thegolfer

@thegolfer (37)

Saudi Arabia • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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a song for someone you love

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

if you can sing well and asked to render a song for the one you love, what would it be?

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thegolfer I live alone by myself in Saudi Arabia away from my wife and daughter who are now back in the Philippines for good. We were all together for 10 years but they have since relocated years ago. Although I see them every 6 months during my vacation, the temporary...

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a song for someone you love

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

if you can sing well and asked to render a song for the one you love, what would it be?

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thegolfer Beautiful in my eyes by Joshua Kardon. Yes, because she is indeed beautiful in and out!

21 Jul 07

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why is it that it's more okay if men were the one to cheat?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 8 Jun 07

I've noticed that when men are the ones who cheated.. it would be just an overnight gossip about them and then it's over.. it's like they've just made a little mistake unlike when women are the ones who cheated or who accidentally...

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thegolfer My dear Kharen that is because we live in a double-standard world! Whether we accept that or not is something else, yet, it's the harsh reality.

21 Jul 07

who is best lover or wife?

raja_pro @raja_pro (923) • India 7 Dec 06

lover

wife

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thegolfer My wife of course! Why, because she can be my lover at the same time whileas my lover can't be my wife!!!!

21 Jul 07

What will u do if u get attracted 2wards ur neighbour's wife aftr u got married

whitish @whitish (1406) • India 23 Oct 06

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thegolfer Nothing!!!! If it is just plain simple attraction, then what's wrong? However, if it's lusting then something must be wrong. Worse is if you covet your neighbor's wife! I would assume you love your wife because you married her?

21 Jul 07

Does absence make the heart wander...or go fonder?

carol_m @carol_m (709) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

Do long distance relationships really work? I had a seaman bf and only got to talk whenever they dock on a certain port and would call me. The relationship lasted for more than 2 years until we decided to call it quits. I didn't...

break up

relationship

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thegolfer If your love for each was built on a solid and strong foundation no amount of distance can really break you apart. My wife and I were separated for quite a long period as I work abroad (I still am) but nothing can come between us! We love each other and still...

21 Jul 07

I love you

Jessem @Jessem (372) • Mauritius 20 Jul 07

How many times do you say "i love you" a day to your partner?or when was the last time you said these beaautiful words? since how long you haven't heard any1 saying it to you? Do you yearn to hear it? Is it still in use after...

love

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thegolfer I say it very often not because it's a force of habit but because it comes from my heart. I never keep a tab or count on how many times I say it because the love that I feel for my wife is unfathomable and neither can it be measured. Life is too short to say...

21 Jul 07

If there were no Tiger Woods who would be your favorite golfer.?

zeloguy @zeloguy (4911) • United States 25 Jan 07

Other than Tiger Woods, who is your favorite golfer and why? There is so much talent out there today...

favorite

golf

tiger woods

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thegolfer K J Choi. He has a very simple swing, no complications and more importantly a very good demeanor.

21 Jul 07

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Golf is for old people

somebodybig @somebodybig (941) 3 Jun 07

I feel Golf is for old people.what is your opinion?

golf

old people

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thegolfer Not true. I'm 43 and I regret not taking up this sport when I was younger :( The issue is very much debatable!

21 Jul 07

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Improving my Golf Swing

rdougl @rdougl (469) • United States 20 Jun 07

As a beginner, I've noticed that when I tee off somehow my ball drifts to the right. How can I correct this?

teeing off

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thegolfer I think it is important that you see a golf pro who can, most likely, cure the problem. There are many reasons why the ball drifts to the right off the driver. It could be your stance, your swing plane (out to in or vice-versa), etc. However, you may not be...

21 Jul 07

miles away love affair

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 2 Jul 07

Who could stand a miles away relationship? Can you take the consequences being apart? Share me your thoughts and opinions on long distance relationships.

love

people

relationship

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thegolfer My wife and I met in Saudi Arabia where we both work. I am still here but my wife (and my 11 year old daugther) is now back home in the Philippines to be with her ailing father. It is a big sacrifice for me to let her go knowing that she'll be far away from...

21 Jul 07

Nikon D40x vs. Canon EOS 400D

ngsusan @ngsusan (24) • Philippines 14 Jun 07

My fiance and I were looking to buy a camera but we ended up wanting to get a different one. We can't afford two DSLR's so we're going to have to hash it out soon. I liked the Nikon D80 best, but since it was way out of our...

buying a dslr

canon eos 400d

nikon d40x

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thegolfer I am inclined to think that you are from Cebu given the setup of your mylot. If you are, I am planning to take my next vacation again this October. My family actually lives in Cebu which is my adopted home. Although that is still far from now, and, most likely...

18 Jul 07

Nikon D40x vs. Canon EOS 400D

ngsusan @ngsusan (24) • Philippines 14 Jun 07

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thegolfer Hello. I read with interest the topic that you have raised. I am an amature photographer myself and I've recently earned a correspondence diploma from the New York Institute of Photography on black and white media. Before I became a photography buff, I...

18 Jul 07

Do you believe in GHOSTS?

apaule @apaule (47) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

I'd like to here your real life ghost stories.

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thegolfer If you believe in what is written in the bible then you must believe in ghosts. In the past, when we make the sign of the cross we say In the Name of the Father, of the Son and of the Holy Ghost, Amen. Isn't this already an affirmation that indeed ghosts are...

18 Jul 07

deep depression

babygirlmd15 @babygirlmd15 (22) • United States 16 Jul 07

hi my name is nicole i am 16 and have been going through deep depression for like 3 years and was home schooled well any way i thought i was better and am going back in the fall or after the summer and i have had a relaps in my...

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thegolfer Hi Nicole. Medicines and couselling can help but it is only you can actually help yourself. I had a depression too; fearing that I would loose my job. After realizing that nothing and nobody else can help, I took it upon myself to beat my own depression. I...

16 Jul 07

Break up after 5 years. I'm having a hard time.

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 15 Jul 07

Hi there! As you have noticed I've been away from mylot for about a week and a half. Me and my boyfriend broke up. After 5 years of being together, he broke up with me last July 8. We were suppose to celebrate our 5th year...

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thegolfer Argie, breaking off with your boyfriend of almost 5 years doesn't mean the end of the world. You can find comfort that it happened now that you are not yet binded by marriage. I know it will be difficult for you to accept that things won't be the same...

16 Jul 07