vijayanths

@vijayanths (7877)

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vijayanths liked this • 8 Oct 12

Fear is the key..

vanny @vandana7 (100517) • India 8 Oct 12

When I was young (that was ages ago), we had more war movies ..World War II, James Bond moviesand some musicals. I feared snakes back then. Though a snake never bit me, or anybody known to me. I was told they are dangerous. Books...

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vijayanths liked this • 26 Feb 12

Statutory warning..I am sensitive..

vanny @vandana7 (100517) • India 25 Feb 12

So ... is it good or bad? I think it is good to an extent. I know how to avoid hurting others. But on the otherside, I can also inflict unbearable pain with simple words - a pain that lasts for lifetime and leaves me with equal...

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vijayanths liked this • 21 Jul 10

Explanation about discussion violated guidelines by the admin

de_toya @de_toya (2429) • Indonesia 21 Jul 10

I think mylot should change the form of guidelines. It will be better if the guidelines contain number. If someone start discussions violated guidelines mylot admin who deleted the discussion should write the number of rule has...

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vijayanths liked this • 8 Jul 10

Astrology, is it a science? or an art?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Jul 10

Some people say astrology is a pure science while some say it's an art. Do you beleive in astrology? Many famous people have faith in astrology. Some consider it as crap and a superstition. What about Numerology, Fengshui,...

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shravandone totally a science. i have complete faith in astrology. be it astrology or medical science, it depends on the professionals in that field.if a doctor fails to diagnose a disease properly, its fault of doctor.its foolish to say that medical science itself is a...

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vijayanths liked this • 13 Jun 10

I wish my eyes filled with tears

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 13 Jun 10

I long to see the hand that rushes to wipe off the tears. We recognize the true relationships only when we are facing serious problems in life, We learn more from our bad part of our lives than good perhaps.

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vathsala what about me vijayanths? I want to know whether you help me or not and whether i deserve your help? just curious.

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vijayanths liked this • 31 May 10

What is the use of the operation being successful if the patient dies

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 23 May 10

We come across such incidents where the doctors claim that the surgery is successful despite the fact the patient dies.. Similarly what is the use of the love being successful if their marriage fails? Just...

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kalav56 And Vijayanth! As you ahd rightly said what is the use if the surgeon is going to perform a successful surgery if the patient dies? He is not doing some craft work here that shows his proficiency.The proof of the pudding is in the eating of it. If the loved...

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vijayanths liked this • 26 Jan 10

What do you want your children to become?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 17 Dec 09

Do you want to your children to become an engineer? a doctor? a scientist? An industrialist? a sports champion? a lawyer? big business man? We all want our children to become one of these things... Do we want them to be a...

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sahilpadhiyar20 Absolutely Right Vijayanths,I Do Agree with you! Nowadays Parents have presurrized childrens to Become something Big like Engineers,Doctors and Forgot to ask what their Child Actually want to Be. I want to become a Crickter and I am very good in it Too but...

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vijayanths liked this • 26 Jan 10

What do you want your children to become?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 17 Dec 09

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vanny You are welcome to advise as well vijayanths. :) Personally, I am ok with old age home. I would feel more comfortable there rather than being an intruder in somebody else's life. :) I'd have been like that even with my own kids, so it is a kind of emergency...

26 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 25 Jan 10

Have you met mylot friends in person?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 25 Jan 10

Unfortunately I have not got the opportunity to meet any of my mylot friends yet. But I do wish to meet at least some of them... I hope I will meet them in the coming days.

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vanny Ah vijayanths! You want to meet me? he he. Let me know when you want to meet me. I will go to gym for an year and pull down a bit, and then we can meet. he he. I am a fatso. :)

25 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 24 Jan 10

Do you compare your children with other children?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 22 Jan 10

Many parents commit the mistake comparing their children with other children. The children would lose their self confidence due to this. Their performance would still go down in future. Similarly some people compare their...

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Fulltank Yes, I do it every now and then. But I do it just to show the difference between good and bad. For example, when talking of how important education is to my children, I compare them to the street children who are asking for alms to pedestrians, commuters and...

