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clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I call my girlfriend my wife we have been together that long. Living as married. But, honestly we are not legally married but every thinks we are. Its amazing how I feel married I call her my wife but officially we are not...

family

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Dj_jess Its not that easy to decide to get married also if your not prepared financialy,physicaly and emotionaly. Poeple should get married in that reasons. Accepting your partners nagative side is the most important for me because most poeple who are married suddenly...

25 Feb 07

unpretty14 @unpretty14 (63) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isn't it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this...

love

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Dj_jess Yes Ive been inlove so many times actually it hurts, We have done all the effort to build and to maintain relationships but in the end we end up falling like a glass full of memories. Yes, but I beleave that someday I will be a strong person who will learn to...

25 Feb 07

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

i live in a house with my mother, two brothers and my mothers boyfriend. for a long time he has been hitting me. its not always hard enough to leave a bruise but sometimes it is. i love my mum so much and know she loves him, if...

abuse

help

hurt

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Dj_jess It depends on you, wether you stay if you can still eas the bruises or avoid the conflict between that guy. Also you have the right to report to the authority of what abuse he had done to you if you are in the minor age. If your concern to your self maybe for...

25 Feb 07

Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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Dj_jess No that's not rude because you are giving them the previlage to choose what they want. For them to realize, they should think that its a meaningful gift in the form of money you gave to them so they have to spend it wisely.

25 Feb 07

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Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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22 people

Dj_jess No that's not rude because you are giving them the previlage to choose what they want. For them to realize, they should think that its a meaningful gift in the form of money you gave to them so they have to spend it wisely.

25 Feb 07

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2 people

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 24 Feb 07

My husband and I have been seperated for a few months now. And last night was the first time I have been out without any kids since Sept. of last yr. And did I have a good time. Well, this guy that is a friend of my brother was...

cheating

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Dj_jess No it's ok thats not cheating. You only enjoyed yourself because your lonely with your husband. It's not cheating unless you thoughts is further more as a friend to him. Maybe to others but dont feel about it. its natural to have fun and enjoy.

25 Feb 07

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marief2rnurse @marief2rnurse (2704) • United States 22 Feb 07

I've had 2 live in relationships that failed. One was with an irresponsible guy who started to cheat on me so I ended it. The second one was with a guy who was 40 and could not commit. I have 3 kids and I am very happy with them...

relationships

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Dj_jess The first decision you made was right, and the second one perhaps will not work because there are tendencies in that person that he will backout and im sure its difficult for him to deal with your loving kids because in the first place he could not commit....

23 Feb 07

Dj_jess @Dj_jess (8) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

My girl-friend and I trusted each other. We been maintaning our relationship for more than 3yrs and now were far from each other for my future reason for her. what is the best way to maintain our treasured love for each other now...

relationship

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3 people

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