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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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DE @thehazelsister Yes, I understood that. I was just saying what is "traditional" in the US. Have you tried sitting down with your father and talking about the perceived problem?

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solxee @sol_cee (38219) • Philippines 3 Mar 23

Don’t celebrate their birthday? Today is my husband’s birthday but he doesn’t want to celebrate at all. Not even a Facebook greeting, he forbids us to make. I respect his wishes but deep inside I want to do something special for...

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Anna My mother in law did not like to celebrate her birthday, she even got upset if we called to with her Happy Birthday, same the mother of one of our friend. The best is to respect their wish. This is a nice gift.

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solxee @sol_cee (38219) • Philippines 3 Mar 23

Don’t celebrate their birthday? Today is my husband’s birthday but he doesn’t want to celebrate at all. Not even a Facebook greeting, he forbids us to make. I respect his wishes but deep inside I want to do something special for...

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

For the past three weeks, I've been taking care of my younger sister who was hospitalized. I realized that I might have the talent to be a caregiver. Even though it was challenging, it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. I...

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Icydoll That's nice of you to help her and be with her looking her needs . My grandmother is on bed since a year ,she couldn't able to walk . It's not easy to handle and look after a patient. We all family members take time and shift wise look her . Sometimes we lost...

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

For the past three weeks, I've been taking care of my younger sister who was hospitalized. I realized that I might have the talent to be a caregiver. Even though it was challenging, it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. I...

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Marlina That's good

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

For the past three weeks, I've been taking care of my younger sister who was hospitalized. I realized that I might have the talent to be a caregiver. Even though it was challenging, it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. I...

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popciclecold Depends a lot on the person you are caring for. Lol

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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DE @thehazelsister I don't know the age of consent in Indonesia. In the US, the parents can't tell you what to do after you reach 18 years old, if you have a job and make enough to support yourself.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Anna @thehazelsister Often men take thing for granted and in their opinion they are never those who had to take care of things. Of course it's also a cultural thing, in some countries it's more evident than in others.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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DE @thehazelsister That's not something that usually happens in the US. After the kid reaches 18, most of them get a job, find their own place to live and move away from their parents.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Icydoll @thehazelsister oh alright.hope you can talk and deal these things soon .

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Stacey @xstitcher (32491) • Petaluma, California 4 Mar 23

It's 10:22 p.m., and past time for me to get to bed. I got a couple of things done today, anyway. Tomorrow is Saturday, and I hope to get some more things done around here. "Good night" from here, and I will "see" you...

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Anna @thehazelsister - You should, as you also work you are not the one to blame if no one specified who has to do something.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Icydoll @thehazelsister are you the only children or do you have siblings. You should talk these things openly with your father

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Arya @yoalldudes (35037) • Philippines 4 Mar 23

I got one cute bag for my daughter. She will borrow the others though LOL I got hungry so went to eat at a food corner across the street cost me less than 2 dollars. Next week hope to get some shoes. The owner said there will be...

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Judy Story The bags are really nice looking. What did you get to eat.

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Arya @yoalldudes (35037) • Philippines 4 Mar 23

I got one cute bag for my daughter. She will borrow the others though LOL I got hungry so went to eat at a food corner across the street cost me less than 2 dollars. Next week hope to get some shoes. The owner said there will be...

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Anna I would give you vintage clothes should you live closer. I am planning to donate and many of mine are almost brand new.

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Arya @yoalldudes (35037) • Philippines 4 Mar 23

I got one cute bag for my daughter. She will borrow the others though LOL I got hungry so went to eat at a food corner across the street cost me less than 2 dollars. Next week hope to get some shoes. The owner said there will be...

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Arya That is a lovely compliment. Thank you. Business will save us from the 8-5 slavery

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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rakski that is really not nice.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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DE You could offer to move out and let him pay all the bills himself. That's what happens in US households. Of course, then you'd be paying all the bills somewhere else, though.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Anna I think you have to decide who has to do what.

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Eva Russilahiba @thehazelsister (417) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Mar 23

I feel so frustrated right now. Dad is blaming me for falling behind on rent this month, even though he's working too. I'm the eldest daughter, so I guess he thinks it's my responsibility to take care of everything. But I've been...

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Icydoll Hope your father understands you . Yes I agree it's team effort

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