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vijayanths liked this • 24 Jan 10

Where do negative thoughts come from?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 24 Jan 10

You are aware that thoughts are very powerful. Where do these negative thoughts such as depression, anger, fear, disgust come from? They all come from our minds. If some one says,"its so boring" or "I feel bad" or "mood out"...

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vanny Genes, yes, to an extent. And environment to greater extent. :) Environment = society and it includes family, isn't it? That is what I meant. Support of friends and family is a must. If we are wrong, we should also accept that we've been wrong, and try to...

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vijayanths liked this • 20 Jan 10

What is life anyway?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 19 Jan 10

How do you define life? Life means joy for some: Its a gift to some. Is it blessing? bliss? happiness? love? dream? endless challenges? struggles? Fear? What is life anyway according to you? To me Life is a continuous...

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Patsie Hatley vijayanths hi to me also life is that continuous journey from birth to heaven with all sorts of good things and bad too to make us appreciate the good so much more. To look at each day as a gift from God is to make ourselves happy even in rather unhappy...

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vijayanths liked this • 17 Jan 10

Past, Present and Future- Can you share your views on these 3 periods?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 17 Jan 10

Well, here are my views to get started: Past: There is no use in brooding over the past-whatever you had lost is lost and will never come back. Does it mean we should never think of the past? We can think of our mistakes...

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vanny Need you ask? :)

17 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 17 Jan 10

Past, Present and Future- Can you share your views on these 3 periods?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 17 Jan 10

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vanny Easier said than done vijayanths. :) Who doesn't know that there is no point in crying over spilt milk? Who doesn't get lessons from past mistakes? And who doesn't know that future is uncertain? But nevertheless, we keep ourselves entangled in these three. I...

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vijayanths liked this • 15 Jan 10

Why is a married life/relationship not fulfilling for many people?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 15 Jan 10

We see many couples take off the married life/relationship so well but land very miserably. Why? Both the man and woman expects a lot from the other. In other words they want many things from the other. It is a long list...

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buchi_bulla On the book we read Married life is giving and taking, adjusting, giving way to each other, try to understand each other and changing ourselves as per the spouse's interests. Everything is rosy as long as it is there on the pages of the book. To some extent...

15 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 15 Jan 10

Why is a married life/relationship not fulfilling for many people?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 15 Jan 10

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kalav56 Marriage is a big gamble moreso in modern times.Ultimately God should shower His grace on a couple to make their married life a fulfilled one.This fulfilment is not dependent on material pleasures alone[though basic needs when not met would lead to troubles...

15 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 15 Jan 10

Why is a married life/relationship not fulfilling for many people?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 15 Jan 10

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jakie18 Yes it's a fact that there are lots of broken marriages all over the world.It's so depressing that the children were the once being affected by this act. It's so hard to judge and to preach those couple but I'm hoping for a lesser events to happen.Some say...

15 Jan 10

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vijayanths liked this • 15 Jan 10

Yoga vs physical exercises, Which is better for your health

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 15 Jan 10

Exercise is good for health. There are some tough physical exercises like weight lifting on one hand. On another hand you have soft yoga. You can't underestimate the uses of Yoga. It is so effective. Yoga and meditation can give...

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vanny I have to agree with you vijayanths. Excercises such as weight lifting are designed for specific muscles. We have many internal muscles as well, which we may not be exercising. But yoga and meditation attempt to exercise them as well. And there is something...

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vijayanths liked this • 14 Jan 10

Do you miss seeing the bigger gifts of life?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 14 Jan 10

Do you miss seeing positive side of your life? Let me go a little deep into the topic. Some people have reasonably good health and wealth and yet they constantly complain a lot about the things that they don't have at present....

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vathsala Hi What you say is correct. My policy is I always see the people who are in the lower rank than me and not in the upper rank. I think instead of looking at the sky and repent for not fortunate enough to travel by plane like those who are travelling in it, it...

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