3mangesti

@3mangesti (28)

Indonesia • Age 50

Joined myLot 13 years ago

stay wilder than the wind ---- "come undone"

Responses (19)

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Prenuptial Agreements

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 31 Jan 12

Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? If so ,why? Or if not, why? Me? I would. Marriage to an richer person should be seen partly as a business. and I do believe there should be ground rules. And an agreement is a way to write it...

marriage

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3mangesti Prenup is important nowadays. Not only for money matters, but it could cover many things concerned for the marriage. Most people refuse to sign a prenup because it shows that we are not "love" him/her enough and even distrust, but I think better to prepare for...

31 Jan 12

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Need ideas: good, healthy lunches to pack that are easy and quick...

mhansen @mhansen (7) • United States 30 Jan 12

I am trying to eat healthier for weight loss but am tired of eating frozen diet meals and tuna for lunch. Any good suggestions that are nutritious, inexpensive and easy to fix?

healthy lunches

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3mangesti Fresh food is always healthier for diet. try to make time to cook the meals; one bowl meal is easy to make because it's only stir fry. Throw carrots (finely slice: matchstick), sprouts, bellpeppers (matchstick slice or diced, whatever), tofu or soya bean curd...

31 Jan 12

Last night I slept soundly,

deodavid @deodavid (4150) • Philippines 30 Jan 12

Hi Guys, Last Night I slept soundly, It was probably the best sleep that I have had for the longest time, i think I started sleeping before ten pm and I woke up at about 6 this morning, I just hope i have more of this this...

sleep

well

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3mangesti good for you :D I heard from somewhere (don't ask) getting older you'll get more difficult to have a good sleep, and it'll be getting late and late, from 12, then at 1 and then at 4. And in some cases, you only get cat-naps during nights.

31 Jan 12

Would you enjoy chatting to an old person?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 23 Jan 12

I was shopping and then went for a walk on the pier. I had a walk on the beach after that. A very old lady got chatting to me. She didn't have her glasses on and saw something white out at sea. I explained it was a white and...

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3mangesti Hi, I think I always attracting elderly people to come to me and chat. I dunno why they chose me, they just sit beside me and talk about everything, from their trouble at home, their health and their concerns about the nation... I will never rebuff or...

24 Jan 12

Are you an easily jealous person?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 9 Jan 12

Here is a co - worker of mine, she told me that her husband is a jealous type of person. He doesn't want her to work, because he afraid that she will talk to other male counterparts, which make him suspicious all the time. He...

jealous

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3mangesti Love or too much love is just the excuse to act insecure and over jealous. It's already obsession and even a sick obsession to posses the other person totally. Especially the husband was successfully instilled fear to his wife. Love is not kind of hurt,...

9 Jan 12

compulsive hoarders

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90722) • Philippines 9 Jan 12

An old woman was shown on TV to have hoarded a lot of things in their house. Even the steel materials that her dead husband keeps when he was alive, was stored because of their sentimental value. They were lots of broken...

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3mangesti My friend's mom was crying so hard, when her son threw her rusty iron wok away... when he cleaned up their house after renovation done. He complained to me about this and asked me where to find the similar iron wok that usually to cook Chinese food--stir fry...

9 Jan 12

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can you control your hunger / can you lose your appetite for food?????

apsara60 @apsara60 (6610) • Israel 8 Jan 12

Hi friends specially those who like me, are trying hard to loose weight........This is a bitter truth, but yet a fact that cannot be ignored that if we really want to loose weight we have to stop eating.....which is...

eating

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3mangesti I stopped my favourite foods long ago, not because I have to loose my weight, because my weight just alright (am such those people who are able to eat everything without any left in the body) but mostly because I can't eat it for health reasons... hahahaha...

9 Jan 12

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What is your recommendation for people who want to travel to your country?

skyxie @skyxie (63) 3 Jan 12

I am from Malaysia. My country has a lot of beautiful beaches and interesting places to visit. I myself didn't get managed to go to all the places here. However, if someone ask me what is the place that symbolize Malaysia, I...

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3mangesti Hiya... am from Bali, the thousand temples island or paradise island... :) well... whenever my friend asked me what to see and visit in Bali aside of the vast rice paddy field and gold sandy beaches and of course the historical temples, I would say it's so...

3 Jan 12

Will mobile phones nudge watches and calendars out?

vanny @vandana7 (100300) • India 1 Jan 12

It is new year again.. And I was looking at the pile of old calenders that I'd just pulled down from each and every room. They will be recycled of course. But were they really needed? That got me thinking.. My cell phone is...

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3mangesti Agreed with reallysuny, vandana... :D My real Calendar is showing a lot of happenings; from holidays, religion holidays, commemoration days, international commemoration days, and my Balinese Calendar also shows good days to be married, animal husbandry,...

1 Jan 12

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Hang your fabric instead of folding it! Keeps the fabric nicer!

coffeebreak @coffeebreak (17798) • United States 31 Dec 11

Well, I think I have it figured out. I have been working on ideas for organizing my fabric. Shelves just didn't work. To much re-folding when one piece is taken out, re-stacking to make the stacks neat, etc. I wanted something...

hanging fabric

storing fabric

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3mangesti Thank you for the idea, Coffeebreak. I have lot traditional fabric like "ikat and songket" that should be taken care of. Always scheduled for airy them, refolded and so on. again, thanks for the idea.

1 Jan 12

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Why we need "Hazing", such tradition just unacceptable

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 31 Dec 11

From news, college fraternity, or high school football teams love to play "Hazing" on rookies, or the new brotherhood members. They might adopted such bizarre activities such as hit them on the face, or spit on them, or other...

hazing

violence

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3mangesti Perhaps originally, "hazing" was to be bonded together with the peers and colleagues and teams. But the recent development of "hazing" become "bullying".

1 Jan 12

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Tis the season

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 28 Dec 11

I am feeling very down this season, only one person called me on Christmas day to wish me a Merry Chirstmas,I called many people. Of course I had quite a few emails from people from all over the world, but none from my home...

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3mangesti Wishing you a very happy Christmas and New Year, winterose and everyone here... :) Giving out of joy the first is a great thing you do for everyone close to you; heart and geographically :) Oh, I felt miserable too today, it's heavy rain everywhere in my...

28 Dec 11

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Writers Block

Karasu02 @Karasu02 (49) • United States 23 Dec 11

How do you get yourself out of a writers block? i heard listening to music helps but i'm not so sure I'm supposed to be updating a FanFiction story soon an i'm totally stumped can anyone tell me how to get out of Writers...

writers block advice help

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3mangesti leave it a moment and work with other assignments (if any) :D am not a novel writer or whatsoever, even though when you're only to write a report you'll also experiencing the block. just leave it a moment and pick another thing to do. fiddling with notes...

28 Dec 11

We humans are weird..

vanny @vandana7 (100300) • India 16 Dec 11

I was thinking I know more about wars than I know about Jonas Salk, Jarvis, Dr. Christian Bernard, Hargobind Khorana, Alexander Fleming, ...and even Marie Curie. I know more about Hitler than I know about Mother Theresa....

humans

mankind

weird

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3mangesti Wars, oppositions, struggling, battles just part of "living", hopefully we'll learn from them to move forward. People may give up, run away or just hide from that reality with eyes seem so dead, or we just fight with all strength and might to overcome our...

27 Dec 11

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