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xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 19 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read many books about philosopy,they all talk about death.sudeenly,i realized that i would die one day.i cant accept it,i am afraid of it.then i think,now that we are doomed to die,then what is the...

life meaning

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xiaozuo hi bird123!thx for your response first.i feel better now after read your comment.i read a story today,it says people can make pills that can ensure a forever living for everybody in the future.but finally,people vote to burn all the pills,cuz without death...

21 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 19 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read many books about philosopy,they all talk about death.sudeenly,i realized that i would die one day.i cant accept it,i am afraid of it.then i think,now that we are doomed to die,then what is the...

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xiaozuo may be i need to tranafer attention to other things.do you think so?can you give me some advice?thx

19 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 19 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read many books about philosopy,they all talk about death.sudeenly,i realized that i would die one day.i cant accept it,i am afraid of it.then i think,now that we are doomed to die,then what is the...

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xiaozuo thx,Apple3cranberry!now i dont want read the books about this topic.i just want to come back to the state before i read these.i want to live a simple live.but the fear is always haunting me.can you help me?thx!!!!!!!!

19 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 19 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read many books about philosopy,they all talk about death.sudeenly,i realized that i would die one day.i cant accept it,i am afraid of it.then i think,now that we are doomed to die,then what is the...

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xiaozuo my problem is this fear is always haunting me,i didnt think about it before,so i can not feel the fear,but now i feel sad.can you tell me how can i feel better?thx

19 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 10 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read a book which is written by a philosopher,who said money may be treated as a necessity for foundmental livig but our life would be corrupted by luxury things.he pointed that the most confortable...

life money leisure choose

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xiaozuo hi starsailover!maybe we are in the same situation.here in China,our culture is also motivated by the life of making money.when we were young we were told that we should study hard and did our best to enter in a good university,and the final destination they...

13 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 10 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read a book which is written by a philosopher,who said money may be treated as a necessity for foundmental livig but our life would be corrupted by luxury things.he pointed that the most confortable...

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xiaozuo hey my friends.here,what means do you think that can prevent these tragedise happenning?in my opinion,faith may be a good thing,i konw in USA,many people are Christians they have faith.but here in China,many peple dont have this kind of faith,and along with...

13 Dec 09

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xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

love money

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xiaozuo hi laglen!here her sister was in trouble,and she need the money at once.and now inmage this, her sister was in hospital,and she need 50,000 immediately for saving her life.in this situation i think i will lend allmy money.what is your opinion?

13 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo hi Orea15!maybe it is the crutule difference.here in China,when you lend money to your relatives, we seldom sign a contract about that.cuz in our pionts of view,it is natrule for us to help our relatives when they are in trouble.but here i konw how to do...

13 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo yeah i konw what to do now.thx for your response.and i am grateful that you can give me the suggestion.thx

13 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo hi orea15.i am sorry maybe i didnt describe the situation clearly.here they just want to borrow all the money.but i just want lend part of them.what will you do in this situation.would you like to borrow?

11 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo hi corrycrystal!image this,here her sister was in trouble,her sisters husband loaned 50,000 with high rate without telling her siter,and now they need to pay off the debt as soon as possible.while in this situation,would you borrow all your money to her?...

11 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo hi allen0817 i am a newer here and i really like to discuss with you here.i can get many suggestion here and thx for your response. for me love and even marriage is not the combination of two people but two familise,as least it is the situation here in...

11 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo i think the meaning of family is that we could help each other when some of them were in trouble.i can accept the latter choice,but i will reject the former one,just as you say ,we twos happiness is more important

11 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hi my fiends. i came cross a problem.in case you are a young man of 25,you live in a big city and the salary is not very high and you have got a girlfriend with you.and she has a elder sister.after working for 3years you made...

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xiaozuo i just want to found a family with my girlfriend.when her sister is in trouble,maybe i should do her a favor.and i agree with you my own future is the first task.

11 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 10 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read a book which is written by a philosopher,who said money may be treated as a necessity for foundmental livig but our life would be corrupted by luxury things.he pointed that the most confortable...

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xiaozuo i think the reason why you feel truly meant to be in the contry is that when you live there,you can touch the natrualest things and your spirit life can be more confortable. also technology brings much more convinient to our daily life,but wo should not...

11 Dec 09

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xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 10 Dec 09

hey my friends.recently,i read a book which is written by a philosopher,who said money may be treated as a necessity for foundmental livig but our life would be corrupted by luxury things.he pointed that the most confortable...

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xiaozuo luxurise is just like a coin.on one side,there is confort of luxuries,on the other side,there is the unfree spirit.most people in the big cities feel heavy pressure,they neglected they may dont need the luxuries at all.

10 Dec 09

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xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hey my friends. these days i am confused about one question,what is the essence o f love.my girlfriend and i love each other every much.but we are in different citise.it will takes 30hours for me to go to the city where she lives...

love precious

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xiaozuo thx Andy79.maybe we can understand each other well.yeah we should have faith in our love.we should sacrifice for each other,then we can get love from each other.and i think while scrificing,just dont care how much you can get.right?

8 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hey my friends. these days i am confused about one question,what is the essence o f love.my girlfriend and i love each other every much.but we are in different citise.it will takes 30hours for me to go to the city where she lives...

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xiaozuo hi ck3259.you must be a person who loves your girlfriend deeply.just as you responsed,we should love ourselves firstly then we can do our best to love others.and i think if you want ti be trust for each other the first step is you should be honest tollaly...

8 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 8 Dec 09

hey my friends. these days i am confused about one question,what is the essence o f love.my girlfriend and i love each other every much.but we are in different citise.it will takes 30hours for me to go to the city where she lives...

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xiaozuo yeah from my point of view,love can do everything,even can change one person.for example,i konw how to care and tolerant sb until i met my girflriend.i do cherish the time we are together,for we only meet each other just in summer and winter holiday.

8 Dec 09

xiaozuo @xiaozuo (38) • China 6 Dec 09

hi my dear friends it is monday today.i had a very crazy weekend ,i felt very tired this morning.so i skipped the classes.i felt kind of guilty.i am a university student.here i want to discuss with you, do you ofen skip classes in...

skip classes

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xiaozuo haha you must be a excellent student.

8 Dec 09

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