wander...or go fonder?

carol_m @carol_m (709) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

Do long distance relationships really work? I had a seaman bf and only got to talk whenever they dock on a certain port and would call me. The relationship lasted for more than 2 years until we decided to call it quits. I didn't...

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thegolfer If your love for each was built on a solid and strong foundation no amount of distance can really break you apart. My wife and I were separated for quite a long period as I work abroad (I still am) but nothing can come between us! We love each other and still...

21 Jul 07

I love you

Jessem @Jessem (372) • Mauritius 20 Jul 07

How many times do you say "i love you" a day to your partner?or when was the last time you said these beaautiful words? since how long you haven't heard any1 saying it to you? Do you yearn to hear it? Is it still in use after...

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thegolfer I say it very often not because it's a force of habit but because it comes from my heart. I never keep a tab or count on how many times I say it because the love that I feel for my wife is unfathomable and neither can it be measured. Life is too short to say...

21 Jul 07

If there were no Tiger Woods who would be your favorite golfer.?

zeloguy @zeloguy (4911) • United States 25 Jan 07

Other than Tiger Woods, who is your favorite golfer and why? There is so much talent out there today...

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thegolfer K J Choi. He has a very simple swing, no complications and more importantly a very good demeanor.

21 Jul 07

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Golf is for old people

somebodybig @somebodybig (941) 3 Jun 07

I feel Golf is for old people.what is your opinion?

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thegolfer Not true. I'm 43 and I regret not taking up this sport when I was younger :( The issue is very much debatable!

21 Jul 07

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Improving my Golf Swing

rdougl @rdougl (469) • United States 20 Jun 07

As a beginner, I've noticed that when I tee off somehow my ball drifts to the right. How can I correct this?

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thegolfer I think it is important that you see a golf pro who can, most likely, cure the problem. There are many reasons why the ball drifts to the right off the driver. It could be your stance, your swing plane (out to in or vice-versa), etc. However, you may not be...

21 Jul 07

How much do you love your wife?

thegolfer @thegolfer (37) • Saudi Arabia 21 Jul 07

I work in the middle east and a number of my friends are involved in extra-marital affairs. When I tell them that this is cheating and a manifestation that they don't love their wives, they tell me it is not but rather just a way...

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miles away love affair

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 2 Jul 07

Who could stand a miles away relationship? Can you take the consequences being apart? Share me your thoughts and opinions on long distance relationships.

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thegolfer My wife and I met in Saudi Arabia where we both work. I am still here but my wife (and my 11 year old daugther) is now back home in the Philippines to be with her ailing father. It is a big sacrifice for me to let her go knowing that she'll be far away from...

21 Jul 07