theproperator

@theproperator (2429)

United States • Age 49

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Calling the police to stop singing (noisy) neighbors at night. Fair or not?

gyouswe911 @gyouswe911 (273) • Philippines 26 Mar 09

Most of the time whenever a neighbor is having party and its nearest neighbor is being annoyed by it, they would call the police to tell those people to wind down. Now the police will tell the partying neighbor about their...

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theproperator And if you wanted to go steal the neighbors car, or spray paint bad words on their house? Do you have the right to do that, since it is "what you want to do"? You only have rights to the extent that they do not infringe on the rights of others. You have the...

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Would You Break the Law to See a Dying Family Member?

knowledgeocity @knowledgeocity (39) • United States 27 Mar 09

I know we all should follow traffic laws at all times, but there are times where you just have to break it. I heard on the radio yesterday that a Houston Texans football player Ryan Moats ran a red light to see his dying mother...

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theproperator This would be a very different discussion if Moats had T-boned another car while running that red light and killed someone. The fact that fate did not place a mini-van full of toddlers in that intersection is the only reason everyone is hating on the cop. I'm...

27 Mar 09

Would I be patronizing someone if I said this statement.

spiderlizard22 @spiderlizard22 (3444) • United States 27 Mar 09

"This person patronizes me. If you don't know what patronize means just ask."

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theproperator Yes, it would be patronizing.

27 Mar 09

cold

psychotaz206 @psychotaz206 (2086) • United States 26 Mar 09

i found out when my son had a cold it was good to take him outside in the cold weather that it would help him get rid of it as well as help him clear his lungs, i was shocked when the dr told me this, you don't catch a cold from...

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theproperator That is the dumbest thing I've every heard. It is true that being out in the cold is not what makes you sick, you have to come in contact with a germ or virus. However, it would have to be below freezing for an extended period to actally kill a cold virus out...

27 Mar 09

Is it rude to request no children at my wedding?

godara @godara (59) • India 24 Mar 09

On a wedding invitation there is a note -I kind of do not want children, especially under 10, at my wedding due to the fact that they make noises throughout the ceremony and there will be alcohol at the reception. Is it not rude...

no children

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theproperator It could be percieved as rude. Most people are under the impression that thier children are perfect and everyone likes having them around, so I would not be surprised if they took offence. If there are many guests who have children, it would be a good idea to...

24 Mar 09

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Are the technology and gadgets shown on CSI for real

Pitstop @pitstop (13789) • Australia 19 Mar 09

CSI really amazes me with the way they use technology, gizmos and gadgets to investigate crimes and crime scenes. Are these for real or just dramatized? Do cops and investigation teams routinely use these to find out criminals and...

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theproperator As far as I know, all of the gadgets they use on the show really do exist, but they are very expensive, so not all crime labs have all the stuff they do on the show. Most labs would be lucky to have half the stuff they use on an episode. Also, a lot of the...

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Second payout

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 21 Mar 09

I just redeemed my points for another $10.00 Wal-mart gift card from MyPoints. I already received one but I can't remember how long it took to get it. Has anyone else received gift cards from MyPoints? How long did it take to get...

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theproperator I love myPoints! I've been a member for several years. Usually, the cards come within two weeks when I redeem them, though I think the website says it can take as long as 4 or 6 weeks to receve them.

21 Mar 09

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Would you marry somebody that doesn't want to have babies?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 18 Mar 09

What if you and your spouse have been together for years and decided to get married, but one of the side didn't think he/she wants to have babies in the family and the other side want babies veyr much, would you still marry each...

babies

family

get pregnant

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theproperator I think it is certainly an issue that should be discussed before marriage. If the two don't agree, it is sure to cause problems or even divorce down the road. As for having babies being "part of the deal" of marriage, I don't agree with that. Plenty of...

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How to avoid watching tv ?

ava152007 @ava152007 (641) • India 19 Mar 09

Hi My daughter is just 11/2 year old and she want to watch tv whole day. I really worried about her and her eyes. Please sugest me how to avoid watching tv.

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theproperator Just turn it off and unplug it. If she's only 1 1/2, it's not like she is going to sneak and turn it back on when you are gone. Give her other things to do, like coloring books and toys. Take her outside to play. As she gets older, only give her a limited...

