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vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths yes, infidelity is the reason for most breakups worldwide. With God's grace we can get over these problems. Real faith can do wonders.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths yes skyandgrassplot, ego will ruin not only relationships but also friends, career and many more.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths I can't agree more airasheila. as you rightly pointed out, partners should put some limits on their pride or ego. Also trying to reprogram some things in life could lead to achievement.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths as you rightly pointed out, ego does play a huge role in many break ups. I agree with you that when there is real love, trust and understanding, other things will fall into place.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths Abuse in any form physical or verbal needn't be tolerated. Again it all depends on individuals. Abuse and dis respect would lead to end of relationships.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths You think women will never learn how to control such talk? Happy new year Vanny.

29 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths Both men and women carry ego I think. Men used to carry ego much more than women a few decades ago. Now both men and women seem to have ego equally. That's why there are more breakups now.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths yes, it will help men greatly, thanks Vandi.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths Vandi, you must be in Harward as a professor in psychology. I fully agree with you that people most often identify their hurt and also have their desires, desires and more desires....endless desires. unreasonable desires too. In particular women are never...

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths dear sister Jo, most commonly people are keen on saving their ego rather than saving the relationship. I agree with you that there are other reason too for relationships fail. As you said, it may seem unreasonable to others but who are we to judge. True.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths I do appreciate your relationships. Good going. That's the way a relationship to be, that's what I think. Sure, economic problems cause troubles in relationships. If your relationship is strong, nothing can affect it at all.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths I agree with you that economic issues also cause break up in relationships. Infidelity also causes break ups worldwide. However, ego also plays a big role in many break ups.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 27 Jan 13

There is a huge increase in breaking up of love relationships worldwide. There could be several reasons such as infidelity, not showing enough love, not caring enough, economic issues, not accepting the shortcomings of the...

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vijayanths very true. As you said, petty fights turn into big ones because of this ego. Male ego is most commonly seen all over the world. Women are also carrying it equally in this modern world. Not good at all.

28 Jan 13

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Oct 12

How do most people choose their life partners? When they find someone smart, they get attracted to them and choose them. Smart person is intelligent and knows how to live successfully in this materialistic world. [b]Smart...

will you choose a good spouse or a smart spouse

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vijayanths oh, that's better for the man.

9 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Oct 12

How do most people choose their life partners? When they find someone smart, they get attracted to them and choose them. Smart person is intelligent and knows how to live successfully in this materialistic world. [b]Smart...

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vijayanths very well said rs1982. Respect, love and care are all a must in a relationship, I think. As you rightly pointed out he/she shouldn't listen to third party gossips and advice.

9 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Oct 12

How do most people choose their life partners? When they find someone smart, they get attracted to them and choose them. Smart person is intelligent and knows how to live successfully in this materialistic world. [b]Smart...

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vijayanths Hi, Vandi, looks like ugly, dumb men will score over smart men. That's the reason I don't get any offers at all. I am happy to learn I 'm smart but at the same time it sucks.. Vandy, please do not compete with men in cheating... Not good for the society....

9 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Oct 12

How do most people choose their life partners? When they find someone smart, they get attracted to them and choose them. Smart person is intelligent and knows how to live successfully in this materialistic world. [b]Smart...

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vijayanths You are absolutely right 41CombedaleRoad . I also think smart man and good woman combination will a hit. I also agree with you that a person who is materialistically smart is not necessarily good at relationships.

9 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Oct 12

How do most people choose their life partners? When they find someone smart, they get attracted to them and choose them. Smart person is intelligent and knows how to live successfully in this materialistic world. [b]Smart...

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vijayanths hi, GemmaR, you made good points. I fully agree your words ' I would much prefer a partner who was good for me, because this means that I would be happy.' Very well said.

9 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 7 Oct 12

In romantic relationship, everyone expects a lot from the partner. Some of them may be love, care, money, physical pleasures, fidelity, family oriented attitude etc.. So, what are your top expectations from your romantic...

what you expect from your romantic partner

what you want from your spouse

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vijayanths hi, Jai dear, very true jai. If your partner loves you truly, he will give you all you want without you having to ask for them. Hi, man where are you? My sister is waiting for you...

8 Oct 12

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 7 Oct 12

In romantic relationship, everyone expects a lot from the partner. Some of them may be love, care, money, physical pleasures, fidelity, family oriented attitude etc.. So, what are your top expectations from your romantic...

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vijayanths well said GemmaR. It's important to feel safe and peaceful when you are with your partner as you rightly pointed out. Trust, love and care are the things we all long for.

8 Oct 12

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