BrigittCindy111

@BrigittCindy111 (12)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 12 years ago

God help those who help themselves.

BrigittCindy111's Responses

What Lessons have you learned from LOVE?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 25 Dec 12

Love is many things, Love is always different, defined by many people, described by all of us, experienced by everyone.. and yes as you and i have experienced love, being loved, and to love... what lessons has it taught you,...

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BrigittCindy111 I recently read a book telling that love comes from your own heart, not from others. when you fall in love with some person and you feel loved,but that is actually your personal feeling and have nothing to do with that person.i am not going to argue that...

26 Dec 12

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Important in life: being intelligent or with common sense?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140118) • Philippines 22 Dec 12

I am not bragging about the difference between intelligent and common sense. In fact,I would like to have the two qualities, being a clever and smart person. I do believe that some people who are so intelligent, the common sense...

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BrigittCindy111 I think most people are just normal intelligent and have some common sense.some special intelligent person may be so absorbed in some subjects that they may lose or not be able to pick up what we called common sense, such as Big Bong Theory guys, but they are...

25 Dec 12

how would you react if your relative ran mad and undressed in public?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 20 Dec 12

My friend's brother was going through a tough time ,his wife had left him soon after he lost his job.i think all the stress caused him to lose it and one day when she was waiting for the bus to go to work she sees her brother...

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BrigittCindy111 Your friend did the right thing. i donnot think i will hesitate when faced with the same situation. talking about that situation is another thing because u cannot stop thinking of the embrassment and it is human nature to feel respected by others. but once you...

20 Dec 12

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What‘s your way of escaping the stress?

sunshinesophie @sunshinesophie (794) • China 20 Dec 12

Stress is our biggest enemies,and there are many kinds of stress,some caused by work,some by friend,family,even by ourselves. For me,I would get rid of my stress from work by talking with my good friends,sometimes I don't need...

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BrigittCindy111 I am more like a boy than a girl in dealing with stress. i prefer to stay alone untill get energy back. i constantly found benefits of stay alone. no need to worry about anything, be calm, stay in peace, then gradually being able to think logically instead of...

20 Dec 12

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When are you open minded?

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 19 Dec 12

When you can forgive and forget your worst enemy, Applaud him in his endeavors and efforts,irrespective of his dealings to you, Encourage him in his efforts,even if he never does it for you. Offer help and advise when you know...

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BrigittCindy111 I don't think it is good to be always open minded no matter to whom. Confucius ever said, justice in return for injustice, but no render good for evil. I surely agree that open minded is very important in relationships--friends, family members, lovers..but u...

19 Dec 12