xcammiex

@xcammiex (272)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I need lot's of help and ideas. Please!!

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 20 Oct 09

Hi there. I was just hoping you guys could give me ideas on how I can make extra money. I just found out that I'm pregnant, and I do have a day job in car sales, but I'd like to make at least 100 extra dollars a month so that I...

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xcammiex Thanks so much. You have a very helpful blog!

21 Oct 09

Am I pretty enough to be a model?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 27 Feb 09

I want to know if I'm pretty enough to be a model. My friends say yes, but sometimes I think they are just saying that to be nice. Please give me honest answers because I don't want to waste my time getting in "model" shape if I'm...

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xcammiex I put a link to my picture. I'm tall enough and I can get into model shape if need be, but I just want to know if my face is pretty enough. Thanks.

27 Feb 09

Do you think 105 pounds is too skinny for my height?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 24 Feb 09

So, I'm on a low calorie diet (1200 calories a day) and I exercise 3 times a week (I work with dogs so I am standing/walking/lifting/playing 8 hours a day 3 - 4 days a week, which is why I only do extra exercise on my day off)....

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xcammiex Yeah, I hate scales. I feel scale obsessed some times. I usually weigh myself everyday. I should try only once a week. And yep, I'm taking a vitamin daily and I drink 2.5 liters of water a day. Thanks.

24 Feb 09

Do you think 105 pounds is too skinny for my height?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 24 Feb 09

So, I'm on a low calorie diet (1200 calories a day) and I exercise 3 times a week (I work with dogs so I am standing/walking/lifting/playing 8 hours a day 3 - 4 days a week, which is why I only do extra exercise on my day off)....

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xcammiex Oooh, I didn't know that. I checked my fingers and they really overlap so I guess I'm a small frame. Can you tell me if this a good thing to be eating? This is my typical day. Breakfast: Egg white omelet with mushrooms, and bell peppers. sprinkled...

24 Feb 09

Do you think 105 pounds is too skinny for my height?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 24 Feb 09

So, I'm on a low calorie diet (1200 calories a day) and I exercise 3 times a week (I work with dogs so I am standing/walking/lifting/playing 8 hours a day 3 - 4 days a week, which is why I only do extra exercise on my day off)....

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xcammiex I'm currently 156 pounds (as of this morning) and and my BMI is 24.43. I'm technically in the normal weight, but I still feel very fat. That's a good idea though. If you're a 0 at 120 and you're 5'1, then I'd probably be way too skinny. I want to be a size 2...

24 Feb 09

I think many ladies regret having an abortion

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 10 Jan 09

If a lady has an unwanted pregnancy she might feel scared and worried about how she would cope with having a baby. She might consider having an abortion but I think that it would be better if she thought about adopting her baby....

do the right thing

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xcammiex I very much agree with everything you said. =)

8 Feb 09

I think many ladies regret having an abortion

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 10 Jan 09

If a lady has an unwanted pregnancy she might feel scared and worried about how she would cope with having a baby. She might consider having an abortion but I think that it would be better if she thought about adopting her baby....

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xcammiex Actually, more women regret giving their children up for adoption that having an abortion.

8 Feb 09

I think many ladies regret having an abortion

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 10 Jan 09

If a lady has an unwanted pregnancy she might feel scared and worried about how she would cope with having a baby. She might consider having an abortion but I think that it would be better if she thought about adopting her baby....

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xcammiex Just wanted to add something. Statistically speaking, more women regret giving their children up for adoption as opposed to having an abortion.

8 Feb 09

Looking for Get paid to sites, I'll join as ref

Ainokea @Ainokea (162) • United States 8 Jan 09

I'm looking for new sites to join that are legit and have low payouts as possible. PTC, surveys, whatever the site is. But no fee to join and you have been paid by them. Please post and i'll check out the sites in your profiles....

