xiaolonggao

@xiaolonggao (17)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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How Do You Overcome Shyness?

babyeve @babyeve (1048) • Seychelles 26 Feb 13

Most people who tend to be shy are those who have had bad experiences or lack self esteem. This can be due from being talked down to, a bad experience with a stranger, or harshly punished as a child. Other people have been shy...

shy

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xiaolonggao To overcome shyness, first of all, I think one should make himself/herself becoming very willing talk,and also continue to communicate with people! Keep learning can let one have confidence and topic with the others.To take part in some public activities also...

26 Feb 13

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mylot: one of the best sites to socialize

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 26 Feb 13

I appreciate so much of how the makers of mylot came to think of this kind of system. This is a site to socialize with lots of people, a good venue to share our wonderful minds, and a place to gain lots of friends. I am happy to...

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xiaolonggao I have the same feeling with you! I also like the community! But every day I have a lot of things to do, and only a few time in here.Next month I will to participate a test, and the next time need to review. Here I can learn about different countries culture...

26 Feb 13

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I guess, its time to reward myself.....

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 25 Feb 13

Good day Fellow Mylotters, For the past few weeks, I am really working double time to hit my target earnings. And since I was able to hit the half of it, so I am thinking to reward myself at least. Well, to recompense the...

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xiaolonggao I think you are a very self-motivated person!and also a very self adjusting people! Long time of work would make people feel tired,it is harmful to health,temporary rest is necessary!Giving yourself a small gift or eating some favorite food or listenning to...

26 Feb 13

do you flush the toilet with your foot?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 25 Feb 13

You might find this weird but I do that in public restrooms. I do not sit on the bowl seat, you know just half-squat when I pee, and when I'm done, I flush it using my foot to touch the flusher. Weird, right? But I am...

toilet

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xiaolonggao I think the flush button of the public toilet should set at a place slightly higher than the floor.Most people dont willing to touch something using their hand in the toilet,I had met someone do that like you do,then I do that sometimes.But most of the time, I...

26 Feb 13

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My bother talk to me again

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 31 Jan 13

He is ain't heavy, he is my brother. Though we did not talk for the last few years, today he did talked to me. He said someone will come to install the wifi modem for internet using, and he said he will pay for the...

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xiaolonggao Congratulation!you have a good young brother!you are a kind girl too.He has been to help you,you can also help him in life.I don't understand why you haven't talk for few years,I guess you may have been very concerned about each other.Have such a brother is a...

31 Jan 13

Juggling Two Jobs

YoghurtGal @flapiz (23152) • United Kingdom 23 Jan 13

I am currently employed in two jobs. One as a nurse and the other as a research assistant. I never wanted this setup. I feel like I am doing too much and I lack time to relax but I have no choice as my research job pays me well so...

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xiaolonggao I admire your fighting spirit greatly! As far as I am concerned,I am too busy to relax myself just for only one job. But I also don't want to give up easily because a job is hard to obtain nowadays.The job is only for living for me.I think we should put health...

24 Jan 13

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How to train a newly hire?

deine86 @deine86 (115) • Philippines 16 Jan 13

First I have no idea in training newly hire, because I don't have any experience in managing people. But just this morning my boss hired a new employee and ask me to train her. My boss wants me to teach her everything about the...

new job

office work

training new employee

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xiaolonggao In my opinoin,you can arrange some tasks for the new employees according to the needs of the work.Getting progresses usually through practices.First of all,you need to prepare a training plan. you can arrange her simple work at the start and guide her when she...

17 Jan 13

Making money through ecommerce website

micha5088 @micha5088 (554) • Malaysia 8 Jan 13

Hello, I have been busy lately. I set up a new ecommerce website and I am going to sell a lot of new things in my store. There's a lot of work that need to be done. It is actually not easy. Although the capital to start an online...

ecommerce website

online and offline

online store

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xiaolonggao Electronic ecommerce is very popular in this day and age, but it is not easy to do well because of the fierce competition. you should make great efforts. Although an online store start operating is free, it is also requires a lot of time and energy to manage....

