GaryJoule

@GaryJoule (211)

China • Age 44

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Where there is a will, there is a way

GaryJoule's Comments

What should you do if your boss say No when you are going to resign?

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 2 Dec 09

Now I have a trouble with my job.Because my boss have a bad temper and the work is boring,I want to chang a job,so I submit my letter of resignation.But She disagreed.What should do?If you met case like this,what will you do?

work fire boss

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GaryJoule yeah. She can't really stop you from leaving. Just do it after labor contract. It's not your company, you don't have to care a lot about whether there is some one taking over your job or not.

4 Dec 09

How do you meet people to date when you move to a new city?

pviles2 @pviles2 (1) • United States 2 Dec 09

I've just moved to Austin Texas (for work) and I don't know anyone here. I haven't had a date in almost 2 months. In the past, I'd always met my girlfriends through my friends, but I don't really have any friends yet here... just...

austin dating

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GaryJoule "...but you have to put effort into it. It won't happen if you stay inside your house all the time and never interact with people..." Good point. Agree with you totally. These months I've wasted a lot of time inside house and got bored day by day. I'll...

4 Dec 09

Anyone want to learn Chinese? Charge Free !!!

GaryJoule @GaryJoule (211) • China 30 Oct 09

I'm Chinese and I'd like to take a student here to teach him Chinese. I enjoy the process of helping others. I'll be very happy for any progress made by us. My target is after effort of one or two years, you could speak...

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GaryJoule Do you? I added you as friend but never get response. It seems you already forgot the Chinese learning stuff.

3 Dec 09

A tight hug of our loved ones keep us feel......

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 24 Nov 09

Especially when we are sorrow not in good mood when we get a tight hug from our loved ones we feel something like relief....mean it's a feeling...what do u say? even if we cry with a tight hug and cry off.....what all we feel...

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GaryJoule Hah~~ It sounds so helpful. But in China we are always shy to give hug to others, especially in public. Maybe it's just part of Chinese culture. We incline to keeping everything in mind and being not used to express ourselves freely.

24 Nov 09

Are you proud of being you?

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 21 Nov 09

I am proud of being who i am. I am who i am. I am proud of myself because i know what is right and what is wrong. I am proud of myself because i know how to do the right things right. I am proud of myself because i am not...

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GaryJoule What a environmentalism! U a right, All of us should do something to protect our planet. Ever vice-president Gore made a good video to explain the "Green House Effect", it sounds the current environmental situation is so horrible. I'm worried very much.

23 Nov 09

unhappy in the workplace

emtjody @emtjody (37) • United States 19 Nov 09

Does everyone have times when they would like to just walk away from their job? Times when it sounds so good to just hide from everyone and not leave the house?

work

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GaryJoule Congradulations. you got through that tough time and made a difference. I always wanna get back to university as well, but how can I take my kid along?how can I leave my family behind. I'm the big supporter of my family, I have no chance to get away...

20 Nov 09

How far into a relationship do you start thinking about the future?

skaterx @skaterx (530) • Finland 17 Nov 09

I was just curious, and curious whether it was different for men or women. Or also at what age did you start seeking a serious relationship, or someone you hope to be with forever? When I first fell enough I felt happy to be...

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GaryJoule Daliaj- The arranged marriage happening in India is just like the Chinese did thirty years ago. My parents got together the way just like what you said. however, to our new generation, we have the rights of free love. Marriage is not controlled by...

18 Nov 09

What lies inside the mind of a criminal?

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 10 Nov 09

Have you experienced having an encounter with a criminal? What do you think are the things that runs on their mind when they are doing such cruel things? Why do they do it? How do they do it? How do they planned it? What is the...

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GaryJoule If you google "criminal mind", you'll get a lot of websites, you could watch it online. Nowadays the B2B technology develops maturely, watching TV online is easy. I think you'll love this show. I'm a big fan of it.

13 Nov 09

Don't you just simply hate it when...

oasis_9 @oasis_9 (831) • Philippines 30 Oct 09

Someone you know ask you for a favor and you just can't say no to...Well its understandable if you do a favor for a friend but what if its just from a random person you meet on the street or a bus? I have been in this kind of...

favor

helping

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GaryJoule Agree completely. I won't give him the phone, but I'll help him to send the message or call someone. That's just what I always do.

30 Oct 09

Does anybody want to learn Chinese?

kariterr @kariterr (12) 18 Aug 08

I'm happy to be here to meet many friends. I'm a Chinese teacher of Junior High School. Does anybody want to learn Chinese? Maybe I can help you. Good luck!

learn chinese

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GaryJoule Stcherry- Do you really want to learn Chinese? or just a hot-blooded crime of passion? If you are really interested in Chinese and able to stick to it for at least some months, I'd like to give you the offer. It's kinda like network-based distance...

22 Oct 09

How do you cope up with ‘Small hours’.

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58678) • Delhi, India 22 Oct 09

Hi friends! When we get up in the morning, it appears that the clock is ticking at a faster speed and we never come to know how quickly the time passes in the morning. That is why morning hours are called ‘small...

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GaryJoule I always wake up a few minutes before the clock rings. I think it's biological clock's working here. Small hours seems never so rushed to me. cos I always get everything done teh evening before, I never expect to remember to do it in the small hours.

22 Oct 09

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How much are you willing to teach your new colleague ?

GaryJoule @GaryJoule (211) • China 23 Sep 09

These days one problem runs through my head occasionally. One new colleague has joined my team for months and she is the type of quick-learner. I'm assigned as mentor to lead her onto the way. At the first several days I'm happy...

colleague

office

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GaryJoule Thanks for your response. Indeed it's a bit difficult to make certain she's wanting out of this position then get me or just wanting to learn and be there to help out. Even without her help I can't get my work done well. That's just why this annoy all...

19 Oct 09