19 Mar 09

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Obama & Osama; their spellings have striking similarities!

prashantatrohini18 @prashantatrohini18 (212) • India 19 Mar 09

Although they are 2 very different individuals, yet there is a striking similarity in their names. The only difference being the two letters B & S. Amazing isn't it?

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theproperator Not really, no. Millions of people have similar names...

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Can you really open your car door using your cellphone?

zahfran @zahfran (851) • Singapore 18 Mar 09

Hi fello mylotters. I read somewhere that people have done research on this topic. It is said that you are able to open your car using your cellphone? This is great for someone who left or lost their keys. Someone who is very...

car

car keys

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theproperator The only way I know to actually open you car with a cell phone is if you have OnStar installed in your car. If you lock yourself out, you can call them and they can remotely unlock your car for you.

18 Mar 09

Animal's night vision?!

zouna5 @zouna5 (564) • Greece 12 Mar 09

Do dogs and cats see in the night without lights?I have a kitten and the night i turn on the light in the hall for him not to be afraid.Should i turn it off?

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theproperator Cats can see far better inthe dark than people can. Also, they do not have fear of the dark like humans have; no one tells them ghost stories to frighten them. :-) Your kitten will be fine without a night light.

16 Mar 09

Do you save money in the bank?

marquis @marquis (159) • Philippines 16 Mar 09

I put savings in my bank account, my bank account with my wife, and our son's bank account. I also put savings for the future like pension plans, education plans, and others just to make sure that in case of emergency I will not...

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theproperator I have my paycheck automatically deposited into my savings account each payday. I can withdraw only what I actually need when I need it, rather than be tempted to spend some right away because it is payday.

16 Mar 09

Would you leave your child unattended while you go to work?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 16 Feb 09

Would you leave your child unattended while you go to work? My friend left her 8 year old son with 103 C fever and his three year old sister with him. Her mother was going to check three hours later to see how they are doing. I...

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theproperator I don't have kids, but I can't imagine that I would ever leave a sick 8yo in charge of a 3yo for more than 10 minutes while I was no farther than the next room. I don't think I would even leave a kid that young alone in the house ever. Maybe a 10 year old is...

6 Mar 09

csi

reoko10 @reoko10 (578) • United States 5 Mar 09

So tell me if any one else here thinks that csi is good but would be better if the same people playing it before where still there. Three people left and I kinda wish they had not left, even though they did the show is still good...

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theproperator I haven't been watching it as much since, lately. Since Grissom left, I've probably only seen 1 or 2 episodes. The episodes themselves seem to be quite good, though. I will probably watch more once I am not so busy at work, too.

6 Mar 09

Is She Really My Cousin Or Not?

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 20 Dec 08

While I was doing my family tree on http://www.Ancestry.com, I came across a woman who had a most of the family members on my mother's side on her tree, so I contacted her and told her who I was and she e-mailed me back and said...

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theproperator I believe you would technically be called "third cousins" since you share a set of great-great grandparents in common. So, yeah, calling her cousin is completly legitimate. Legally, though, she would not be considered immediate family, I suppose. Also, a lot...

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Married to Your First Cousin?

Aurone @Aurone (4755) • United States 5 Mar 09

Would you feel okay about marrying your first cousin? I know its illegal in some states in the US but its not in others. There is actually no scientific data that backs up laws against marrying your first cousin. There is a slight...

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theproperator I saw my first cousins several weeks every year when I was growing up, they are the closest thing I have to brothers and sisters (I'm an only child), so I can't even imagine thinking about my male cousins in a romantic way. I do think it is a bad idea for...

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Do you like to wear belt?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 5 Mar 09

Hi mylot-ers... do you like to wear belt? Is it the part of your daily style? Or you need it because you lost your weight and your favorite pants getting bigger? Or its just because you always to wear it? Or its maybe because of...

belt

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theproperator I hate wearing belts, but I often have to wear one with my work pants as I don't have enough butt to hold them up when they are loaded down with keys, radio, wallet, etc. My favorite belt, that I wear almost all the time, is a blue one that has are really flat...

5 Mar 09