jason hargrove

@tomford (135)

Richmond, Virginia

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never talk religion or politics or how i learned to stop worrying and love the insanity

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 13 Aug 16

If you dont want to know how crazy your friends are dont talk religion or politics. i try to be fair i dont consider myself a fanatic, im somewhat spiritual not too much. im somewhat liberal but i can appreciate some ideas from...

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bad girls

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 28 Jul 16

why do we love bad girls, i had my heart broken by one then started up with another. this time she was really upfront how she needed a lot of attention and may get it from other guys as well. i took the chance and now i feel her...

how do you explain racism and sexism?

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 28 Jun 16

it seems anytime someone is offended by something there is a uproar over why something is or isn't offensive. people act like we just hit a reset button and all racism and sexist attitudes were erased from hearts and minds. Two...

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relationship deal breakers

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 7 Jun 16

how bad does sex with your partner have to be to end a relationship and on the other side how good does sex have to be to overlook bad behavior in a relationship. is love more important than sex or vice versa

relationships

sex

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how do you forgive

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 30 May 16

how do you let go of anger, my brother is a loud mouth and i frequently get mad at him. sometimes for weeks on end i try not to talk to him, how do you let go of anger? he is not going to change the way he is and it seems to get...

anger

family

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optimism

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 29 May 16

how can you assure someone things will work out when tragedy strikes when it never does or has for someone...in my experience things dont work out you just pick up the pieces and keep going. not out of courage or conviction but...

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you are very pretty

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 11 Apr 16

every lady or guy thinks they are ugly some days but attraction is subjective, meaning someone out there thinks you are pretty or handsome. so...I think you are very pretty..YES YOU reading this post p.s. there was a member I...

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who is the oldest person you have known just online

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 9 Apr 16

today I got a email from someone I met online, my first online friend back in like 2000 remember y2k scaring everyone? how long have you known your oldest online friend

online friends

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who makes a prefab cat house?

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 7 Apr 16

I have a stray cat that I care for and during the winter or bad weather I wanted to make her a house to sleep in. well twice the house I made fell apart. one was a card board box and it got wet and deteriorated the next was a...

cathouse

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what happened to

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 5 Apr 16

I just saw a picture of a payphone and realized they have all but disappeared from everywhere. I think prepaid cellphones have helped make phones more affordable now payphones aren't needed as much. other things I noticed have...

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what do you consider a movie comedy

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 5 Apr 16

I was trying to think of my favorite comedies and I realized some of them were like dramas with some comedy in them or action films not a true complete comedy. ghostbusters has action in it but comedic moments so is it a true...

comedy

movies

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no homeland

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 1 Mar 16

when it comes to black Americans we really don't have a homeland to claim. when I say homeland I mean someway to trace our family lineage to a specific place. every other group in the states can pinpoint the exact country since...

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why do we let madison avenue tell us what we should look like

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 7 Feb 16

when you go to the grocery store, to church or to the mall everyone looks basically the same....not like a model. so why is it we see commercials or ads highlighting perfection that only a minority of people have. you only fit...

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what do you love?

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 22 Jan 16

those of you that are married or have a girlfriend or boyfriend can you write down 5 things you love about your significant other? i know we are attracted by looks at first but after we love someone when we get to know them...

love

relationships

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Racism the wall not a tower

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 22 Jan 16

I was inspired by Barack Obama and it showed me two things when he won. the first thing is Racism is alive and well with America being more racist after his victory with the thinking that everything was set to "even" since he won...

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do we need a modern religion

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 11 Dec 15

do we need a more up to date religion. we don't still use the ideas of ancient man on a lot of things like science and geography even math has been improved a little. only religion is taken as the same from people that didn't know...

religion

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can you remember all your website passwords

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 11 Nov 15

I am a member of many sites, I've joined a lot over the years of coming online. I'm a member of so many sites I cant remember all the sites and passwords so I write them down. I have a folder of the websites and passwords to them...

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Are you offended by racist,homophobic or sexist comments if its not about your particular "group"

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 10 Nov 15

Are you offended by racist comments or homophobic comments or sexist comments or do you not care if its not about your particular "group" I came across some offensive content online doing a task, insensitive definitely,...

racism

n word

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are you caring for a aging parent

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 1 Nov 15

are you caring for a aging parent or know someone who does? I never gave thought to my parents getting older they were my protectors and lifeline as I was growing up. now that im a adult they are getting older and need care or a...

parents

aging

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if someone that liked you a lot seems to have lost interest should you move on

jason hargrove @tomford (135) • Richmond, Virginia 29 Oct 15

if a girl you liked or a guy you liked seems to only have maybe 5 minutes to talk and after talks no more even if they are available should you move on from the once exciting relationship or just readjust your thinking to not...

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2 people