9 Jan 13

How to Chew Food Properly?

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 7 Jan 13

I never knew there was a HOW TO for chewing food. http://www.wikihow.com/Chew-Food-Properly I was quite surprised that how i eat was actually the proper way.. chewing food thoroughly until it loses its texture....

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xiaolonggao I think that it is thoroughly a good way to chew food! but I often can not do like that or do not so good. There do have a great advantages in that way,but I can't have enought time to chew slowly usually on the account of busy work,sometimes I also haven't a...

8 Jan 13

I got a REAL writing job--woohoo!

Suzieqmom @Suzieqmom (2755) • United States 6 Jan 13

I have been writing on mylot, triond, helium and other sites for over a year now, and am working on a travel book (as yet unpublished). Although I really enjoy online writing, it doesn't really pay all that much...but online...

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xiaolonggao First of all congratulation to you! I have been in here for not a long time, When I found the mylot I like it every much. Owing to English is not my mother tongue,here I can learn english, meanwhile make many friends from all over the world.I also like online...

7 Jan 13

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Do you think Job is better than Business...???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 5 Jan 13

hi to all well, we are Business peoples & I'm the one also, Now a Days I'm confused what to do??? My father have small business but needs very hard work to rise & shine this business in other hand I also have some job offer???...

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xiaolonggao In my personal opinion, before making the decision shoud taken an overall consideration,including your interest, physical condition, character extroverted or introverted,family care needs,the level of knowledge about business,prospect of job. I also get a...

6 Jan 13

new job

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 4 Jan 13

I am so excited. I found a JOB! It's part time, and PRN (as needed). Promises to ease me into full time asap. Great pay too. I'm working once again as a medication technician in a nursing home. I work evenings in the behavioral...

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xiaolonggao Congratulation to you!I'm feel finding a favorite job is not easy.I am not very satisfied with current post because the income is very lower than other people, and I feel tired everyday,and also often being in state of anxiety.But I have been engaged in this...

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are you still working even at home?

jobfindonline @jobfindonline (1744) 2 Jan 13

the ideal is to rest when we get home but when urgent things are needed, whether we like it or not, we are working at home or our mind is still occupied by our work.. I feel so stressed and so I tried to read a few pages. I...

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xiaolonggao Came back from work ,I usually not willing to do things related work.I often wacthing TV, or playing online, sometimes I do physical exercise,I also like eating some snacks.I think that working is endless,thinking too much will make you become very agitatedly...

3 Jan 13

How to say NO!

wishjui @wishjui (271) • India 2 Jan 13

When it comes to your friends and people we deal regularly to say 'NO' or refuse some of their demands.It becomes difficult and almost impossible to say no but it cause lot of discomfort to us to go with the demand which I don't...

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xiaolonggao I also often meet such things like this. For instance,in company, persons make more efforts usually obtain less payment,and when the boss ask :'do you agree the bonus allocation?', sometimes you can't say 'NO', because even if say 'NO',it is also...

3 Jan 13

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I think we got the job!

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 29 Dec 12

The guy emailed me back last night to go in this morning for training at 4am. I didn't get the message until this morning, because it went to my junk email, instead of my inbox (so it didnt go to my Blackberry). He will train...

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xiaolonggao I am really agree with your opinion: health is most important. With the growing age, more and more I feel I can not have enough energy to work continuously. Unfortunately, I have suffered miscarriages several times due to the busy and tired work, then I felt...

1 Jan 13

Languages I speak and would like to learn

ivan88 @ivan88 (193) • Canada 28 Dec 12

Ever since I was a kid, I have been able to "absorb" multiple phrases in various ways. Since Grade 1, I have started learning Russian, Ukrainian and English in my elementary school. In Grade 5, German became my linguistic...

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xiaolonggao I also like learning languages.I remembering that I ofen do English morning reading loudly in campus's garden when I was in college several years ago,usualy only more than half an hour before classes,and review the content of study of the right day.I have...

29 Dec 12