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xcammiex Lol. I just remembered the link is on my profile. It's 100% free to sign up and there are offers and surveys. I recommend getting a new email address just for this site so you don't have to deal with spam and you'll be all set. =) If you decide to sign up...

8 Jan 09

What will Adoptive Parents who fight First/Natural/Birth parents for custody....

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

tell the child when he or she gets older. How do you explain to a child that their first family wanted to raise them, but you fought them for custody because you really wanted a child? Do you think this would have a traumatizing...

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xcammiex I would agree with you in a case of a child removed from the mother's care. I was referring more to infant adoption. If a mother was tricked/pressured/forced/etc into giving up her newborn baby and realized it and fought to revoke consent and get custody back...

8 Jan 09

What will Adoptive Parents who fight First/Natural/Birth parents for custody....

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

tell the child when he or she gets older. How do you explain to a child that their first family wanted to raise them, but you fought them for custody because you really wanted a child? Do you think this would have a traumatizing...

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xcammiex Thank you for your viewpoint. I agree that the child's need comes first. That being said, I've spoken to a lot of adoptees both online and IRL, and they've always told me that while they would be furious at their adoptive parents, they would feel better in...

8 Jan 09

What will Adoptive Parents who fight First/Natural/Birth parents for custody....

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

tell the child when he or she gets older. How do you explain to a child that their first family wanted to raise them, but you fought them for custody because you really wanted a child? Do you think this would have a traumatizing...

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xcammiex BethsMom - I was talking more about infant adoption and women who "voluntarily" sign away their rights because they were coerced, defrauded, etc. And I agree with you, Shar. Thank you for realizing and acknowledging that.

8 Jan 09

If you can't have your own biological child, are you open with adoption?

nimnim74 @nimnim74 (250) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

It took us so long to decide for an adoption, We already tried everything just to have our own child but it's been 7 years already but still we failed, so just recently we decided to adopt, we are in the process of having one and...

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xcammiex Are you serious?! Wow, this whole post makes me sick. Children need to know their parents. Just because there are adoptive parents around does not mean that the first parents are unimportant. And the girl getting pregnant and eloping is not an adoptee issue....

26 Nov 08

How come people only see the "good side" to adoption?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

I've seen so many people say they think adoption is great because people are giving a home to an unwanted child? How come no one seems to know about or acknowledge that to gain a family, the child has to lose one first? Or that...

adoption agencies

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xcammiex I suppose that makes sense. I think usually only the good part of it is shown to the public. Do you think if adoptees and first mothers (not mothers that have been abusive, neglectful, etc) told people about the other side of adoption, people would listen?

26 Oct 08

How come people only see the "good side" to adoption?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

I've seen so many people say they think adoption is great because people are giving a home to an unwanted child? How come no one seems to know about or acknowledge that to gain a family, the child has to lose one first? Or that...

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xcammiex I completely agree with you that children that are abusive, neglectful, on drugs and not willing to quit, etc need to have their children removed for the safety and well-being of the children. I'm talking more about infant adoption, where an expectant...

26 Oct 08

How come people only see the "good side" to adoption?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

I've seen so many people say they think adoption is great because people are giving a home to an unwanted child? How come no one seems to know about or acknowledge that to gain a family, the child has to lose one first? Or that...

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xcammiex I think I'd hurt the adoptive parents and that's about it. I can give my son education, travel, a home in a safe environment, medical care, food, clothing, etc also, without the issues he might otherwise face as an adoptee. I'm also curious as to what his...

26 Oct 08

How come people only see the "good side" to adoption?

xcammiex @xcammiex (272) • United States 26 Oct 08

I've seen so many people say they think adoption is great because people are giving a home to an unwanted child? How come no one seems to know about or acknowledge that to gain a family, the child has to lose one first? Or that...

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xcammiex I just want to correct you, if you don't mind. Children are not "thrown away" by their mothers. Speaking as a mother who was lied to and pressured until she signed consent forms, I love my son more than anything in the world and want him desperately, and am...

26 Oct 08